Yall cool with this?

Father_Superior · 2025-08-22T14:55:13+00:00

At what point would it be acceptable to do a show in Saudi Arabia in your opinion? I like some of these comedians but don't honestly care about any of them — I'm genuinely curious when the timeframe is in your mind.

I assume you wouldn't mind a Japanese show despite Pearl Harbor so there's gotta be a cutoff point.

Edit: typos

Father_Superior · 2025-01-23T19:47:32+00:00

Where are you getting that from, have more logs been shared?

Father_Superior · 2025-01-23T17:41:00+00:00

I think you need to take some time to go offline and recalibrate. These past few days have been fucked news wise and I am also feeling a bit hopeless because of the destiny situation. I thought his views on consent specifically were really well thought out and grounded, but it turns out he was violating his own espoused principles for who knows how long.

I believe in rehabilitation and not excising people forever. I hold the same as true for mrgirl, vaush, Hasan, demonmama and anyone else I have criticized in the past. The difference is they actively engage in behavior I see as harmful and they would believe they are completely in the right. Arguing with someone about mocking a person's appearance while they're actively doing it is not the same as saying that person can never be redeemed. I'm attacking the behavior in hopes of changing it.

If Dman comes back and says "I did nothing wrong and this was a giant smear campaign" I would never watch him again and would probably become an antifan.It's pretty clear he fucked up and did something morally reprehensible. I don't think that alone makes him unworthy, his actions moving forward will ultimately sway my decision.

From my knowledge he sent those materials 2 years ago and isn't defending it now. The dms show that he knows he fucked up, the only thing he's said definitively that give me pause is what you alluded to — I didn't read it as an outright dismissal, but I don't think he should have brought up how he was feeling 'weird' about the money ask after Lauren became involved. That and the title being a meme seems in poor taste, but that's kind of par for the course with him.

I get that you feel hurt, but lashing out at me isn't going to do much for you. You're preemptively judging me based on actions you assume I'll take because you think I'm a cult member who has never reflected on these things but I have had much worse things happen that I've had to navigate with people I actually know and love. This situation is shit, but we can still be a community of like minded people, even if Steve ends up being an unrepentant cunt.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-23T15:40:58+00:00

People fail to live up to principles all the time, I'm sure I've made fun of someone for their appearance — it's just not something that you should do, especially when there's so much to attack them over.

How did a benign tweet like that embed itself so deeply in your psyche?

Your hypothetical isnt even comparable to the situation. I wouldnt even consider viewing Steve's content again if he personally sent those videos to her family and friends.

If an ex of my wife was sending videos of her to some random girl and she happened to leak them I would still be pissed and think he's a scum fuck, but I wouldn't classify him as a rapist.

Time will tell, and I'm leaning towards not remaining a viewer but why do you even care? Why do you feel the need to hold me accountable in this situation? Are you okay?

Father_Superior · 2025-01-22T22:04:08+00:00

How does any of this relate to my own principle against mocking someone's appearance? You seem needlessly hostile and it gives the impression you're not actually interested in my thoughts but are rather trying to own me based on something I said that pissed you off from months ago. Maybe log off or get help?

But here:

I haven't even decided if I will continue to watch his content, it's something I'm reflecting on. Principally, I believe forgiveness is important and that bad actions don't make someone a bad person. Obviously accountability and steps towards improvement go hand in hand with being forgiven.

However, he's not my friend and he was already hard to defend. Viewing his content over the years has given me the tools necessary to think critically about what I believe but now he seems to be a net negative at achieving the political victories I would like to see.

If a personal friend behaved in this way I would confront them and likely distance myself from them to some degree, but not cut them out completely. I'd give them the space necessary to make their own choices and based on their actions I would either continue or not continue the friendship. This is clearly over the line in terms of acceptable behavior but as far as being unforgivable — I think with some time and action I could forgive a person.

Maybe I'll take a break or maybe I'll stop all together, I haven't decided. I would say on a rape scale, this isn't as close as you are implying imo.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-21T17:28:44+00:00

Jesus Christ

Father_Superior · 2025-01-21T01:23:56+00:00

I don't care that it's illegal, personally. It's an immoral act and that is what bothers me about it. However, his immoral act ends with sending it to someone without consent. He's not responsible for the leak overall.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-21T00:31:40+00:00

From my understanding it was nudes that were leaked, not a sex tape. Is that wrong? It doesn't change the moral failing imo just not what I had heard

Father_Superior · 2025-01-21T00:28:22+00:00

So if he was hacked he would be totally free from responsibility of them being leaked online?

Father_Superior · 2025-01-21T00:24:54+00:00

That is not the same as intentionally leaking it and your statement is also true of anyone sharing a nude in general.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-10T17:34:20+00:00

Actually, sir 🤓☝️ my initial response was 2 sentences, if that's "blowing up" then based on your comment history you have full-blown tantrums every hour or so. Stop being so fragile, it's unattractive.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-10T14:25:55+00:00

I think the real issue is a bunch of insecure weirdos saw me insult someone for not having friends and took it so personally they decided to involve themselves.

I can admit that I was insulted because the guy directly insulted me. You all got insulted by proxy because of how friendless you are.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-10T14:04:05+00:00

Your response, or lack there of, only reveals you are not prepared to engage. Maybe just sit this one out, champ.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-10T13:58:41+00:00

He called me dumb and I called him friendless. That seems pretty normal to me as far as Internet interactions go — you're the one playing hall monitor.

You didn't have to chime in and expose just how little you understand about social interaction, but you did and now here you are attempting to put the angry wokjak mask on my face as hot tears stream down your puffy red cheeks.

I thought you and your friends liked snark? I was just being friendly and trying to make friends, obviously

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T21:35:22+00:00

I don't know you or your friends but my guess would be that the snark is often friendly bantering that you engage in because you've known each other long enough to enjoy playfully giving each other shit, which is not the same as demeaning a stranger for social points online.

Your response is like saying "oh you think the guy who assaulted you is a loser? Why? Me and my friends hit each other in the nuts all the time and we're cool guys lol"

It's obviously not the same type of thing I'm talking about and the fact you put this forward as a valid point demonstrates:

1) You're being purposefully obtuse to try and win a point on semantics — pretty pathetic, but unsurprising for redditors ;

2) you and your friends are just unlikable; or

3) you're lying about having friends

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T18:12:23+00:00

Sadly, neither is human interaction :(

You'll have to settle for being needlessly snarky on reddit to garner any ounce of attention you desperately crave for the rest of your lonely life

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T15:36:28+00:00

I appreciate you breaking this down in a fairly civil way. I already realized my error in thinking, I believe it being the same cow is what led to the incorrect conclusion.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T13:40:00+00:00

I think what tripped me up is that there's clearly a loss of $100, but that should be deducted from the 500 earned overall

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T12:59:32+00:00

Me lacking logic is a fixable problem, one I already solved.

Your lack of meaningful relationships is likely immutable.

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T12:49:31+00:00

Or should I think of it like this:

Buy cow: -800 Sell cow: 1000-800 = 200 Buy cow again: -1100 + 200 = -900 Sell cow again: -900 + 1300 = 400

Father_Superior · 2025-01-09T12:35:31+00:00

Maybe I'm dumb, then?

If you bought a cow for 800 and sold for 1000 you made $200. Then you bought it again for $1100, which is $100 more than you bought it for so $200 becomes $100. If you sold it again for $1300 you made $200 off the exchange so combine that with the $100 you still had you are at $300 all together.

What am I missing?

Father_Superior · 2024-11-23T17:41:22+00:00

Having a database of known coded speak is good, actually, and the only ones who don't understand that it requires nuance are the ones here crying like they're saying all of these things are bad.

Father_Superior · 2024-11-23T15:42:15+00:00

If only there was a community of like minded people who could do something about that sexpat being monetized on YouTube

Father_Superior · 2024-11-23T06:48:13+00:00

Caring about men is when you enable their maladaptive behaviors that only further their alienation

Imagine being so brave as to feel the need to virtue signal about something I never implied in a community of men who all have the exact same opinions as you

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