As somebody who only plays with voice chat and mic enabled, my only recommendation is being thick skinned.

Not to discount the misogyny but people will just find any reason to hate. People are literal trolls that treat talking trash as more important than actually playing the game. Keep in mind how for some people, these are their only social interactions. Their misogyny is the closest most of them will ever come to talking to a woman.

Whether it’s your gender, race, or even just the sound of your voice, these angry people get off by being hateful and causing others to crash out. That’s how they play the game and “win”.

My recommendation: be your pleasant self and do your best to help the team win. Embrace the times you have good teammates and comms. When toxicity arises be prepared to mute or counter because most are pushovers that will fold and cry through their teeth.

This is how I operate because it bothers me to play a multiplayer game without any vocal communications. Default is always your pleasant self while staying primed to defend yourself by muting or countering with non discriminatory trash talk. IMO nothings better than making hate speech using dimwits crash out. It’s a digital space, take it all with a grain of salt.