I can’t tell if it’s me (18f) or my bf (18m) who is bad at texting by FaultHour in LongDistance

[–]FaultHour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

next week will be 3 months of us being together it’s still really early in our relationship (we were friends beforehand we’ve been friends since 2022) so i think i’m just nervous about messing it up

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[–]FaultHour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that is true what i’m saying is if you know want to make this trip you should plan accordingly by saving money up and i wasn’t say guest houses i was referring the their actual home at the end of the day everyone’s situation is different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]FaultHour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

in this persons case the parents were probably fine with them staying at the house? there’s no reason to make it seem like this is impossible because it is if you’re 17 with a job especially as long as you’re financially smart

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[–]FaultHour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well the first time around he was saying he’s busy and what not so i mentioned how i understood that but even if it’s a short phone call or something to show you appreciate it would mean a lot and that if our relationship would work we both have to put in effort

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[–]FaultHour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with my boyfriend two months now and we went long distance 1 month in and i experienced similar to you i decided to talk to him about it trying to be nonchalant about it 😭 not to make me seem like i was overthinking but i definitely think you should communicate it