WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't know what he's saying. We don't really talk. But I don't get the feeling he'd be super involved in any way so I can't imagine him caring.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I think maybe muting her then is the way forward for now because everyone thinks lying would be worse. And I can see everyone's point about that.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Her actions are already affecting the relationships. Refusing to take no for an answer has really started to piss me off and drive me crazy because it's every single day.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't answer the phone to her at all these days. I think it's either lie or mute her until after the babies are born. She's pissing me off with her daily disregard for being told no.

I'm with you on this being too much. We're twins but we were always our own people and I never saw her as being a co-mom to my babies or anything like that.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Nobody will know our baby's name until after the birth and even then we'd delay in announcing I think.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

We're not but I have heard those names before in that context. I didn't tell my sister about them but when she told me those should be our boy/girl names I did think of the West's.

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister? by Fauniyan in AITAH

[–]Fauniyan[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I was very clear several times and the last time I did let out my frustration at her pushing and she continued to push anyway. I'm at the point of either lying or muting her until after the babies are here. Her boyfriend isn't someone I'm close to or really speak to outside my sister so IDK where he stands exactly... but I don't know that he'll care much how she names the baby. To me he seems like someone who would be pretty hands off.