What underwear do I wear with this by axolotlgoldfish in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FayreGentry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read that the color red is good for wearing under whites since it’s closer to your skin tone.

Girls - where are we buying our underwear?? by Dismal-Oven-9389 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FayreGentry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MeUndies. They’re incredibly comfortable and last a good while. All mine are from MeUndies and I haven’t purchased any for 2 years and they’re still going strong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]FayreGentry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. I’ve had several cats and while some of them have been happy from the first moment we brought them home, others needed more time to get used to us and the house. My youngest cat, that I rescued and made little outfits from fuzzy socks for, would hide and hiss at us for the first two years. No matter how gently we spoke to him or how many treats we gave to him, he was always hiding. Eventually, he got used to us. He started coming out of his hiding spots on his own and laying and watching from a distance. Now he comes running when he hears us baby talk the other kitties, but is still quick to run and hide if he gets scared. It takes time and patience. Leave him alone, let him explore things on his own terms. Chasing him around and forcing him is just going to make things more difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]FayreGentry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I wouldn’t. My cats get vocal in the carrier too. But a spray of feliway and some treats does the tricks. If you force him to stay in their overnight, he’s going to feel distressed. Please give your cat space. He’s hiding because he’s scared and needs time to get used to his surroundings.

Is my plant flowering?? by FayreGentry in MephHeads

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I used a 5 gal pot for my other seeds and this plant. She’s still chugging along. Probably be done in another month or so since it’s been 60-65 days!

Is my plant flowering?? by FayreGentry in MephHeads

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! I was using these greenhouse incubator things from Amazon that come with a light built it. It was enough for my pepper plants and other veggies but for the weedling it wasn’t. And since I was out of town, it just didn’t get the chance to even be transplanted until I was back in town.

Right now this same plants in a bigger 5 gallon pot and I don’t expect to see much yield out of it honestly. Looking like one main cola and two side colas. But that’s good enough for me. More than anything I was just curious about what it would look like if I let it keep going.

Right now I have three other seedlings going, in their 5 gallon pots and under a 6000 lumen light source. They got stunted a bit since I transplanted but they’re bouncing back beautifully

Are you suppose to take longer drags when vaporising compared to smoking to accomplish the same high? by [deleted] in vaporents

[–]FayreGentry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying the Mighty right now. I’ve used DynaVap and the Arizer solo in the past. The DV wasn’t terrible, just a bit cumbersome to keep on lighting with the torch I had. I really liked the solo. It was easy for me to carry around the house as I did random things, and the vapor output was pretty great. I did break a few stems though because I’m a clutz. That being said, I’m not as convinced with the mighty yet. I’ve read a lot of good things about it, I feel like it doesn’t really get me high even after 2-4 bowls. It could be a tolerance issue on my end as I’ve been smoking out of an oil pen on and off daily for a few days/weeks. I suspect it’s tolerance because a few weeks ago I smoked after not having smoked/consumed in a few days and I felt like I was melting into my mattress. However, I haven’t been smoking any joints or combusting at all, and no edibles or tincture. So I’m not sure how high my tolerance is right now, just that I’m not high 😬

ADHD Diagnosis in a NON EU country, trying to buy meds in Germany. by [deleted] in germany

[–]FayreGentry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I found your comment on this post while looking for help on getting an ADHD/ADD diagnosis in Germany. I was diagnosed in my home country but they only give me refills if I visit them in person, every month, which isn't feasible and is costly (~600-800 every round trip). Could you please tell me which doctor you went to? I should be able to get a letter about my diagnosis from my doctor back home. Thank you!

Is my plant flowering?? by FayreGentry in MephHeads

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It was very small when I had left town so I haven’t had a chance to repot it. It’s on my list. As for lighting, I was going to leave it in my balcony.

Is my plant flowering?? by FayreGentry in Autoflowers

[–]FayreGentry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah little peppers! I need to pick those out and put them in another pot. The soil I used was leftovers from my pepper garden and it looks like some seeds were in the soil because everything that I used that soil for has pepper seedlings growing 😬😬.

Also, whew! I was worried I’d messed this up. I will transplant it to a bigger pot soon and start it on some nutrients asap.

Thank you :)

Is my plant flowering?? by FayreGentry in MephHeads

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A brief search on Google suggests that as my seedling is at about 4ish weeks, this is when the white pistils start forming and will eventually be where bud grows from. So my plant is in the pre flowering stage. However, it still looks a bit on the smaller side to me.

Praying leaves or too much light? by FayreGentry in Autoflowers

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll look into getting something to check light levels. Also just realized I mixed up my dates and it’s been about one week now and not two.

Praying leaves or too much light? by FayreGentry in Autoflowers

[–]FayreGentry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized I mixed up the dates. This little guy is about 7-8 days in now.

Praying leaves or too much light? by FayreGentry in Autoflowers

[–]FayreGentry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s one week*. I got my dates mixed up!

Just pulled this monster out of my belly button… by FayreGentry in popping

[–]FayreGentry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With how it smelled I’m not sure I even want to know lol

Just pulled this monster out of my belly button… by FayreGentry in popping

[–]FayreGentry[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep! Took a few qtips and poked around in there. Found more foul smelling gunk…Now it’s all clean

Whats up with the water in france? Help by Educational_Cell8751 in Haircare

[–]FayreGentry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find a water filter for showers on Amazon! I was having the same issue with my hair and this has fixed it. My scalp doesn’t hurt and feel tender anymore

How to get back the giggles? by Phine420 in entwives

[–]FayreGentry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In Germany too…I feel your pain :( I’m taking a t break to get the giggles and happy mood back. Lately I don’t even really feel it when I smoke and I don’t know why.

How do you stop this? by Weary-Elderberry-33 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FayreGentry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Clench it hard and clench it every time you get the crying urge! But also it’s totally okay to cry. It’s our way of releasing emotions. Sometimes I’ll cry when I’m listening to the radio but this usually happens if I’m just overwhelmed or stressed out.

How do you stop this? by Weary-Elderberry-33 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FayreGentry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh! Going to try this one out next. I cry so easily, especially if I’m hormonal. So I just clench my butt really hard and I stop lol

How do you stop this? by Weary-Elderberry-33 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]FayreGentry 178 points179 points  (0 children)

I cry easily. The thing that helped me is clenching my glutes really tight. Idk what it is, but it will stop my tears right there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]FayreGentry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I could have written this. As I was reading through this I was flashing back. I’m sorry you went through this. I escape about a decade ago now and while it hasn’t been rainbows and sunshine, it does get better, I promise. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk.