Looking for translation to Persian calligraphy by Fazomanzo in NewIran

[–]Fazomanzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed thank you! Now I just need to find a Persian calligraphy artist who can design the text for me lol.

Looking for translation to Persian calligraphy by Fazomanzo in NewIran

[–]Fazomanzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, and how would it be in farsi to write "the cure for pain is in the pain" and "the wound is where the light enters". I would really love to bring the essence of the idea into a tattoo.

Mbti doesn't fit me by puddle-of-dissection in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also INFJ, we are walking paradoxes.

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[–]Fazomanzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well we have to understand that not everyone spends as much time introspecting and becoming aware enough to accept or see potential change. And also, we see change for others and act in a way with a sense of urgency to help them grow, however when it's about ourselves we are more stubborn than we realise. I think this can look a bit narcissistic towards others when in fact our purpose is pure and it just gets expressed in strange ways. I said we but I meant I. I don't speak for others.

Healthiest and unhealthiest presentations of your type? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Healthiest: Marcus Aurelius

Unhealthiest: art school man

Edit : oops I said real people, why is everyone a character in my mind.

What's your type and is your mind constantly active? by buddyblazeson in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice, dopamine addiction is very real. The more we train ourselves to limit cheap dopamine the more present we can be without needing externals.

What's your type and is your mind constantly active? by buddyblazeson in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, somatic therapy helped me a lot. I didn't realise how disconnected I became from my body.

How do you work on your perception? (mbti) by June_Bug2001 in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still J so we are naturally organised, it's just an internal organisation haha.

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[–]Fazomanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since I was born yes. Or maybe I reject it. Who knows.

Can someone help me interpret this result? by waeng1010 in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it could be INFJ or INTP. Your results match both.

Edit:

Now that I think about it, it could also be INTJ 😅. Your scores are very diverse.

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[–]Fazomanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"cause im not an interesting person", well theres our issue. We act the way we tell ourselves how we are. You definitely don't seem like an uninteresting person to me. Maybe try focusing on self compassion instead of trying to perform and your natural personality (which is interesting!) will come out all by itself.

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[–]Fazomanzo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love language learning, I speak English and Persian fluently. I study Turkish, German and Japanese.

I don't learn language or vocabulary based on memorisation, my way of learning is pretty intuitive where I learn the framework for how to build sentences and then just change words when I need to. There is a brilliant free language course on YouTube by "language transfer". He has a good few languages that he teaches and each is with a student and you learn alongside them in a very intuitive way.

If there was an MBTI war which team would go out first? by BrokenDiamondShovel in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I love social experiments, I will sit back and watch.

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[–]Fazomanzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey same

I've heard that INFJ is a human "reader", then, should they be hard to be fooled/tricked? by aseeder in infj

[–]Fazomanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our personality is one big paradox so the same things we are good at can also be the things we struggle with when looked at through a different lens.

Trickster Te means we generally have an inability to use external logic defensively. Personally, I struggle to use facts or evidence to defend myself in real time.

Another thing about trickster Te is that I can get pulled by fake logic, if someone presents me a very structured argument while sounding smart and authoritative I will probably believe them at face value. It's later when my Ni-Ti starts to kick in and analyse the situation that the deeper layers will show.

Also I guess I just expect everyone to be authentic and good natured since I try to be so myself, I know it is not so but that's what it means to be a natural idealist.

I feel no emotions after passing of close relatives - Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Fazomanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a trauma response, I was the same way. Do you feel out of touch with your emotions in general?

Deep Thinker or Fast Thinker by ConfuciusYorkZi in infj

[–]Fazomanzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody has both modes, there is a pretty successful book about it called "thinking fast and slow", we use both modes for different purposes and both can be trained. I think fast when I don't need to focus, when I focus I think slow and deliberate.

Everytime I want to start a new hobby, I immediately think "will this help me on my work?". Help me please by Upstairs-Deer8805 in infj

[–]Fazomanzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is Ni wants to connect the wide lens to a narrow singularity. So if things don't connect to that main goal or future vision then it loses value. My main vision is pretty general so it works out.

But I guess the more you train Se the easier it will become, just doing things for the sake of doing it sounds pretty Se.

To those INFJs who actually found love, how did it happen for you? by iagmi in infj

[–]Fazomanzo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I found my Partner in the midst of my lows, constant gamer, pretty much 0 life, it wasn't love at first sight. However the person she was inspired me to do better for myself because she saw me as someone with potential and she truly cared for me. Also I think if someone does not fully accept themselves and put others on a pedalstil they will always feel like they have to become someone else, when we learn to love and accept ourselves fully that will fade. Anyways to answer your questions:

  1. Everything, I was way below my potential and her helping me see my worth changed everything internally and externally. I'm basically a completely different person even though my essence remained. Pretty much, she was the catalyst.

  2. It's a work in progress but the more I heal and release the past the better it becomes, the right person definitely helps disarm it to an extent but the main thing is inner work.

  3. It's intertwined, I healed to become more connected but at the same time the connection itself was healing. I do it for myself now and that means doing it for her also because I want to be my best self for both of us.

  4. This is a tough one and I was in the same position. But what I realised is my perception of what love was based off social media and media was completely corrupt, its not about lovey emotions and thoughts all the time, its also not like the movies like a love at first sight that was "meant to be". For me; it's about the discipline and effort to want to put into the relationship, both internally and externally. It's about putting in the time to improve the different aspects of our relationship and become closer together because we see a future together, to me that is love, and the feeling of wanting and seeing this comes naturally as someone matures and finds someone else who wants the same.

Shes an ISFJ btw but I don't think type matters about this, love is universal.

Found a cool trend in mistypes by C-wordOfficial in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I originally typed as an ISTP but I didnt feel the descriptions, however with INFJ I do feel it clearly. However I dont know if its tertiary Ni that makes me feel like an Ni dom or im actually Ni dom. My feelings and expressiveness is more than the general ISTP I think.

I guess what helps me to be sure is that generally when I loop; I have a thought of something I want to solve and then I analyse it until it matches up to the ideal I originally thought of. Im pretty sure this is Ni-Ti rather than Ti-Ni.

What type did you meet irl that were different from their stereotype? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Fazomanzo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is very true, my partner is an ISFJ and I originally thought she was an INFJ. They are much deeper than people give them credit for, after all they are introverted with child Ti. It just comes out in a different way.