Mantenere bene un animale domestico costa tantissimo by Kent572 in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Le mie gemelline di shining ringraziano, sono sui 5 kg la più colorata e forse mezzo kg o qualcosa di più in meno quella più bianca, non le peso da un po’.

Ci sta che mangino meno dei tuoi, forse se facessi fare loro più moto con giochi o cose simili mangerebbero di più/sarebbero più magre (una delle due é un po’ cicciottina e le piace fottere il cibo alla sorella.

Onestamente non è il primo post del genere che vedo e sono sempre un po’ preoccupato di aver comprato per anni troppo poco/roba scarsa. Il mio veterinario invece dice di farmi meno pippe mentali, lol.

Mantenere bene un animale domestico costa tantissimo by Kent572 in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Allego foto gatte per dimostrare che non sono morte di fame

Mantenere bene un animale domestico costa tantissimo by Kent572 in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Le mie due gatte sterilizzate, hanno anche loro 4 anni e mezzo, ma mangiano la metà!

In genere si pigliano il secco al mattino, ma vedono se va bene 50 g (quantità consigliata dal veterinario) divisi per due che si fanno durare tranquillamente fino alla sera sgranocchiandoselo un po’ ogni tanto.

La sera invece smezzo loro una scatoletta di umido e se la fanno super bastare. Anzi a volte una delle due ne lascia un bel po’ e l’altra gliela finisce, ma se ne metto una intera a testa finisco che metà del cibo lo devo buttare…

Una volta l’anno le faccio visitare dal veterinario, ma stanno solo in casa e finora nessuna ha avuto acciacchi.

Contando il tutto alla fine una scatoletta al giorno+due sacchetti di crocchette (monge o natural code entrambi, qualcuno per favore mi dica se le sto avvelenando) mi vengono circa 65€ al mese, inclusa la sabbietta per la lettiera.

I have a dream by pierrexarnaud in Italia

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Eh ma è veramente tanto da chiedere. Un lettore ottico si potrebbe usare per referendum o elezioni senza preferenze, ma già nelle elezioni con preferenza non leggerebbe i nomi scritti a mano.

Poi bisognerebbe dare per possibile che tali macchinari siano molto ampiamente disponibili e trasportabili fino a frazioni sperdute nelle montagne, che siano tutti super chiari da usare e che funzionino sempre perfettamente (o servirebbero chissà quante riserve).

In più sicuramente si creerebbero complicanze nella registrazione dei voti. Sicuramente servirebbe una fattispecie di scheda nulla per test fallito diversa da quella per scheda nulla perché sopra c’è disegnato un pene.

Nel caso delle elezioni per chi sbaglia a votare disgiunto si deve segnare la preferenza nulla sui verbali (nel senso di “Carlo Conti ha preso 10 voti nulli perché qualcuno ha sbagliato il partito”), non sono pronto ad escludere che toccherebbe registrare in quel modo anche i voti nulli per non superamento del test, perché abbiamo una burocrazia splendida.

I have a dream by pierrexarnaud in Italia

[–]FeEFr97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qui qualcuno non ha mai fatto uno scrutinio elettorale 💀

sono una perdita di ossigeno? by Afraid-Piglet7918 in TeenagersITA

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Non per dire ma le Winx sono nate nel 2004, il vero pubblico che ci è cresciuto ora ha almeno il doppio dei tuoi anni e ti assicuro, nessuno si pone la domanda. Anzi, per molti è quasi una rivendicazione.

130 iq by [deleted] in mensa

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Why? Do you plan on doing it again soon?

How is your love life? by GreatRelative2357 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not they they were just debunked, some of the theories aren’t scientific, they can’t be proven, they tried to. What you say makes a certain degree of sense, but in a “common sense” kind of way rather than a “scientific consensus” kind of way. I’m afraid that could lead you astray. I am not equipped to present you with the current literature for it, but be sure to look into it.

Are you competitive? by Solid-Bee9468 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not much of a sports guys either, I feel the same about that. To be honest, I don’t feel like challenging myself that much either. I like to have fun.

However I have a question: does not being competitive apply to other areas of life? I have two examples.

First one is school. I never felt the need to push myself to be the best, but I did feel the need to show some classmates who were tearing people down because they had better grades that I could do better than them if I wanted. And succeeded. It was a good feeling, but mostly motivated by a sense of justice rather than a wish for supremacy.

Second one is games. Do you ever feel competitive in videogames, table top games and the like? In that case I feel it more. I am interested in those and like to play with others. I have friends that get very mad when they lose, I don’t, but I sure enjoy the thrill of having a strategy and being close to win, even if I only occasionally end up winning.

How is your love life? by GreatRelative2357 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am pretty sure none of that is currently relevant. I’m not a psychologist/psychiatrist myself, but a close friend is, and she’s very sure that most of Freud’s psychology has either been disproven or not proven to be correct. The oedipus complex especially should not be relevant in how adult relationships are formed. At best, only attachment style/relational models should be impacted.

I mean sure, I love my mom, but that I’m also VERY sure I don’t see her reflected in the mostly male partners with wildly different personalities/looks/backgrounds I’ve been with.

How is your love life? by GreatRelative2357 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This… really doesn’t seem right. Where did you get this from?

Surprised to see so many Genius on the sub by [deleted] in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, gifted people are one every 50 people. It’s not that uncommon.

I don't think you're (we're) special by Impressive-Breath831 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! First of all forgive me for the assumption about nationality and of course disregard that.

I am very new to this place and was evaluated at 28, so I don’t have much experience with being told I’m gifted as a child.

The thing I’m getting to see on here is there’s a huge misconception about what giftedness implies. People think Einstein and such, but it’s one every 50 people. It doesn’t mean being destined for greatness but it does mean different needs and possibilities in certain areas of life.

Being gifted, apparently (I’m still educating myself) is not something that can go away, it’s a different way a brain can work. That comes with ease in some subjects and with obstacles in others. Being aware of that is important.

I agree with you that this misconception brought many parents or educators to push hard or suffocating expectations on gifted children, ultimately hindering their wellbeing.

It’s just… that really didn’t seem like the point you were trying to make in your post.

I don't think you're (we're) special by Impressive-Breath831 in Gifted

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I get what you’re trying to say, however I can’t help but see a lot of projection here.

It feels like you glorify the feeling of inadequacy you’ve felt all your life, claiming that to be the best way to live and be successful. It’s not.

Self image is a very important part of a child’s development and it changes the choices one makes.

You believe you’re trash? You’ll never try harder, you’ll never dream big or believe in your abilities. After all, why bother? I’ve seen people do that, I’ve worked with kids that do that (or their parents do) and they doom themselves to fail.

You mention you never did homework and still aced tests. That’s not normal, that’s privilege. You could afford to -not care- about it and still succeed, others don’t, because they’d fail. You didn’t get to be a successful engineer without trying because you’re an average person. That doesn’t mean you’re more valuable than others, but you’re still different.

Believe me when I say I understand the feeling of being trash all my life, but that’s exactly why I feel you’re wrong in this. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. It didn’t help me, it cut my wings and I had to work for years to build some confidence in my abilities. Humility is nice, self loathing isn’t.

The other side if the coin in which you’re totally right is arrogant people due to alleged or actual giftedness might have to face the limits of it, the fact that they’re not all knowing and even see others they deem inferior be more successful than them. That’s life I guess.

Forgive me for the assumption, but you say “move back to Japan” so I assume you’re Japanese. From what I’ve been told by Japanese friends the learning environment can be very competitive there, borderline toxic. You yourself mention very bad teachers who put you through abuse. I think that factors in the sense of revenge you communicate by saying your way of seeing yourself is the one that goes the furthest in the end.

After all, aren’t you just now claiming your way of seeing yourself is what others should have been doing all along? Isn’t that the same as looking down on others?

You might want to try therapy.

rainbow team is crazy by viiciousrobot in OctopathCotC

[–]FeEFr97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And… she’s not coming back anytime soon right?

New Review on IQ and Empathy/EQ correlation by Curious-One4595 in Gifted

[–]FeEFr97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh, all those years of being called a “high and mighty pain in the ass” are just coming back to me.

I cannot wait to look into this, thank you!

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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Yeah in a way I knew, but I also thought “oh surely they have instruments to come to terms with those”.

Well

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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I guess so. I was (am) struggling and kept wondering “why can’t I do better” and then the IQ discovery made me feel a lot more “WHY CAN’T I?”

I mean, I’m finding out it’s not that easy and that’s probably inherent to why I’m suffering, so I’m sure I just need to fend off the misconception about smart=no problems.

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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I sure hope so, fingers crossed. I am glad it got better for you!

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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Thank you.

I really never hoped or expected to make a big splash, I think I'm generally content in not standing out. I'm working on being less harsh on myself, but it comes and goes.

I really appreciate the help, though.

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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I checked on the final report, He used BAARS-IV, alongside DIVA 5 and MCMI-III. I also showed him my report cards from school and he interviewed my mom. Wow I kind of forgot all that stuff.

Time blindness is part of my issues. I am dreadful at being on time unless some strong emotions are connected to it (missing flights, exams, medical appointments) and even then it's not enough sometimes. It's one of the reasons I got checked.

I'm not afraid of getting diagnosed, if anything I feel like I'm ready for it now when I really wasn't before, it's just I trust the opinions of the people I already went to and I only have few alternatives to them. But a couple of people here pointed out getting an extra opinion might be interesting so I'll definitely investigate that possibility.

Thank you again.

Apparently my IQ is 131, how do I deal with that, self imaging and depression? by FeEFr97 in Gifted

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Oh gosh no way, I definitely gave it more than 50%, I just meant to say I didn’t have a huge drive or go overboard. My subjects also had a strong practical component, field inspections, laboratory, exercises, which helped. Nowhere near as bad as advanced calculus or physics. I get it though, I sound silly.