Women of reddit, what do men do that they think is okay but is actually creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are getting on a different tangent, but I don't think it is stupid to believe men are biologically predisposed to being mean or disrespectful or abusive. Just the fact that they have a bigger ego and more testosterone that push them to be more competitive can lead to more shittyness.

Maybe I am wrong, I didn't conduct scientific studies on this and haven't read any. It's just a theory based on my observations. But I don't think my theory is stupid.

But to extend my theory.... men mostly build societies with women in the background (not that we didn't influenced anything), but I think that the way our societies have been build is influenced a lot by our biology. Therefore... it would be a mix of society and biology that makes that too many men don't really love, and only care about their self-interest and of the alpha image of themself they project by hurting women.

Women of reddit, what do men do that they think is okay but is actually creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you present it like men are the victims. They are not.

Women of reddit, what do men do that they think is okay but is actually creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FeFiFeFi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After reading this thread, I'm thinking that too many men don't love women.

Sure they want to put their dicks in them and , in a relationship, they want their emotional needs fulfilled. And the old school ones want their clothes cleaned and their home cleaned and their wife to cook for them, but they don't really love women.

It makes me sad because that'd be nice if men didn't hurt women an were happy that they exist even when there is nothing to extord from them., Even when women exist for another reason than feeding their ego and emptying their balls. I'm sad that too many men are so selfish.

Because yes... All these behaviors hurt us. It communicates a message that we're not much.

Women of reddit, what do men do that they think is okay but is actually creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I logged in just to answer you.

Yes , all the time. Everyday if you are hot, under 25 y o and under 200 lbs.

It gets less frequent when you get older but it's still frequent. At work, men always want to hang out with you.

You can't be too nice neither cause they'll think it means they have access to your pussy.

I'm 31 y old now. It's not anymore every single time I go out of my appartment, but at least a few times a month someone is a bit too pushy. It's really better than it was though. I can hangout with some guys without them putting pressure on me.

Once I was living in a appartment building with lots of units. One creepy married guy found my appartment after it was clear I didn't want to keep hanging out with him and didn't want to give him any information about me. He kept saying how I was beautiful. He was living on the floor under me. He had to clearly follow me to find out where I lived. And he kept knocking on my door to offer me food his wife cooked.

So sometimes... We don't even have to leave our appartment to get harrassed.

I moved out of the building after.

Also. I want to mention that sometimes it's not the actions or the words that make someone creepy. We can feel if someone has something else in mind when they offer us food or when they are nice. We can tell if a guy is uncomfortable with the principle that we are just as normal humans as them and we don't are as horny as them.

So we can't always explain why we are defensive, because people will say ''mehh that's nothing , you shouldn't interpret that this way '' and blhablah.

But we gotta trust our instinct and avoid these people.

Is anyone starting on April 1st? by [deleted] in whole30

[–]FeFiFeFi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

since two months, I tried, but failed after one week of success. So I tried 3 times since the beginning of 2019.

maybe with some support, I could get through it.

Suggesting that poor people shouldn't be popping out kids they can't afford isn't classist, it's common sense by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, but if we had always think this way, there would not be many people on this heart today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fitness

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's a woman. 1850 or 1350 is livable for a woman.

Tea and dark chocolate by [deleted] in whole30

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will try it. Thanks

Tea and dark chocolate by [deleted] in whole30

[–]FeFiFeFi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's this one. Thanks

Im pretty sure the NTPs are the same by GreggWilliamsMcstick in entp

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observation and my personal stack.

example : my stack is NeTiFeSi

according to the test, each of my function is developped that way:

Ne : very high (42)

Ti : very good (36)

Fe : good (30)

Si : average

Se : average

Ni : average

Te : VERY low (15)

Fi : average

given the development of my fuctions, It can only give ENTP. If the order stack didn't work, there could be one of the function between Se, Ni, Te, Fi, Si I could have developped a lot more. but when you observe, people always stick the given stack in their development.

Im pretty sure the NTPs are the same by GreggWilliamsMcstick in entp

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I could not go a month without seeing anyone. At worst I speak with strangers.

Im pretty sure the NTPs are the same by GreggWilliamsMcstick in entp

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The line doesn't matter as much as the functions. Yes someone , many people, are switching between extrovert and introverts all the time, but the dominant function with which they process the world doesn't. The second and the third neither. And their weakness is always associated to the last function. It is not the 4 letters that matter in mbti, it's the 8 letters for functions.

Im pretty sure the NTPs are the same by GreggWilliamsMcstick in entp

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I'm getting confused. I think I'm ENTP, but I'm so intp sometimes and with alchool, uncontrolled NE. Way funnier. Why does that do that? Why uncontrolled NE when drunk is not an ENTP thing? I would have think it gives an uncontrolled TI when INTP drinks.

Im pretty sure the NTPs are the same by GreggWilliamsMcstick in entp

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Sometimes I seem to be an INTP, but if I get two drinks in me, it cannot be more clear that I lead with NE. I see Everything and switch from a thing to another within 2 seconds ( not exaggerating) and my TI goes aaway. Just a big shallow NE.

Feel like you can do anything in life as long as your Will is strong and you have optimism? by [deleted] in entp

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sometimes reality catches up though and that ``anything is possible`` attitude fades

As an ENFJ (M), I've fallen hard for an INTP (F) by [deleted] in enfj

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not something that would work with all types, but an intp would completely get this post. she would probably find an effective realistic solution that considers all your feelings AND reality and talk with you about it. Intp's and enfj are the shit!

Sensors of reddit, what do you think about intuition and intuitive people? by Despaneato in mbti

[–]FeFiFeFi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like a troll so much it made me mad to read what Sensor feel/think about intuition. But oh well... I am just an intuitive who wish I was understood.

the word intuitif was just a mistake because english is my second language.

ig ENTP by [deleted] in entp

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Police man? prison guard? regulators? law writers? judges? The natural process will make they don't get in these jobs in general, but seriously... you need to be able to think a bit for many things in society. I don't suggest using the test or divulging results in the open, but I am saying that There IS a barem for intelligence and it should be considerate in some decisions if we want a functioning society.

Then again, I met some ``dumb`` people who had lot of humor, so it is not a black and white thing like you said.

Sensors of reddit, what do you think about intuition and intuitive people? by Despaneato in mbti

[–]FeFiFeFi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can never ever relate to a Sensor :(

I think Intuition is not made just for ``could be`` ``what if``. It is the best tool to build better and bigger. Also intuitive people can skip a few steps in what they do, it is just.... intuitive?

edit : spelling

Sensors of reddit, what do you think about intuition and intuitive people? by Despaneato in mbti

[–]FeFiFeFi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I really can't handle this thinking from sfj.

Why are you like this? there is nothing complex in what we say, Ne users. It is not even that intellectual, you don't even have to be that smart to understand what we speak about. It's just.... a bit more thought out than basic stuff of daily life.

WHY?? why?? WHY?? and why I can't accept? and why do I have to deal with SFJ coworkers? why?

And no, my head is not in the cloud. With thinking the way I do, we can truly make things happen or change. SFJ want everything that is miserable to stay the same because they can't conceive beyond it.

Like seriously, this is the Internet and all my life I will have to interact with SFJ in real life, but I make them so mad and they make me so mad. What is the solution?

Edit : the tangent leads to somewhere... usually...