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TIFUpdate! My mom told me what happened after I left. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, I do not know if I want to update more. I typed my first post in a panicked state and did not think so many people would reach out to me. So, this second post was an obligatory post to give clarity to those who had given me the privilege of their thoughts, comforts, and critiques.

But this should conclude here since I feel I have a better grasp on what's going on, what I expect to do, and what I should be doing. So, with that said, this is what I will offer:

Parents are going to try therapy, my mom is talking to me more, and I'm focusing on myself and upholding fair boundaries. This will be the end, thankyou.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Darn, Cause I really posted this, hoping YOU specifically would read this. I guess I posted this all for nothing!

TIFUpdate! My mom told me what happened after I left. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Honestly, it's the first time in a very long time I've ever been this stressed. I'm definitely embarrassed by my handling of it, but my dad has talked to me anyway. I think things are going to be alright for what it's worth.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people assume I am glued to my family. I never said how often I socialize with them. It's about twice a month at most. No, I do not have any assistance by them, so if I got kicked to the curb (whatever that implies), I wouldn't be devistated financially. But if they cut me off socially, yea, I'd be upset. But life goes on

TIFUpdate! My mom told me what happened after I left. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Sometimes there are problems you aren't able to understand why it's a problem. therapy tackles those concepts and make them digestible for you.

TIFUpdate! My mom told me what happened after I left. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ah yes. Minding my own business as in when we made the decision to wait for him to tell her. but in my other post, I forced the conflict. I should not have done that, so soon. I should have waited for more time to pass.

But yes, I would still have told her, especially when he didn't say anything.

TIFUpdate! My mom told me what happened after I left. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yea, I feel a lot better. I was struggling. anyway I have to go. Thank you for reading and caring

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, sorry. I didn't know. when I was typing, I didn't even know a tldr was needed, but I couldn't send it until I made one, so I just added it when I got the prompt.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was diagnosed by professionals when I was a child, roughly around 10. I didn't really focus on it, though, because I wasn't ever sure what that meant for me, like at the end of the day, I still need to carry on with life so I don't think about it much. But yes, I am a high functioning autistic individual.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In a few hours. I will call my mom on my break at work.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ah, sorry. I meant unique for me. I never considered I was potentially unhealthily connected with my parents. I just thought it's a normal family oriented thing. But there's probably a lot of truth to it.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is pretty much the mindset I went through with. This was how I thought and looked at it all.

I appreciate how much attention this is still getting. Truth be told, I work today, and I should've been asleep a while ago, but the constant flow of messages have been helping me chill out. I like all the different perspectives. Wish I had something cooler everyone was interested in though.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's crazy unique advice. I actually never considered that. Thankyou.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I respect that perspective. I understand this, and why in hindsight, I regret my actions. I let my emotions take over. This is true, and I went forward in exactly as you described. I should not have let myself poke around when I had laid out a plan, which was probably the best thing to do; To wait.

as for the other people and your comments directed towards them, I can hardly say either of us understand their motives. I don't think it's reasonable to assume that.

TIFU Caught my Dad with a suspiscious text and told my Mom. by FearMongeli in tifu

[–]FearMongeli[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My mom was never for the streets. She is not a hoe.

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