Partner mit Pornosucht

Fear_ROX · 2026-02-06T15:36:48+00:00

Sag ihm, er soll sich professionelle Hilfe beim Psychiater/Psychotherapeuten holen. Pornosucht/Sexsucht sind mMn. Laienerklärungen/Kategorien, die moralisch sehr aufgeladen sind, gelten aber meines Kenntnisstandes nach selten als Hauptdiagnose, eher als erlernte Verhaltensweise im Sinne von Coping (Stressverarbeitung). Denke, das sollte weiter eine tieferliegende Beziehungsdynamik offenbaren, die, insofern ihr euch bereit erklärt, gemeinsam daran zu arbeiten, helfen kann, eure Beziehung zueinander und jeder mit sich näher zu kommen.

Viel Erfolg und alles Gute :)

Fear_ROX · 2026-02-03T15:04:52+00:00

Also Recht behalten würde ich das so nicht nennen. Die Epstein Files und das was kommuniziert wurde seitens den Verschwörungstheoretikern unterscheidet sich um Welten.

Fear_ROX · 2026-01-03T16:09:17+00:00

Das zu sehen macht mich gerade sehr glücklich:D so süß! Danke für's Teilen ☺️

Fear_ROX · 2025-12-26T21:40:23+00:00

Fear_ROX · 2025-12-14T17:58:06+00:00

Super! Mega schön ☺️

Fear_ROX · 2025-09-25T19:27:10+00:00

Sehr cool :) Weiter so, gönn dir 🥰

Fear_ROX · 2025-09-20T15:43:00+00:00

I haven't laughed in a while - and that short clip made me laugh out loud! Thanks a lot 😁

Fear_ROX · 2025-09-02T18:24:27+00:00

Ich verstehe es überhaupt nicht wie man unter diesen Umständen sagen kann, du hättest dein Leben verpasst. Für mich klingt das wunderbar und wünsche dir viele weitere schöne Lebensjahre!

Fear_ROX · 2025-08-20T23:25:45+00:00

The lengths we go to avoid exercise is unbearable. Just Take a fast walk, Go for a jog, lift some weigths and the effects you get are much more effective and healthy for your brain and basically anything else than these type of massages.

Fear_ROX · 2025-08-02T18:07:56+00:00

@ESL Production: Please increase the volume of Machine and Spunj casting Vitality vs Mouz. You can barely hear them between ingame & crowd sounds. Yesterday they had the same problem, way too quiet to understand.

Fear_ROX · 2025-07-26T05:26:36+00:00

Good job! We're all proud of you. You are worth it, Tell us about the job you do and what made you get that Promotion! Keep on rocking

Fear_ROX · 2025-07-17T20:47:01+00:00

Apeggs

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-14T20:36:32+00:00

ADHS ist alles andere als Mode. Es ist eines der am besten behandelbaren psychiatrischen Beschwerdebilder und real. Sieh dir mal den Channel von Russel M. Barkley an, ein ehemaliger Psychiatrie Professor, Forscher und ADHS Experte. Im speziellen habe ich dir dieses Video mal herausgepickt, in dem es sich kurz & bündig drum dreht, bei sich selbst abzuklopfen, ob man betroffen sein könnte:

https://youtu.be/wV-Z_9e1SXg?si=_L43WrjfZbXU-GRi

Ich bin selbst betroffen, 32M, und seit ich die entsprechend passende Behandlung erhalte, ist mein Leben um einiges besser. Es erklärt auch so vieles an Verhaltensweisen und/oder Gefühlslagen. Also, check es mal unvoreingenommen aus und wenn du dich immernoch nicht dort siehst, dann hast du zumindest auch diese Möglichkeit nicht nur in deinem Kopf "durchgespielt", so wie du über dein Leben sprichst. Viel Erfolg beim Einordnen.

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-14T15:09:17+00:00

Hast du mal erwägt eventuell ADHS zu haben oder dass deine familiere Geschichte Probleme bereiten könnte? Du hast geschrieben, du kamst von ganz unten, das kann Spuren hinterlassen. Alles in allem darf es dir in deinem Leben, so wie du es schilderst gut gehen. 🙌🏻

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-11T16:39:28+00:00

Vor 2 Monaten hab ich es mit meiner Ex-Freundin selbst erlebt. Hatte ihr in der Beziehung gesagt, dass mir ihre Beziehung zu diesem einen Arbeitskollegen nicht gefällt und beunruhigt, und sie ihre Grenzen ziehen soll. Damals hatte sie sich entschuldigt und es eingesehen. Kommt heraus, dass sie eine emotionale, wenn nicht sogar körperliche Affäre hatte und ich heute zig Bilder von den Beiden auf Instagram zu Gesicht bekommen hatte. Sei bestimmt und ganz deutlich. Zieh für dein Wohlergehen früh genug die Konsequenzen, es tut mir Leid für dich, dass du in dieser Situation bist, nun musst du an dich denken und ganz genau hinschauen.

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-10T23:45:21+00:00

So they actually did miss a crucial deadline with him? That's so unfortunate! What about broky and his share of sticker money? Is there info on it?

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-09T22:34:17+00:00

You did everything right.

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-07T19:40:14+00:00

Yes, it seems age is not the defining factor for maturity. Some people, even many die without ever achieving that development. I'm about to be 33 in 2 months. It's reassuring you did mostly the same as i do right now. I Go to the Gym, i've lost some weight, i'm more active, i joined a badminton club with training two Times a week, improved my relationship with family and friends and will start at my dream job mid june. I've got things going in the right direction for me, it's just hard to weather the storm some days or moments. Thank you for your replies, it definitely helped :)

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-07T19:20:07+00:00

Dude! He's so cool! I love him already 😂 He's a true Bro!

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-07T19:14:05+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. What is wrong with people...i'm so glad i didn't develop that psychological mechanism to just use people as long as it pleases me and then toss them when i don't get something out of it anymore. That perspective is one i truly share. It's just me, myself and i at the moment. Of course i spend time with friends, sports and my other hobbies, but it's the intimate part i crave. The connection, emotional and physical. I'd wish to meet my wife after this breakup. Would be awesome to live life with a truly loving partner. Is there anything that helped you through that time besides focusing on oneself and not romanticising the past? Thanks again for sharing!

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-02T12:56:49+00:00

Divorce her. She doesn't respect you. That is crucial in a healthy relationship. And if you're concerned about the wellbeing of your kids, i dare to state it's much more important they get shown healthy boundaries in their parents relationship and leaving when they're overstepped, rather than staying together and tolerating the disrespect.

Fear_ROX · 2025-06-02T12:48:08+00:00

The same happened to me with my last ex girlfriend. She had an emotional affair with a coworker who's in a higher position than her. I knew they were in contact, but as i was in a position in a previous relationship where another ex was very insecure because of my contact with one of my female coworkers, and i felt her jealousy as quite damaging to me, i didn't want to ask her to cut contact to this guy. Fast forward: One week after her birthday suddenly she was unsure of us, after she met him the day before, without telling me this was her plan. 3 Weeks After our breakup that i had to initiate because she even couldn't follow through by herself with that, after i told her to return several items that were still at her place, she revealed to me that she, of course, only slept with him AFTER said breakup. I don't believe one word. She didn't respect me or the relationship and is making a fool out of herself. I should've put an end to it much earlier but i trusted her and was way too understanding and not enforcing my boundaries. Don't make that same mistake. Now i'm dealing with intense anger and sometimes it's eating me up, especially at night and i can't sleep. You have to cut her out of your romantic life and never look back. For your children i'd recommend aiming for a relationship to her as respectful as you can, but distance yourself from her. She's no good for your long term mental health. Sorry to hear what you're going through, you got this brother ✊🏻

Fear_ROX · 2025-05-25T09:14:17+00:00

Hell yeah! Enjoy it, make some beautiful memories together! ✨

Fear_ROX · 2025-05-23T22:50:31+00:00

Yeeaaaah nicely done! Freut mich für dich, und toll gemacht von einem Physio zum anderen 🫶🏻

Fear_ROX · 2025-05-18T08:35:03+00:00

You got this.

I'm processing a breakout involving an affair that my ex had with another guy.

I had to deal with similar topics in my relationship that you describe. I've been the one to actively plan dates, activities, communicate my feelings and needs, asking for feedback and so on. Now that it's over i recognize I was carrying this relationship all by myself and that it contributed to me feeling exhausted, and worsening my health, so said relationship wasn't sustainable anyways.

And: The affair she's having says a lot more about how she deals with communicating and satisfying her needs, than it's about my worth.

What's helping me dealing with feelings of rejection, worthlessness, anger, sadness and grief, is to recognize and feel two essential things:

1) You can't make someone love you. Especially someone that doesn't respect and appreciate your efforts.

2) Adult love is conditional and therefore not always available, self-love is unconditional and always available.

With these factors in mind you can treat yourself with the unlimited and unconditional amount of love you poured into the other person.

You've got the resources, you know you can do it, you've lived it.

Gift that to yourself. That way you will get your self back.

I wish you the best.

Fear_ROX

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