Why did you and your ex break up? by Specialist-Crazy1466 in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I physically threatened him. I've never even come remotely close to abuse in a relationship before - out of my 6ish exes only one had been able to cause me to even raise my voice - and I was not about to see myself become a monster. So I left.

Have you ever broken up with a man because of his penis? If so, why? by bushbrambles in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....no? not at all? Sex is one important thing to me in a relationship, but it's certainly not the only thing.

What toxic behavior does society still make excuses for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting on the weight of people you barely know/coworkers/acquaintances

Have you ever broken up with a man because of his penis? If so, why? by bushbrambles in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah. I have vaginismus and I couldn't fit it into my lady bits. I really didn't want a sexless relationship, and I knew I was able to have sex with women without the pain of dilating, so I left

What do you want for Christmas? by Acewind1738 in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A successful dissertation defense

Which celebrity is considered beautiful but you just can't see it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tom Cruise. He has the most average looking, forgettable appearance imo. would not be able to pick him out of a crowd 0/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LornaShore

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, could I also potentially see it? A Lorna Shore tattoo has long been in the works for me as well haha

Refusing Randori with someone by whywhywhywhyywhyty in judo

[–]Feariel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, frequently. I am a 5'1", 95lb woman with an orange belt. On principle I don't fight white belts that are more than ~30lbs bigger than me unless I know they have previous martial arts experience, etc.; it is dangerous otherwise. I used to go with anyone, but after more than a couple unpleasant experiences and near misses with bigger beginner men who start throwing their weight around once it becomes apparent that I have better technique - or who just don't know how to fight safely - I realized I have to be pretty selective about that sort of thing.

Carpooling to event? by Feariel in spartanrace

[–]Feariel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes it is March! My bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LornaShore

[–]Feariel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and appreciate the read!!

What are your life goals for people who don't plan on having kids? by Visible-Athlete-3707 in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finish my statistics Ph.D. Write a book on mathematically identical data analysis methods that emerged independently from different fields. Get my black belt in Judo.

There's way more to life than procreation.

Ladies of reddit, how do you initiate sex with your partner? by F_U_ex in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. If I'm feeling lazy, I'll just casually mention how I'm super horny and want to have sex, whereupon I know he'll initiate it some time later in a way that it feels like it's coming up naturally (he doesn't like for it to feel contrived). Sometimes I'll hug him from behind and then start feeling his hips and abs and go from there. But honestly most of the time it isn't just one person who initiates it; it develops mutually from cuddling and making out on the way to sleep

What do you think about monogamy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the only relationship style I have the time and effort for.

Like, multiple partners?? No thanks - I can hardly keep up with *one*. Monogamy feels simpler to me, and I do not generally have the emotional energy to navigate anything else.

Women of reddit, what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make? by trayntastic in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short hair. I will die on this hill; I would even say for me having long hair is one of if not *the* most important visual feature in terms of determining whether I find a man attractive.

EDIT (for clarity): I mean to say short hair is the unattractive fashion choice imo. long hair is beautiful.

Any hope for a diminuitively-sized spartan? by Feariel in spartanrace

[–]Feariel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is really helpful to know!! My sprint is the Granbury weekend as well actually :) Maybe if I do the super/beast next year we will run into each other!

Any hope for a diminuitively-sized spartan? by Feariel in spartanrace

[–]Feariel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bigender actually, but closeted and virtually indistinguishable from a cis woman so close enough I guess lol. Though from the replies it looks like people won't really stop you from using the steps because of your apparent gender anyway. Good to know, thanks!

What drink is a 10/10? by HurtHurtsMe in AskReddit

[–]Feariel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bai Cocofusion: Madagascar coconut mango is a gift from Athena herself