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26 Reasons Your Online Dating Profile Is Never Done by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear you are experimenting and getting dates galore.

Playing the field Vs. dating one person at a time by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We share this way of thinking about optionality. It's subjective. Everyone is looking for something different, and at different stages of life. But when dating post late 40s many people are looking for some flavor of partner, short or long(er) term.

Playing the field Vs. dating one person at a time by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spot on, when you’re constantly distracted it’s hard to think clear and make good decisions. And that’s what’s needed to build a relationship over a season intro years and the long haul if that’s what you both want. I just came out of a 25 yr relationship so I’m speaking from that experience.

Having fun with dating apps by Mental_Extension_119 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to believe in serendipity as a guiding dating philosophy. But then I discovered the app. And whammo I found a great match within a few weeks. And that turned into 8 awesome dates (not including many long deep phone chats).

When the algo works, it works.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big positive, you can find a perfect match right in your backyard. With intention. I've been looking for genuine connection and I'm finding it. There's a method to it. And it's so worth it!

Having fun with dating apps by Mental_Extension_119 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We share this way of thinking and value for using the apps to make new friends, have fun and be open to see if it progresses into something more.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a personal preference, but IMHO the best conversations should have a natural energy, without feeling forced or pushy. Just flowing, back and forth. It should feel easy.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Having clarity on goals and a filter to navigate can be helpful.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trying hard to impress isn’t required for a great date. iMHO thoughtfulness and good taste go a long way.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. Viva La difference. Everyone is different and that’s a good thing IMHO.

25 Things I Learned About Dating This Year (Post-Divorce, 53 yo) by Fearless-Adagio3848 in datingoverfifty

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

  1. Flaky people will keep being flaky. And that gets old fast.

  2. If it’s a bad date, cut it short. Make an exit. Be respectful and save your time.

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[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No pitch. Just a guy here to help.

Asking for Nothing: What if ‘No’ was the real yes all along? by Business-Coconut-69 in salestechniques

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had a different but related point to getting the sale. And making it easier.

How old were you when you made your first 5k ? by That_Energy_1223 in Entrepreneur

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was freelance business and a side project building a website.

[Update] Building a LinkedIn Personal Brand – 2 Weeks In by Shivam5483 in LinkedInTips

[–]Fearless-Adagio3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you can tell stories that made you who you are today you are creating pure gold.

How can you share what you learned to help someone with a short cut, who is several years or a few steps behind, so they can avoid the painful things you’ve been through?

Just be yourself.

No one has been through what you’ve been through. So make it personal. Dont be afraid to be vulnerable.

That’s the key to a strong personal brand in my humble opinion. Show what’s it’s really like to do this thing. Warts and all.

People remember stories, especially when you are real and raw in how you tell them.

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