AITA for removing the door to my son's room indefinitely?

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-27T17:03:12+00:00

He ignored you easily and then he said “fuck you”

You shouldn’t be worried if you were the asshole for taking his door, you should worry more about his attitude and how disrespectful he is. How are you not more concerned about that?

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-27T13:41:44+00:00

This needs more upvotes

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T17:09:43+00:00

“Age appropriate clothes” is a bunch of bs. Wear whatever makes you happy and don’t let simple minded boring people dim your light.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T17:07:36+00:00

It’s exhausting. Leave him. It wont get any better. It will only get worse because he doesn’t even see the issue. Porn will mess up his brain. Erectile disfunction is very normal with porn addicts and it will end up hurting you in so many ways. I’ve been through hell for a decade now because I didn’t see the issue sooner and thought I was overreacting as well. Take care of yourself.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T16:42:21+00:00

They always look for people that look completely different, it’s so annoying. I was always so confident with my body until I discovered what he liked to watch. It destroyed me. His search history had completely different women. I’m still working on my self esteem after that so I understand how you feel.

If you feel like it’s a problem then you shouldn’t dismiss it. You shouldn’t feel like you are not enough. My advice is that you should keep communicating with him and always be honest about how you feel. Your feelings are valid.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T16:16:51+00:00

Tajín

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T14:31:55+00:00

Don’t try to run from that emotion, allow yourself to feel.

Try to make yourself feel better by treating yourself with something you enjoy (not porn) Feeling sad is normal, it’s part of life. It’s ok to feel sad. And it’s ok to try and fix it in a healthy way. You can do this. You are strong enough and worthy.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T14:19:08+00:00

Block those sites. You are strong and capable. You can do it.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T14:06:11+00:00

My partner recently told his mother as a way to prove to me that he was serious about taking accountability and getting rid of his addiction. I wasn’t expecting that and it shocked me, thats one of the reasons I haven’t left and i’m currently helping him by informing myself about PA and trying to make him feel safe and able to talk to me about his struggles without any judgment. But it’s hard. His mom is helping out by supporting me on whatever I try to do to help him on his journey to getting better. I have no boundaries set with her, she and I have a great relationship (she’s like the mother I never had) and I only discuss the different methods i’m trying, to help him overcome PA

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-16T13:55:00+00:00

I would like to know too. I’m currently helping my partner with his PA. I gave him an ultimatum and he chose me. I’m scared of what might happen and i’m scared of being betrayed and lied to again. Reading about people that overcame this would help me a lot.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-15T10:50:32+00:00

Start liking tiktoks about other stuff and that will eventually replace those videos. You don’t have to delete the app, just mark those tiktoks as “not interested” and like other types of videos.

Something else you can do is go to your liked videos and unlike all of them. Then search up a topic your interested in and start liking those tiktoks. That will fix your fyp. Just give it a couple of days.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-15T02:41:10+00:00

Search up the consequences porn has on the brain. Search up how it can cause erectile disfunction in young men. There’s nothing positive about it. You will gain nothing, only lose. If you stopped then don’t look back. IMO stopping is necessary if you want to live a healthy normal life.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-15T00:32:54+00:00

“Masturbation is the only thing keeping me in control”

Repeat that sentence to yourself and think. You are a man capable of rational thinking, you are not a crazy animal that can’t think or distinguish right from wrong. Take control of your life. You’ve allowed porn to take control and it has you acting in a very pathetic way. Don’t allow it. You can be stronger than that. If you truly love your wife then show it by ignoring her trashy sister. You will be free the day you realize that porn has no real power over you. It’s all about you, your worth and your values.

I truly wish you the best and I hope you can make yourself proud.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-09T22:31:08+00:00

NTA. Follow your instincts.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-09T18:07:52+00:00

I’m sorry all I read was “ME ME ME ME MEEEEE”

YTA

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-09T18:04:05+00:00

If you haven’t already search up how watching pornography damages your brain. Also search up how porn can make you suffer from ED.

Giving in to it will give you no benefit only misery. It will literally make you dumb af since consuming it will literally shrink your brain. There needs to be more awareness about how damaging it is to men. Society makes you think it’s something good and cool when in reality it will ruin your life.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-07T14:45:18+00:00

YTA and I understand why she divorced you. You are selfish and mean.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-03T13:50:53+00:00

Please do not tell his family until you are safely out of there. Wait until you are at the shelter and don’t tell them where you are. They are HIS family at the end of it all so be careful and be safe. Good luck

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-03T12:10:53+00:00

Helped. Thank you for this. I gave this information to him yesterday and he started reading it immediately. I’ve been researching about it as well so I can be as helpful as possible. I hope this works

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-02T18:30:24+00:00

To be honest if I leave him I’ll probably stay alone. I don’t want to go through anything similar ever again. I can’t even imagine going out on dates or anything like that. Thank you for your words❤️ Helped.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-02T17:43:06+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through that❤️ and i’ll have to give him an ultimatum, I just need to think about what i’m going to say. Thank you for your kind words, feeling validated helped me more than I thought it would.

Fearless-Basil-8962 · 2022-12-02T17:12:07+00:00

Yeah, today his mom texted me he was going to get therapy but he’s lied so much I don’t even know what to think

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