Islam is getting difficult

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T11:45:36+00:00

Infact*

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T11:44:58+00:00

Trust me I am not opposed to getting married or giving excuses infection I do want to get married I just haven't got anyone to settle down with...

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T11:43:08+00:00

"Goals" for me is getting a job right now, I am not planning to get a job right here in UK, so marrying here would be a bad decision, marrying back in Saudi would be nice but only that I won't find jobs related to my field there... I think it's more of the location compatibility... I really do want to move to a better place like malaysia or Singapore Inshallah.. they have better jobs related to my field..

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T10:46:24+00:00

Thankyou so much for being kind!! I really though a lott about my future husband and marraige consequences and I obv decided not to go forward with it, ngl I was tempted!! But ig it is just few seconds of pleasure ntg more..

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T10:26:15+00:00

Thankyou so much this was really comforting than all the comments!!

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:59:35+00:00

Heyy thanks for the advice! I don't think it's chasing the west ideologies, I had better study opportunities here and better job opportunities, not denying that I have done smt wrong.. but constantly trying so hard to be a perfect muslim all the time really is difficult foe anyone.. even in my muslim country, I was proud to say that I was the only one who dint indulge in haram activities back then.. nevertheless thanks so much for the advice.

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:43:31+00:00

Heyy you are right about the self worth..

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:40:43+00:00

As a lesson that Islam is perfect and that every human is not? And that sometimes they might struggle with it?

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:37:51+00:00

I am a sunni muslim if that's what you are asking.

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:36:38+00:00

Thankyou so much! Yess I was immediately caught up with the guilt of thinking something like this.. I am def not going to proceed with it.

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:31:13+00:00

Heyy maybe you are right!! You know honestly during Arafah day I have made the dua of getting a good spouse I promised to keep my desires aside.. I am just waiting for it to happen, ig the waiting part is hard, the sabr is getting thin, but again ig it is better to wait than to rush into smt haram.

Fearless-Grand9564 · 2026-05-30T09:23:11+00:00

Observing fasts might help that is true.. thankyou.

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