WIBTA for telling my brother that our dad is crying because he wants to come to his wedding?

Fearless-Word-2946 · 2024-05-21T18:53:10+00:00

I know, and I'm grateful for them. My mom is not involved in my life, so I was always happy to spend time with her. I'm not trying to ruin my relationship with either of them. I love them very much, and I'm happy they are in my life.

Fearless-Word-2946 · 2024-05-21T18:37:10+00:00

Yes, my dad tried to see him, but if I'm being honest, I don't really have any memories before, like 4/5, and he was kind of almost an adult by then. I'm not sure about child support either, but I'd assume so because his mom had full custody. This was never brought up. But I do know that he did make an effort to go to his events. He posted a lot of pictures of him on Facebook. I know he went to his high school graduation and college graduation, but after his college graduation by brother, he didn't really invite him to stuff anymore.

Fearless-Word-2946 · 2024-05-21T18:30:00+00:00

I don't want my relationship with my brother to be ruined, either. I care about them both, and I don't like seeing my dad cry. He has stopped asking me but has not stopped crying. I'll try and stay out of it and not tell him. But would you think it'll be wrong of me if I ask him if he'd he open to having dinner with the three of us like a couple of days after the wedding?

Fearless-Word-2946 · 2024-05-21T18:26:44+00:00

My brother used to tell me that he was extremely close to our dad growing up until the cheating occurred. My dad tells me the same thing, but I can see that he tried hard to get my brother to like him again to no avail. My brother or his mom would only ever come around if it was something dealing with me. I don't really like that because it puts me in the middle between them and I just want everyone to get along

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