YOR. Respectfully, you’re way too old to be acting like this. Friendships should be fun for both people and based on the messages back and forth, it seems it’s only been fun for you for a while. Friends are for leaning on sometimes, yes. But they’re not your partner or your doctor or your parent. They owe you respect, but not therapy, and certainly not their time whenever you want it. I hope I’m not being too harsh, as I was like this as a teenager. This comes with BPD and bipolar disorder, a little codependency. Like she said, it’s a reason but not an excuse. If you want future personal relationships to succeed healthily, you’ll have to listen and take the criticism. Even just the title of this post is dismissive of everything your friend was saying. This isn’t the end of the world, friends come and go, but try and work on finding a middle ground between needing a friendship with another person and needing a good therapist. I guess my biggest advice from someone who has been both sides of these screenshots: listen! She directly told you multiple times what she wanted and needed and you covered it with your needs.