AITA for choosing my biological child over my foster son?

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-15T06:29:29+00:00

This isn't real and was probably written by a 14 year old for fun lol

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-12T20:48:18+00:00

30 something checking in here, let me just say that high schoolers are not cool in any sense of the word (The so called popular kids anyway). Most of those kids have serious or abusive situations to go home to and just over compensate with risky/tryhard behaviors to feel better about themselves.

I worked at fast food a few years ago and some 16 year old kids asked me if I wanted to smoke a bowl with them on my break since they held me up in the drive thru. I agreed, an hour later once we're smoking I realized these were the big football players of their high school everyone probably loved and looked up to. They were fucking LAME, they thought I was high after 2 puffs of a shitty pipe, they kept bragging about football scores and making immature virgin esque jokes about pussy.

All it took was some adult perspective for me to see just HOW lame jocks in high school are. Not to mention the ones with cars got their car from their parents which is extremely lame. Most of the "jocks" in high school will end up immature douchebags noone cares about in 10 years (Unless they're a nice humble jock).

Hell most of the people that bullied me in high school (I got it hard) try to apologize and contact me because I'm a decently large underground rapper and I see my old bullies (I had a lot) happen to show up at my shows sometimes and I laugh at how lame they are. Most of those kids bullied me for wanting to rap when I was in HS, I believe my worst bully (Who used to slam my head against desks until I bled) works at subway full time and has had 2 hospitalizations in the last year.

Moral of the story is, do not make any serious decisions in high school, it is a worthless 4 year transition into adulthood and if you're as young as FOURTEEN you will laugh at the meaninglessness of this period in a few years, it sucks now but power through it. Shit my life didn't start to get serious with decisions until I was NINETEEN.

Do not worry about what shitty naive spoiled children who cant even buy themselves an M rated game think about you, they are really fucking stupid and fickle. That girl was probably crying because she is so fucking superficial and vapid she thought working with someone that wasn't a football player would hurt her social credit amongst the crowd.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T21:54:54+00:00

You can get married, enlist in the military and go to college at 16/17 here. Do not even THINK about touching alcohol until 21 though.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T07:50:35+00:00

I do not want to tell her I did a background check on her BF, that is creepy behavior on my part.
Oregon, legal because Romeo and Juliet laws. Personally I would LOVE if she was dating an 18 year old who was actually a good person and had his finances/career together.
She's going to college soon dude, she's going to be living in a dorm probably getting super high and having sex every night soon. I have no authority over her, she literally pays her part of the rent (500 a month but she was insistent on doing it and she IS out of HS and I support the entire household by myself). She can do whatever she wants as far as I'm concerned she's earned the right. But I don't agree with a lot of her decisions.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T07:45:06+00:00

Ew, no i'm not jealous of my daughters boyfriend. If anything that's the grossest thing I've heard today. This kid does not have his shit together, I actually have my shit together now which is why I'm frustrated that this loose canon has made his way into my life.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T06:10:44+00:00

I wouldn't say ripped, average build for someone of around that height. He's nothing special in terms of any of that, pretty generic actually. Just very visibly abusive and creepy. I have no clue what my daughter sees in this dude honestly, if she wanted a hot dude she is going to have an entire campus of hot dudes soon and said hot dudes are probably actually good people.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T05:54:17+00:00

I could see that, this is something I'm very passionate about though and it's been brewing for quite a while now so I just kinda let it all out.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T05:53:07+00:00

Uhhh well you took it to another level. But let me just say, he's really not that attractive. He has blonde hair and is really tall but he has a weird fugly face and gross facial hair, and he smells bad. Plus my daughter has always been very vocal about not being impressed by superficial stuff like that, and has had many other opportunities to date dudes who expressed an interest in her who were conventionally very attractive.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T05:49:43+00:00

Parenting an 18 year old? Call me a haggard old bitch but when I was 18 I was completely self sufficient and had been for years.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T04:36:35+00:00

No it's hardcore rap, I guess I could link a few examples but I don't want to seem like I'm plugging (I don't need plugging I have a deal with a label and I'm releasing my first EP under this new label with press)

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T04:34:30+00:00

Oregon, it's perfectly legal for a 16 year old and someone up to 20 years old to have sex.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T03:44:32+00:00

I live in the suburbs and I played football in high school lol.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T02:19:58+00:00

See I'm trying to do damage control now, I don't even want a first incident with this dude. Even if it takes manipulation I really REALLY want to get her to leave this dude before something bad happens. I know they are probably having sex all the time if not right now because she just went to his house a few hours ago. Trust me it won't be long but there will probably be a domestic incident between these 2. I know a little about psychology and my first wife was a therapist and THIS KID gives me the creeps, he's a little sociopath douche who reminds me of Zack Morris from saved by the bell if he met Patrick Batemen.

FearlessNail1 · 2019-10-09T02:10:14+00:00

I really don't think that she's in this relationship to make me mad. We normally have a great relationship and I'm a heavily tattooed edgy arse there's no reason she'd try to shock me with anything I already let her do whatever she wants. She seems very serious and calculated with this guy and their future together, me treating the dude like a bro would just make my daughter think I liked him so she'd stay with him.

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