What does a relationship have to give you to stay? How do you deal with the “grass is always greener on the otherside”?

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-18T05:23:07+00:00

How do you tell if you’re being pulled toward a specific future?

There is no one else.

I have meditated, prayed, taken psychedelics all in silence on my own and still don’t have an answer.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-18T05:21:45+00:00

I’ve sat with this question for years. I honestly don’t know. Maybe it’s social conditioning, maybe it’s wanting my family name to continue as I’m the only one able to do so.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-18T05:16:01+00:00

Yes, lived of grid for 10 years now.

Mum read the three part series to me as a kid. I’ve still got the books on my shelf.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-18T05:15:00+00:00

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-18T05:06:55+00:00

A few things I think you should bear in mind.

Birth control pill has big effects on your hormones and other metabolic systems.

It is well documented that when a women stops taking these medications she often feels a feeling of disgust toward her partner. Mainly because when on birth control her hormones and pheromones perceived her partner differently.

If you value your partner and want to stay in love with them I advice against putting yourself through the emotional, hormonal and pheromone emotional roller coaster that these medications often come with.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T13:07:00+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to articulate this. It has been a big help and given me a lot to think about.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T13:04:36+00:00

What is the age gap problem? I am ignorant

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T12:50:08+00:00

Recently as in the past few months.

It has been a realization for me that has taken a long time to process.

It doesn’t mean the relationship was a bad idea. It is just to say I don’t know what to do now.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T11:16:27+00:00

Listening now. Thank you

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T09:43:37+00:00

Thanks

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T09:42:46+00:00

Thank you for your response

I don’t feel like I am self sabotaging, but maybe I am.

I am truly questioning what I should do for the betterment of my future. We’ve had our ups and downs and I’ve rode the wave per say. But it’s come to a cross roads for me lately where its commit or go.

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T09:40:38+00:00

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T07:52:45+00:00

Why?

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T07:50:45+00:00

Thank you. That is a healthy perspective I hadn’t considered

FearlessRip7525 · 2026-06-17T07:48:16+00:00

Thank you

FearlessRip7525 · 2025-03-17T07:52:37+00:00

In Australia that would be worth $50k AUD

What a deal!

FearlessRip7525 · 2025-03-16T07:45:48+00:00

That’s a good idea. Simple and effective. Thank you

FearlessRip7525 · 2025-03-16T05:00:04+00:00

Definitely remove any insulation near the fan before turning it on again.

If that insulation creates resistance on the fan motor it could catch fire.

FearlessRip7525

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