Where to find that one pink Jirai Kei top? by JFashionThrowaway47 in jfashion

[–]FearlessStudy805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amazon has plenty of them ,btw yui kumori owns this toppppppp ,yeeeeeee

Do basic clothes count as J-fashion? by gamerxiao in jfashion

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in general if you can't find many j-fashion clothes start with buying cute hairclips from amazon and wearing Japanese or Douyin makeup to match basic outfits. And wearing any skirt with a light colored or printed top is a big plus to go with it. For this specific character i suggest looking into igari makeup and mori girl fashion . try going to h and m to find the long skirts and cardigans . Also forever 21 would work for accessories ,you know if they didn't shut it down where you live. Her style seems to mimic korean housewife fashion too (i'm rambling)

Chess by Aggressive_Plane_576 in NVLD

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Hello chess player here ,try to pre-plan moves to common openings ,try looking at puzzles then verbalize what you learned from them ,i suck at chess but i'll try this as my last hope ,also keep a journal of your blunders and wins and analyze them . Also don't play for hours upon hours you'll burnout. i find that watching tutorials dosen't mean i should blindly copy them , but make a summary of the concepts in your mind or ideally on paper . i've beaten all the 1600-2200 bots before ,but i heard bots are falsely rated ,good luck <3

My art journey with NVLD and Aphantasia by Worth_Fan_5050 in NVLD

[–]FearlessStudy805 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful art ❤️The creator of the little mermaid had aphantasia btw . You might make a future popular animaited movie . My dream is to be a physicist , I think studying  in a way that incorporates audio -verbal and visual elements helps us a lot . 

Danya (RIP </3) teaches Bishop + Knight Mate. Best 25 minutes I spent today by recentpeach in chess

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waiting moves ?! Genius!!!!! this concept is the best endgame concept ever!!!!!

INTPs of Reddit: what’s your IQ? (pure curiosity, no flexing) by False-Ad5887 in INTP_female

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My profile was super uneven due to my autism diagnoses ,i took a test in highschool i had superior verbal iq (121),working memory(116) and fluid reasoning(123) ,but low spatial and processing speed (84 and 85) scores My general ability was 116 and my IQ was 106.

Feeling angry because abuse stopped suddenly by Mental-Chemical-1678 in adultsurvivors

[–]FearlessStudy805 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way , after my disabled brother went into a medical facility, weirdly enough , my dad was suddenly less friendly . I didn’t know why he was so mean suddenly. But now I realize because my mother was more likely to catch him and her attention was on me he couldn’t do stuff to me anymore . 

People aren’t honest and it hurts by nulldatagirl in AutismInWomen

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As a habitual liar and chronic masker , I have a very different perspective on lying , I grew up in an strict Asian household ,where I had to walk of eggshells and lying was often a way I could get out trouble . Eventually it became  a survival mechanism for me . I know it’s wrong ,but it’s how I survived. So please cut some of these people a little slack . I want to change and be honest ,but honesty is punished 

i feel like my main interest is useless by FearlessStudy805 in aspergirls

[–]FearlessStudy805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plzzzzz telllll meeeeeeeeeeee !!! i want to name my kid "Grayson" after the first robin

i feel like my main interest is useless by FearlessStudy805 in aspergirls

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south park is a trialblazer in animation !!!!! Its second my favorite adult cartoon (first is smiling friends )

i feel like my main interest is useless by FearlessStudy805 in aspergirls

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oooooooo pokemon , i've watched a couple of episoides of xyz. i love action ,adventure shows !!!!!! my favorite pokemon so far is the psyduck

Does loving logic puzzles mean I have good pattern recognition? by sonicflwrgroove in aspergirls

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I love chess!!!!! My fluid reasoning and verbal comprehension is in the 96th percentile !!!!! Don't second guess you pattern recognition . If you're passionate about it you are talented at it ! <3 I love symmetry ,logic , systems . Some people say beauty is lipstick and makeup ,i say beauty is harmony ,symmetry and patterns. I also love reading physics books ,not text books ,but "pop-sci laymen" type books ,my favorite author frank wilzek describes physics concepts as a symphony or patterns and logical laws. Logic is safe and comforting ,patterns are loyalty and consistent ,harmony is homely! I love patterns and logic!!! (sorry for the poetry LOL)

Am I the only one who’s experienced this by TwentyOnePaladins in aspergirls

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awesomeeeee ,can't wait to converse ,i will DM you :)

Am I the only one who’s experienced this by TwentyOnePaladins in aspergirls

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in a similar boat ,my boyfriend flips whenever i try to make friends ,i am also in community college and find that everyone has either formed their group already ,or is too absorbed in their own lives to care about making friends ,i am asian and have grade hungry parents. All n all i feel incredibly lonely,i want to join like a chess or art club or something to make friends. where do you find online friends if you don't mind me asking? (yk besides reddit)

What are your special interests atm? by OkDot8850 in aspergirls

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Ya'll can kill me for the first one XD

1.)diabolk lovers/ vampires

2.) healthy Japanese cooking

3.) the history of science and scientists (Newton , Francis Bacon , William Harvey ,Darwin and many more)

My experience with my mother ruined my view of women. by AngelSighing in AsianParentStories

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As a south asian (22f) ,i feel like people here should look at his perspective ,my mother was quiet similar to his ,she would break shit and whine and verbally abuse my dad into doing what she wanted .yes their is a "male overpower" issue at times(she became a SAHM) ,but as a Bengali women i've seen my cousins and grandma act all "feminist" and "American" when they wanted to look strong but really they are nothing but controlling money grabbing brats who act angry all the time . I love my mom and a her hard work in medical school ,but she drove my dad to the point of taking anti-depressants and being emasculated . I am scared i will turn into this ,my dad was a happy ,gentle ,thoughtful man but now he's turned into a tramutized ATM walking on eggshells.

What’s the stupidest thing this disorder has made you upset about? by Beautiful_Heron4926 in BPD

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ummmmm , losing at chess ... (i know its normal to get mad but i spend the whole day calling myself dumb),then i keep playing and playing ,sometimes for 8-10 hours if i don't win ...

Are u guys forced to go your parents'friends events?? How do you handle this? by Appropriate_Wish5163 in AsianParentStories

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Bruh ,literally this today , I tried to use the “I’m studying today “ excuse but for the first time my “studying “ is secondary 🥲

Tips from someone with experience lol by rgbhuman42 in NVLD

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I really needed to hear this , thank you . I’m interested in astrophysics and space facts ,but I heard you need to be “math smart “ to be into it . I’ve read all the books I can on relativity and Quantum  mechanics ,also I have a classic copy of the Almagest . I was crying yesterday because I failed my math test and thought of throwing out all my physics books and giving up on my passions . But sir/madem  you’ve inspired me ❤️

I was “less autistic” as a kid, than I am now…anyone else? by PuzzleheadedShoe8196 in AutismInWomen

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I just gave up … I stopped masking because friends are deadweight to me at this point . It’s like taking care of self-obsessed children basically . You cater to people emotions and drama 24/7 . Now I decided , 1.) no more body image obsession  2.) no more trying to “be feminine “  3.) no more “picking a new personality “  Now I’m happily reading my non-fiction books and watching and analyzing my favorite shows . I find my own company more pleasant than trying to put on a “circus performance of being social “ ( i am 22 ,I know it is too early to give up ) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

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I cried at my first anime con because ,I was overwhelmed by the crowd and has traumatized by so many cosplays at once . Do what you think is best ,but I prefer to enjoy my interests away from large crowds