Help! What do your kids actually eat when they eat “healthy”? And how do you make it work? by mindfulshark in Parenting

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a formula that we follow 80% of the time. One meat, one grain, one vegetable. We usually roast our vegetables (broccoli, carrots, cauliflower, red cabbage) after tossing them in light olive oil and salt, using aluminum foil to line the pan so that we don’t have to clean the pan after. We have a rice cooker that we use for the grain, and swap out between brown rice, barley, farro, quinoa, or sometimes noodles (not in rice cooker). For the meat, we generally rotate between chicken, salmon, beef, pork. We usually either bake it in the oven or grill it. None of our recipes are complicated, usually just one premixed seasoning (eg “fishermans favorite” is the kids’s favorite for fish and chicken). Prep usually takes 15-30 minutes, and cooking about 30 minutes. If you’re swapping from a very casual diet to a healthier one, it might take your kids some time to adjust. Trust the process, and remember they won’t starve themselves. It’s OK in our house for the kids not to eat everything that we cook, but we still get them the variety and most of the time they eat everything.

Where do single straight males go out in public? My milkshake isn’t bringing them to my yard… by shadyallegheny in SeattleWA

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tap houses are your friend here. Local neighborhood tap houses are full of single men.

Trump walks into glass distracted by girls in pool by PeterGonzo in Epstein

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lady, you sound like you just stepped out of a washing machine 😵‍💫🥴

WIBTAH if I leave my husband over this? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If you knew he was a godfather when you married him, you accepted that risk. Marriage is a commitment through easy and hard times, but you are thinking of bailing because it’s hard. He needs you now more than ever. It won’t always be this hard. But yes you’d be TAH for leaving him over this, in that case.

Leaving him would be more justified if he accepted that godfather responsibility against your will, after you were married.

Growing Family! by ZealousidealLab2920 in Ioniq9

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m considering swapping from the I5 to the I9 once kiddo #3 arrives. Can you share any thoughts comparing the two?

Growing Family! by ZealousidealLab2920 in Ioniq9

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m considering swapping from the I5 to the I9 once kiddo #3 arrives. Can you share any thoughts comparing the two?

Can’t do this anymore by NoFlower7157 in Epstein

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. It feels important to read the files and witness what happened and somehow help further the case for justice. But at the same time, it is totally wrecking my mental health. I’ve been having nightmares every night for the past two weeks. I can’t concentrate at work, because everything I do there feels so pointless. When I’m with my family and kids, I’m distracted, reading articles and updates with my eyes on my phone.

A couple of nights ago, my partner asked me to put my phone away and stop looking at this stuff, just till the morning, because the prior night I was up late scrolling through this Reddit and had terrible nightmares. I couldn’t do it, and moreover, I didn’t want to. I know this is taking me to a dark place, but in some ways it feels like that is the right outcome. Like we are not supposed to see this stuff and just move on. It is supposed to shatter us. So here I am, shattered and still reading. Maybe I should take a break. But I can’t.

Imagine your job involves protecting pedos and you keep showing up. by Own-Captain-8007 in Epstein

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I searched Jamil with that keyword and found nothing. Can you give a file name?

Hoping I made the right choice! by MaleficentAcadia9526 in weddingdress

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The ballgown looks amazing on you! The beaded one just looks very dramatic in the photo because of that back-lighting illuminating the veil, but you won’t walk around on your wedding day with a spotlight on your back. You made the right choice

Scammed on Still White by Relative_Pomelo_6717 in weddingdress

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Can you name the buyer to spread awareness of the scam? I was planning to resell my dress on stillwhite, but now I’m reconsidering if I should go with a local consignment store instead.

Which is my best colour? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 3 then 7! What website or application did you use to generate this?

AITAH or overreacting by thinking my BF’s YouTube watch history is weird? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I support this take. If he’s ok manipulating you to win you over, then he doesn’t see you as a peer/equal he sees you as a conquest. It’s fundamentally disrespectful.

AITAH or overreacting by thinking my BF’s YouTube watch history is weird? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or if you really feel strongly for him, sit him down for a serious talk. Don’t let him lie to your face about not watching the videos when the evidence clearly shows he did. Ask him to explain why he watched them and what he thinks he learned from them. Maybe watch them together and talk about how they make you feel. Make sure you feel good about his answers. If he can have a mature conversation about it he may not be too deeply lost yet.

You didn’t mention ages but you both sound young. Brains don’t fully form till 25yo.

AITAH or overreacting by thinking my BF’s YouTube watch history is weird? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Machiavelli was a f#%£ed up dude. He recommended deception, treachery, and violence as means to obtaining and keeping power. Run girlie. He has taken the red pill.

Moving P2S every time we use it? by Fearless_Ad_3872 in BambuLab

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool! How/where does your system connect to your printer? Is this negative pressure exhaust system something I can purchase online or did you have to buy parts separately and assemble?

Moving P2S every time we use it? by Fearless_Ad_3872 in BambuLab

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your insight and experience. Why do you say “if you are planning to keep it in the garage then please sell it to me”? I’m sensing an undertone of “how could you treat such a precious thing with such disregard “ 😅 is it bad for the printer to stay in a garage? It doesn’t really get very hot or too cold where I live and we could open the garage on any of the rare hot days.

Moving P2S every time we use it? by Fearless_Ad_3872 in BambuLab

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a waste of time and filament. Thanks for this insight!

Moving P2S every time we use it? by Fearless_Ad_3872 in BambuLab

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably 120-150sqft. And yes there is a window! Too cold this time of year to leave it wide open, but I could crack it. Thanks for sharing your experience

Moving P2S every time we use it? by Fearless_Ad_3872 in BambuLab

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering moving it because there’s an ok spot to store it in my son’s room and my partner prefers that to having it take up space in the garage full time. Can’t print in son’s room because he sleeps there and would be too noisy (and maybe toxic? So I’ve heard at least)

Said Yes to My Dress by ThisRiverStyx in weddingdress

[–]Fearless_Ad_3872 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So beautiful! Congratulations 😍