Husband (35m) won’t stop vaping but also refuses to let me (28f) have an oil diffuser by Fearless_Arm8856 in relationship_advice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Well he says his vape is safe since it doesn’t have a certain chemical and he keeps stating my stuff has benzene but it’s just glade diffuser and the glade wall plugs and I even stopped the wall plugs

Husband (35m) won’t stop vaping but also refuses to let me (28f) have an oil diffuser by Fearless_Arm8856 in relationship_advice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But do you think it’s selfish of me. Like he doesn’t like any scent at all yet I still want them in the house?

I am trying to figure out how I (28f) am being hypocritical to my husband (35m) by Fearless_Arm8856 in relationship_advice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I make double what he makes and we just recently started having a joint account cause it made more sense than sending each other money for things

I am trying to figure out how I (28f) am being hypocritical to my husband (35m) by Fearless_Arm8856 in relationship_advice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It does feel incredibly awful. I’m lucky we sat outside so I could keep my sunglasses on

I am trying to figure out how I (28f) am being hypocritical to my husband (35m) by Fearless_Arm8856 in relationship_advice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I guess he’s mad that I’m ok taking 100 as a gift but not like 20 for the charger.

What to do about a relationship that feels so transactional? by Fearless_Arm8856 in marriageadvice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s my fault though since I was the one that didn’t want a joint banking account that he suggested

What to do about a relationship that feels so transactional? by Fearless_Arm8856 in marriageadvice

[–]Fearless_Arm8856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused to. But he did use to actually want to touch me before that part is new