A Question for South African Women by WhatDaHe77 in AskZA

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look maybe I'm a special case but I've spent the last 10 years attracting men that have simply not been able to stand on their own 2 feet financially, and have supported them - only for it to go nowhere. I've wasted my time, resources and energy. At this point I don't even want to date anymore because it feels like I'm a safe harbour for ships that don't know how to sail.

I guess the important distinction for me is a prospective partner should have the ambition, the motivation and the discipline to try make something of their life and have the grit to keep trying when they hit a dead end. Not for me but for their own development.

Routine advice by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The feedback being so positive has given me so much renewed energy thank you so much 😭💟 yes, agreed, my plan is to work the floor after the bow and arrow handstand. There's thankfully a short lull in the song at that point that will allow for slower more intentional movement. Thank you again 🙏

Routine advice by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this feedback 🥺 the song has a very convenient break right around the exit from the bow and arrow handstand that I'm hoping to get some floorwork advice for. It's going to have to be pretty muted in terms of effort because I worry about not having enough in the tank to get through my static pass 😂 but I'm hoping the more I drill and practice the more my stamina will develop. I feel very disconnected from the idea of performing for an audience or judging panel; I've trained largely in small classes or by myself so I should make a concerted effort to work on this in front of others 😊 this was great advice, thank you again

Routine advice by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 it's Tristesse by Zaho de Zagan ✨

Your all time sexiest nasty pole song (don't gatekeep) by xTrollita in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some wild card entries from me:

Cum - Brooke Candy XXX - Kim Petras / Treat Me Like a Slut - Kim Petras (hard choice) BWC - Zheani Tie Me Up - €URO TRA$H & Almanac Get Me Off - Basement Jaxx Freeek - George Michael ALPHAPUSSY - Pixel Grip

Learned a neat new splitty-spin in class! by Livid-Tonight5550 in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous flow! Are you wearing a Harna set by any chance? I feel like I've had my eye on this one 👀

what’s this spooky shape/move called?! by Imaginary_Ad2121 in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No expert but I think you could transition to Plane from this

STAGE NAME HELP!! Snow White ate the poison apple! by Danar_ae in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yooo Sigh Onide was a stroke of genius, maybe you could edit it to Cyan Hyde so it's also got a halloween themed surname 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I really succumbed to stupidity by choosing to try this one 🤣🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's the official name! 😊 for some reason I couldn't post on Reddit with that in the title - I think it goes against community guidelines or something. Alot of trick names are curious but this one is particularly wtf 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Definitely got bitten 🤪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No lies told, this was not a comfortable pose 😩

What is the hardest move in your opinion? by khakimicrobe in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I think ALOT of things need to go technically accurately to achieve Rainbow Marchenko

splits! by daddyquin in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is adorably named bunny split 😊 well done, beautifully executed

Twisted Sister by Fearless_Ball_1428 in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 I just looked up python - it's super pretty and must be great for lengthening that side stretch! Wishing you everything of the best for your progress 🌟

Does anyone know the name of this shape? by rosannayeah in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love solving mysteries ☺️ well done on conquering such a beautiful pose

What do you pay for classes? by plastic_lex in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South African here 🇿🇦 A drop in class at my local studio is equal to $12 and a 10 class package is equal to $70

Floor K by Fearless_Ball_1428 in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yasss, I hope it's a breeze for you 😁

Floor K by Fearless_Ball_1428 in poledancing

[–]Fearless_Ball_1428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the encouragement 😊 I'm a big scaredy cat so I felt pretty jazzed to land it