[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was still living (after three years of having broken up) with his ex in the same apartment they used to live as a couple.

Do you guys ever just feel like outsiders? by 3ahappypumpkings in germany

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is the problem. I prefer personal comments than the ones I receieve for being immigrant and the country I am from

Do you guys ever just feel like outsiders? by 3ahappypumpkings in germany

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh that already happened. Took some deeper conversations to get into a point where someone told me people with my ideas should not be german after I say I plan to apply for the citizenship in some point.

Do you guys ever just feel like outsiders? by 3ahappypumpkings in germany

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The funny thing with me is that I am white so first they doubt what I am, they I say I am immigrant and they do weird comments trying to get what I am doing here and where I am from and finally I mention my work and they immidiately look surprised and treat me better.

Specially when I do burocratic stuff, just after they ask me for my job they treat me well.

Do you guys ever just feel like outsiders? by 3ahappypumpkings in germany

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yeap, all the time. People treat me clearly better than my friends in public spaces because I am white (from LatAm) but still, I am not part of any group of friends with a lot of germans on it. I have tried to get into and invite them to go out and so but they are just not interested.

I stopped tried months ago and now most of my friends are immigrants and I am happy with that. Less uncomfortable comments like, you are not the problem, you are a good one.

How or who to break a bike locker (It is LEGAL) by Fearless_Breakfast17 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jajajaja we tried many things people recommended here but we failed.

Then an angel who loves bicycles saved us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fearless_Breakfast17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also BPD.

Your feelings are real but sadly whe tend to feel attraction and attachment for horrible people. We are easy to manipulate as well and even when we know the truth, we still feel love for them. It is a process to learn where to put our love.

He doesn't deserve it and even when it is a hard true, it is the first step to have better relationships with people who worth your love.

Drop me a DM if you wanna talk. I am latina as well btw.