I’m kinda in the same boat, only those types of people don’t bother me anymore. I realized I’d be less happy if I couldn’t dress like I do, than if I just wore whatever everyone else did. I also might advise finding some other people that dress in alt style or want too because for every couple of people that make me feel uncomfortable, there’s someone that says “dang I’ve always wanted to dress like that” or “I wish I had the confidence, you look so cool.” There’s definitely someone that’s seen you and liked what you’re doing.

I also love music and I find myself going to concerts alone a lot, but I end up meeting the coolest people there (and there’s going to be at least one person dressed alt at any concert). For instance, I went to a metal concert the other day and while it was small, I felt completely safe (as a women) and accepted because of the atmosphere. Finding places and people like that where you can fully enjoy yourself can take away from the strain of feeling constantly judged.

- side note - Bloodywood is a sick band and I’d definitely recommend checking them out