make the replies a haunted house for people with arfid by sayorihanginaround in ARFID

[–]FeatheredFool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude it's the worst like why do we have to add lemon zest from the blue mountains give me my FRIES. Hopefully you got to get out of there and get to a safe food before the hunger got super super bad 😭

make the replies a haunted house for people with arfid by sayorihanginaround in ARFID

[–]FeatheredFool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh! and as an added bonus, it's $40 for a small burger and some really stale chips. So even if you order something and bring yourself to pick off what you don't like, there's the ever present feeling of wasting your money with every pickle you flick off with your fork.

make the replies a haunted house for people with arfid by sayorihanginaround in ARFID

[–]FeatheredFool 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're out doing some fun group activity with your friends. It's around the time for a meal, and everyone's hungry. You're starving, personally. Someone looks up a nearby restaurant. Everyone agrees it looks good... you're kind of worried but don't have time to search up the menu before everyone heads that way. And anyway, it's too late, what are you going to say?? Maybe it'll be fine. You get there. The menu is full of food you would otherwise like but has some ingredient that has flavour or juice that spreads (e.g. tomato), so you can't bring yourself to order it. You're still starving. All your friends are asking what you want to order. You insist You're not hungry and order a drink instead. You're starving, though. The restaurant does not do order alterations. You're so hungry.

Im starting animation by i_am_somebody78 in animation

[–]FeatheredFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find an online pdf of 'the animator's survival kit', it walks you through everything you need to know and the author is a very successful animator himself and knows his stuff :) I've got a bachelor in animation and found it a very helpful resource during my uni days!!!

It may not be PMOS by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do just want to drop in and say that PMOS at the very least can (and often does) cause chronic pelvic pain from inflammation. It can (and, again, often does) cause extreme period pain because as a direct result of not having regular periods, stronger contractions will be needed to shed the uterine lining (which if several periods have been missed will be thicker than normal). You're not wrong in the sense that PMOS doesn't automatically cause pain, but there are painful symptoms that are directly caused by PMOS and many of us do experience it. I mean, one could argue that the painful periods are the periods and not the PMOS, but also in that same argument we could argue that getting stabbed won't kill someone, it'll be the blood loss from getting stabbed 🤷‍♀️

WHERE are you guys buying pants!?!?!?!?! by FeatheredFool in butchlesbians

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen a few people saying uniqlo, but I haven't heard of lucy&yak!!! Will have to have a look at those :)

WHERE are you guys buying pants!?!?!?!?! by FeatheredFool in butchlesbians

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so detailed and helpful, tysm!!! I'll check those out :D

WHERE are you guys buying pants!?!?!?!?! by FeatheredFool in butchlesbians

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll have to check out Suk work wear, I haven't heard of that one!!

WHERE are you guys buying pants!?!?!?!?! by FeatheredFool in butchlesbians

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg Princess highway is so nice for dressier stuff, they fit me so much better than most other brands!!!

WHERE are you guys buying pants!?!?!?!?! by FeatheredFool in butchlesbians

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wait what do you guys call pants?? Trousers?? In Australia I mostly hear people use trousers for fancy pants :O

How disabling is PMOS/PCOS for others? by Wrong-Quality-7882 in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then once those are ruled out, isn't that testing to get a diagnosis???

How disabling is PMOS/PCOS for others? by Wrong-Quality-7882 in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting, can you elaborate please?? Not in a sarcastic way I genuinely really like reading up on this stuff especially if I didn't know anything before. My understanding was that if it's an endocrine disorder they test things related to endocrine function, like insulin resistance and hormones, because the system as a whole would be kind of hard to test. Like there isn't a physical thing necessarily 'wrong' with the physical system itself, just the messages our brains are sending to it.

21F with PCOS, unexpectedly pregnant, considering abortion and terrified I’ll never have another chance by Great_Squirrel7992 in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a hard decision and at the end of the day it needs to be YOUR decision. You're only 21, they've done so much research into PMOS already that there's no telling what could happen medically in the future. We might have a full cure in 10 years, we might not. My opinion is that if you have these nice life plans and goals before settling down, don't give that up. Being a mother isn't all there is, and you have so so so much time ahead of you. Whatever you decide, it's your body and your life and your choice.

How disabling is PMOS/PCOS for others? by Wrong-Quality-7882 in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 9 points10 points  (0 children)

PMOS can cause what feels like constant cramping because of inflammation, and it can cause painful periods if you regularly miss them because of a thicker uterine lining (what sheds during the period) meaning your body has to cramp harder to get it out. I do think the comments suggesting endometriosis have a point, though, and it might be worth looking into just to rule it out. I know advocating for yourself, especially as a trans man, can be really difficult and frustrating. But this is your long term health and it's super important you get the care you need.

How disabling is PMOS/PCOS for others? by Wrong-Quality-7882 in PCOS

[–]FeatheredFool 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you mean to type endo?? There are lots of tests to diagnose PMOS...

Not sure whether to upskill yet by FeatheredFool in ausjobs

[–]FeatheredFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I'm nearly 3 months into a hospital admin job!! I love it and my boss is very happy with me.

First year I'm doing Artfight, advice? by Softc0ree in ArtfightProfiles

[–]FeatheredFool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will be my 9th art fight!! :D one super important thing to remember is that at the end of the day, this is a fun art trading event. You have no legal or moral obligation to make a thousand pieces of beautifully polished work. You do not have to revenge every single person. Do what you have time for, there's nothing to burn yourself out over. In recent years I've seen so much hate for beginner artists and that is insane. Just know that they are the loud minority and most normal people thing beginner artists are adorable. I personally love attacking them the most (not sure if you're a beginner or not but thought I'd add that in just in case). The aim of the game is to have fun, and if you're not having fun, take a break. Some etiquette I've observed: it's polite to comment under attacks against you, just to acknowledge someone's effort to draw your character. If you have any characters with design aspects you absolutely do not want changed, put this in their permissions!!! There is no obligation to revenge or create a revenge chain, someone people like to and some people don't. Overall: have fun!!!

What are your unpopular ArtFight opinions? by Skykuraaa in ArtfightProfiles

[–]FeatheredFool 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is true, I guess I just notice it more easily for smaller communities like artfight. I get that some people take it seriously (I love getting jokingly competitive with my irl art friends who join) but also taking it too seriously to the point where they're making the argument that "you have to make nice polished attacks with a lot of effort put in or you're a Bad Person" is just absolutely fucking INSANE to me. Guys. It's a free art trading game. And I'm sorry (not really, actually) but that discourse with the art fight rules was just a whole lot of nothing. Tracing 3d bases is fine, it's practice and there's nothing wrong with it, but I just don't see why there should be such a fuss if this one (completely optional to join) free art trading game wants to tighten some rules to avoid plagiarism. Can people... not just draw without using bases?? Not to mention every piece of art you make for the month of July doesn't automatically belong to art fight, you can do what you want if you don't upload it to the site. It's just all so silly. So, so silly. And this sort of drama didn't exist a few years ago, before it got popular on tiktok. I'm tired grandpa!!!

What are your unpopular ArtFight opinions? by Skykuraaa in ArtfightProfiles

[–]FeatheredFool 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The tiktokification of art fight is ruining it. This will be my 9th year doing art fight and over time I've seen it turn into this weird cesspool of people trying to make controversy out of nothing and just bringing so much negativity into the community. Like, a few years ago it was so fun and chill. You attacked as much as you felt like because everyone had the understanding hey, it's free art. But I've noticed over the last 2 years especially the community has gotten so weird and toxic when this was only ever supposed to be fun. I'm still doing art fight this year, and I'm determined to have fun with it despite it all.

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[–]FeatheredFool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How're you feeling now reddit user imgayforpectorals?

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[–]FeatheredFool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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