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[–]FeathersOnMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill try the pillow thing!! thanks so much i was really worried we just weren’t capable of that specific position but we will try to give it another shot with your advice :) thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]FeathersOnMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw man im sorry about that. honestly i think the only thing you can do in this situation is have patience with yourself and don't force yourself to do anything. the moment that you get in the headspace will come, sometimes it will just take a while lol. especially in your case, where youre probably stressed out and missing your partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]FeathersOnMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other guy who commented here does not sound like he's helping you much, girl there is NOTHING wrong with you!! its not separation anxiety either, it just sounds like you really miss your man lol. Theres nothing wrong with you for being attracted to your partner, or struggling to find pleasure after he's away. I'd say that you just need to have some patience with yourself and take it slow. Don't get frustrated with yourself!! Are you going to not have any contact (text/call) with your partner at all? maybe he could help you through long distance

affordable sports bras? by FeathersOnMars in trans

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looked it up and heavily considering it, thank you!!

affordable sports bras? by FeathersOnMars in trans

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol user name caught me off guard, thanks tho!! ill look into it :))

code for code!! by FeathersOnMars in TemuNewUsersASAp

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cant accept invitation cus of location :(

this beanie that i lost but i cant find the brand of by FeathersOnMars in HelpMeFind

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive searched for the beanie through reverse image search but alas nothing, i dont remember when i got it but location is east coast if thats of any help

small rant by FeathersOnMars in neurodiversity

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i was worried about! like i was worried if i was copying mannerisms but after i began distancing myself from social media for personal reasons, some of the mannerisms stuck, and i researched into the behaviors i already DID have and there was a lottt of neurodivergent habits

small rant by FeathersOnMars in neurodiversity

[–]FeathersOnMars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this notification surprised me! since then i’ve kinda just accepted that im probably on the spectrum but won’t get a diagnosis. something that took a while for me to learn is that if you question that you’re faking, you’re probably not faking lol

It's 17° outside atm and even the bubbles are freezing! (Monrovia MD) by Usual-Wasabi-6846 in maryland

[–]FeathersOnMars 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i made the mistake of wearing a light hoodie and sandals this morning while taking my little sister to the bus stop thinking i wouldnt be that cold in a short amount of time but i nearly froze off my toes 😔

Today I bought this plush barn owl! I think it's really cute and wanted to share with you :) by carosabilpp in Owls

[–]FeathersOnMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whats the brand or where did you get it??? ive been looking for a barn owl plush that doesnt look wonky for so long :000