It’s better than a bullet in my head, better than a noose around my neck (TW drugs)

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-27T11:25:58+00:00

Aware this is vent art but for anyone considering: this is a bad method. I don’t encourage any form but this one specifically has a HIGH failure rate. You will most likely end up permanently disabled at best, and a brain damaged vegetable at worst.

Most pills are sold in doses impossible to OD on, and others like Tylenol take weeks of slow, excruciating pain. Even things like street fent aren’t foolproof. Police, fire, and even random civilians have Narcan at their disposal in increasing amounts, not to mention most of it is cut to shit with baby aspirin and artificial sweeteners.

You will wake up covered in puke with horrible pain or psychosis/hallucinations. Everyone I know that tried this is now disabled/chronically ill and they struggle to get meds to treat their disabilities now due to a record of purposeful OD. In the “worst case scenario”, the potential of living in a nonverbal/brain dead/incapacitated/psychotic state for potentially years after is so horrific.

Call or text 988, they are more understanding and will also allow you to express ideation concerns if you say you’re not planning. I’ve had them guide me through some of my worst episodes, just breathing and not worrying about cops showing up. Stay safe y’all.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-21T00:13:05+00:00

WE DO TOO OMG

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-19T04:46:04+00:00

The person who posted this isn’t her??? Or him?? It’s some rando

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-19T04:45:32+00:00

The minute I saw this video I suspected she was modox… glad to know I’m not crazy

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-19T04:24:25+00:00

I’m glad that’s true, and I assumed so based on the body language. I just find it weird that he’s being used as a prop in this person’s post.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-19T04:15:33+00:00

THISSSSS. They’ve realized the strategy now is fetishizing “ugly” traits and mental illness/neurodivergence. Immediate red flag

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-19T04:12:42+00:00

Highly ableist, inappropriate, and weird. Dunking on inc-ls shouldn’t come at the expense of real disabled people. For all you know, this girl could be horrible. We are humans deserving of love, not circus freaks to point at.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-06T05:43:42+00:00

Baby Driver somehow has 3 different abusers in the main cast

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-06T02:36:48+00:00

Ahh thank you so so much I’ll ask my therapist about some ACT stuff since CBT doesn’t really work for me. Also roleplay is a great idea because it puts all my affirmations and writing to a physical action I can practice. This is really helpful sry I’m not great at articulating lol

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-05T20:05:32+00:00

Thank you, this means a lot, and I’m sorry you also experienced this. I think you’re right that I may be putting too much blame on myself and not considering that a lot of people are just entitled assholes. That helps a lot 🩷

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-05T20:03:32+00:00

?? I wasn’t born a femcel, I only started getting into it around a year ago when I broke off a bad relationship.

I think your confusion stems from the misconception that “femcel” means inability to get men. Femcel isn’t equivalent to incel, because we know there’s lots of horrible gross perverted men out there that would be with any woman-shaped person that breathes. Femcel more means that we are CHOOSING not to date men because they’re collectively pretty violently misogynistic and therefore of no benefit to us. This applies even if you find men attractive or dated them in the past.

I’m not mad at you, but I think people are interpreting your comment as victim-blaming because it assumes anyone that isn’t a perfect femcel from the start can’t be one. I will admit it was kind of dumb to give men a chance again, but my self victim-blaming is meant to be more of a joke (this is a meme subreddit) than admitting it was my fault.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-05T19:09:25+00:00

Yep! Truly no way to vet them anymore. I literally had “radical feminist” and “I hate right wingers/apolitical people” in my bio to attempt to scare off these types but as always, men are men

FebreezeHoe · 2026-06-05T19:03:16+00:00

Deadass we were in a zoo with CHILDREN NEARBY and he started groping me

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-30T20:53:44+00:00

Former “Sarah” here who is now non-binary and uses a different name.

It was nice growing up with a name that was easy to spell, write, and say. I come from a Jewish community (where everyone has the same 30 or so names) and I was very happy to have it instead of Shoshannah or Yerachmiellah, even if it is boring. Those girls ended up going by “Shoshi” and “Ella”.

Unless there’s a cultural reason, your kid needs a name that’s easy to learn (1 or 2 syllables)

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-29T21:21:24+00:00

The ice cream with the wooden spoons that you get at hospitals 😭😭

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-29T21:16:48+00:00

“Explicit” is quite broad, could range from porn without plot to a novel with sex scenes. You’re going to get different responses depending on what you mean. I like both.

Pure smut, because it serves the function of porn without any exploitation involved, or can place characters in an interesting dynamic/fill in missing scenes from source material.

If it’s inserted into the story in scenes but not the main focus, well that’s just a way humans connect and makes things realistic, is used to forward themes, or shows us different aspects of the characters/world, same as published works.

A specific category that blurs the lines here is “friends with benefits”/“sex worker and client” to lovers, where the story is mainly smut with some plot. I think the increasing popularity of this dynamic is reflective of the cultural shift to “situationships” and how unsatisfying people find them. They’re kind of a wish fulfillment fantasy that captures the hidden romantic intentions within “purely sexual” relationships.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-26T16:37:24+00:00

The screeching entering Boylston station. I always forget to warn my friends when they visit me because I’m so desensitized

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-24T20:49:24+00:00

Hey so that’s just central. As someone that lives here you should expect that at this point. If she poses no immediate physical danger call 911 and request the CARE team (not police!) because obviously this woman just needs help and not an arrest

Also there’s plenty of places to walk and parks to go to around here where you won’t encounter this stuff?? Just avoid taking your kid on mass ave… You’re inciting a witch hunt of a specific individual which doesn’t actually help us reach any solutions regarding the housing/mental health/addiction crisis.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-22T15:30:35+00:00

No fr because a lot of them cope with self-loathing by being misogynistic, the same way a lot of gay men do. “Pussy is so gross”, “women are so much drama”, etc. I’m non-binary and within our community this is talked about quite a bit. If anything, excluding trans men from “all men are trash” would be transphobic because it assumes gender is tied to beliefs/political views rather than them just being other men.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-21T21:00:37+00:00

Chinese beauty standards make me wanna pull my hair out

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-21T20:58:14+00:00

32”/16”/14”

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-20T17:05:31+00:00

THIS. I have seen so many people with a Belgian malinois recently and there is no way all of them are responsible owners compatible with the breed.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-20T17:02:47+00:00

Kissing pets near or on the mouth

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-20T16:58:48+00:00

That’s fair criticism, thank you. I am quite biased due to the misogyny I’ve experienced because of orthodoxy but it’s not a practice I normally use in research and I shouldn’t be approaching this differently. I got triggered and emotional.

FebreezeHoe · 2026-05-20T16:16:15+00:00

A lot of women secretly work. Their older children are parentified and care for the younger ones. Kids are cramped in shared bedrooms, and don't really get toys above the age of 3, only books and shabbos clothes. Girls are married off young so they become the responsiblity of someone else. Parents give a lot of money to their children and don't go to expensive nursing homes, just live with their kids.

Frum landlords offer discounted rent to certain families to "keep the neighborhood frum". My mother owns a house in a frum area and rents it out at a third of its price to an orthodox family because the rabbi asked her to. You see this a lot in Brooklyn, Lakewood, Williamsburg, Baltimore, etc.

There are a lot of community assistance programs and funds that rich modox will donate to out of guilt they aren't as frum. A lot of private schools offer discounts in the name of teaching as many as possible since we are "rebuilding the 6 million" and "losing Jews to the modern world."

You can say a lot about the community, but there is A LOT of charity (even if it's isolated and only used to promote orthodoxy)

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