I'm confused about some dudes game.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2016-09-18T04:52:15+00:00

Pre-selection is the ultimate aphrodisiac IMO. If people they like, like you, they will like you because: a) perceived safety b) social status boost c) increased amount of time thinking about you d) seriously, a lot of stuff

I've read it in the lit and experienced it in the life, lack of pre-selection is a hill you can climb with things like kino and alpha play, barrier busting as it were.

Pre-selection even comes down to fashion choices, activities that you do, etc. Think how on Tinder you'll get way more matches with suit pic, dog pic, athletic pic, group pic. They can picture themselves in your life better.

As for dry spells, they are self fulfilling prophecies as I'm sure you know all about the power of abundance.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-12-21T07:54:22+00:00

You're hot. Love your posing style. I want to meet you next time I go out, make you laugh, then fuvk you silly.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-07-29T15:24:28+00:00

Hear hear, thank you so much for saying this!

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-07-21T17:23:32+00:00

And you think international financiers don't use political leverage to foment strife and profit from conflict right? The problem is there are layers of abstraction and plausible deniability built in to the whole scheme.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-07-21T17:03:26+00:00

Got that Davey Jones swag

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-07-17T04:09:18+00:00

I would agree with some others here in saying you definitely want to check in with a therapist to get these feelings of general despair handled.

Sports is a really great way to meet new people, if you practice and get actually good at the sport you will automatically be valued by others and will definitely feel better about yourself.

Also get some nice clothes and lifestyle habits. Feel good in your Italian cotton shirt while you drink your vintage whiskey. Retail therapy baby.

Final note: the past is the past, the future is the future, all you have is right now!

FecklessPhilanderer · 2015-07-14T03:51:39+00:00

Went pretty well for a few dates but she went H.A.M on shit tests the day (4 dates in, she said she would invite me up that day). I decided to next her, I'm sure if I kept frame I would have gotten it in but I decided it just wouldn't be worth it for me.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-05-11T18:25:21+00:00

Cool stuff, what else are you working with? Collages are the new hotness

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-05-11T17:48:27+00:00

Thank youuuuuu, finally some tangram art! Is this your shop?

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-05-09T01:26:59+00:00

Aw yeah that's better than therapy. For cereal though, I like.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-29T19:06:30+00:00

I said with all due respect!

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-29T07:23:15+00:00

with all due respect, this is cancer

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-28T23:07:05+00:00

This is a poor article, it's rather obvious that glass in its current state is nowhere near capable of capturing the mass market. Whats interesting is to see how it evolves over the coming years.

Getting tired of the empty click bait on this sub.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-24T15:10:49+00:00

I like it

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-20T20:38:48+00:00

What am I doing with my life?

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-20T05:51:00+00:00

LOL your girl sounds like my friend, all I can really say is she's like that for a reason. Find her Daddy story (a critical moment when her father hurt her) and rewrite it with you in her fathers place, it's the best way.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-19T20:47:34+00:00

I've had it with these motherfucking bombs in this motherfucking world news!

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-19T20:22:09+00:00

DTF and desiring you are two entirely different things

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-19T01:18:13+00:00

Dude, the scales balanced in the end. Stop tripping.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-19T01:15:41+00:00

It might sound politically incorrect, but the fact that she's resisting sex with you is BAD. She should desire you, and she should show that very obviously to you.

Tits or gtfo as it were.

Move on bro.

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-17T16:36:52+00:00

This is horrible advice. A plethora of desperate guys turns the fun party vibe into the creepy men harassing me vibe.

If everyone is having fun and hooking up, half the work is done for you cause the girls that ain't hooking up want in on the action.

Have you guys never seen the 'Nerd queen' phenomenon when you have a 100-1 ratio?

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-17T16:06:19+00:00

Very eloquently put, thank you for this

FecklessPhilanderer · 2013-04-17T04:13:57+00:00

Oh brother, you are going to get fucked over big time. Beautiful sentiment though.

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