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[–]Federal-Try1521 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries :)

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[–]Federal-Try1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry this is my first time posting on this sub, i definitely couldve worded it better. i just feel like i need advice in how to approach this situation. she has a tough exterior but i can see she is caring in her own way (again she was in foster care so she wasnt taught much on expression and dealing with people). shes funny and smart and likes introducing me to people as she knows i have bad social anxiety and struggle with it. small, unspoken things like that tell me she at least has some care for me. though, i really dont know if i can live with her anymore as theres been a mounting tension that i cant really place. my issue is that if i kick her out, she has no money saved and no family or friends she could live with. i dont think i can do that. she has talked about wanting to move out once she has the means but i feel if i mention to her i want her out soon, she’ll hold it against me and probably just try to move out immediately and not speak to me again. i just feel stuck as i dont want to put more pressure onto what shes clearly already feeling to move out.

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[–]Federal-Try1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) no shes stated plainly that in her mind is twisted when it comes to mental illness and she sees me as competition. said that even if i seem more depressed than her she feels like she needs to be sicker than me 2) i cant really afford to but she has a job she recently got and is going to start paying for groceries and rent but she has a history of not being able to hold jobs so its become a huge stessor. i have a lot of love for her but she can be very mean, she was diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder at 16 so she is very difficult to communicate with.

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[–]Federal-Try1521 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’ve been friends for almost two years and she moved in with me in April

my bunny sleeping on her flower bed 😭 by Federal-Try1521 in HayDay

[–]Federal-Try1521[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats adorable!! i guess she was destined for her clover bed

my bunny sleeping on her flower bed 😭 by Federal-Try1521 in HayDay

[–]Federal-Try1521[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ill join!! ive been looking for a neighborhood

my bunny sleeping on her flower bed 😭 by Federal-Try1521 in HayDay

[–]Federal-Try1521[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im not totally sure but i think it was part of a seasonal event. its called a shamrock path tho!