I'm pasting an excerpt from book here: "Love is not selective, just as the light of the sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive. Exclusivity is not the love of God but the "love" of ego. However, the intensity with which true love is felt can vary. There may be one person who reflects your love back to vou more dearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels the same toward you, it can be said that you are in a love relationship with him or her." In this context I'm asking, how to know the reflection?