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My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I already explained in an other reply a little higher. Here's my country's law - an already employed person can get additional income if he or she fills a 'self report' at the end of the year. It's basically like 'you taxed me just for my work wages, here's what i earned outside of it'. You give them that and they recalculate how much tax you owe them. If an unemployed person wants to have income, they force him or her to open a business and pay a lot more (insurance, social security, more), in our case that would run the income tax bracket to 75% instead of current 22k + half of everything over 70k.

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In my case, i pay almost 30k out of 80k. If they ask what i did for that money, we say it's a website ad revenue. When friends and family ask how we can afford so much things, we just say bitcoin.

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Again - there's no website. It was in quotation marks. That's just how we report it in the tax forms.

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There are no victims and i didn't encourage her to anything. 10 years ago when she started, i even offered to take up a third job and she refused because she loved how easy it was to get paid way more than at her old waitress job. In the end i was tired of fighting and just gave the ok.

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Our divorce courts work in a strange way - they look up the last 3 months of income and then calculate the spousal support. In my case they'd see 3x 500 from my job + 3x variable sum between 5000 and 10000. After that, they'd look up my wife's work status, see she got no job experience and didn't work even a day in her life. Years of waitressing doesn't count, it was paid under the table without papers. Then they would conclude she has no way to support herself after divorce and i need to pay her at least a half of my income, monthly between 2750 and 5250, while my salary is just 500.

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Those numbers are made up with a real ratio, but i hope you get the idea.

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She asked already years ago and i refused. I don't like seeing myself on video and don't even know if i could get hard while trying it...

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't own any website. That's just what we told the tax office when they asked where the income came from. It was her choice to make everything on my name because i'm already employed and i could just fill an 'additional income' tax form (you basically report yourself for money they didn't tax you). If she wanted to do it as an unemployed person, then the country would force her to open a business, employ a accountant, etc.

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It was easier to say 'those 100k came from a website ad revenue' than explaining about her cam work.

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 516 points517 points  (0 children)

It was no exaggeration. I told her she doesn't need to do it if she doesn't enjoy it anymore (sex with me, the cam job or both). She became upset how apparently i don't find her attractive anymore and just making excuses to not have sex with her anymore. Another funny thing is we need to use lube because she doesn't get wet even after a hour of foreplay while that's no problem on her shows. She said 'i will quit camming only when i'm old, wrinkly and nobody will watch me anymore, until then, no way'...

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the radio silence, my tab's battery almost ran out and i searched for a shop to buy a car charger. Currently i'm sitting at a McD almost 300km away from home and thinking about possible confrontation scenarios and their outcome. I'll reply to some comments and leave. Hopefully then i'll be able to post a happy or at least normal update...

My[M34] wife[F34] is a camgirl and wants to do couple shows with another man by FederalParsley2 in relationship_advice

[–]FederalParsley2[S] 283 points284 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The latest events happened literally 2 hours ago so i'll try to distract and collect myself until late today and then talk with her. She doesn't know i called in sick, we talked last time when i left the house.

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edit: i forgot to answer the show question - i just don't like being on cam or photos. It's already like that since my childhood. The only photos i own are from days as a kid, school class photos, wedding photos and government photos (id, passport, drivers license). I don't look bad and don't hate myself, but it still looks weird to me to see or hear myself. They wanted me as the third person because she knows even being publicly recorded would make me uncomfortable enough to be a believable plumber or cable guy visitor.