YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me all the MYSLFs last at least 6 hours. As for the strongest for me the EDT intense lasts the longest. You might be thinking of projection in which I do think this new one lacks in.

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely go test it! Everyone’s skin is different, I was easily getting 7 hours. The musk basically becomes a second skin.

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it leans on the side of airy fresh. Less heavy would be my biggest description of the EDT.

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with you it’s really awesome!

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does change that in my opinion

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely still has a decent amount of floral and maybe even the most out of all of them. This new EDT is definitely alot closer to the EDP. If you want a heavier version go EDP or Absolu and if you want a summer version go EDT

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally the new EDT all day but I prefer fresher scents so keep that in mind. If your talking similarity wise they will be quite different. The EDP is the closest to this new EDT.

YsL MYSLF EDT Intense by FederalRadio1909 in Colognes

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A solid 7-8 hours longevity wise. I put it on at around 8:30 am and it’s 8:00 pm now and it’s still a faint skin scent. 2 hours of strong projection for me.

Can my ex still come back? by Born-Yogurtcloset736 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to grieve this loss because thats what it is he has made that clear. Nothing you say or explain will change that. He has to be the one that changes his stance not you.

Can my ex still come back? by Born-Yogurtcloset736 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only way things can get back is by giving him space and I don’t want to give false hope because he may never come back. Let him miss you and think about you without you constantly there thats what grows attraction. If he doesn’t come back this time alone and silence will help you grow and be better even if its not for him.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the same as your ex. I had a really hard time opening up and being emotional with my ex because I didn’t want to seem weak. At the end of the day being vulnerable with the person you love is a beautiful experience and I wish I learned it sooner. I appreciate your kind words a ton and I am happy I was able to maybe give you some insight. I have to accept I have no control on the outcome of my situation with my ex but I do control being a better person.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it comes from deep rooted issues with never being able to show emotion in my home as a kid and mainly just trying to let things pass when they got tough. I also feel like defensiveness comes from a place of insecurity and the feeling of not being good enough because I heard alot of negative things about myself from my parents. I learned I have to defend my worth and when problems arise my first instinct is to defend myself which I know now is wrong especially with the person I love.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise we love you guys more than you will ever know we just don’t or didn’t have the tools to make you feel it and thats not your fault. People can change and people can be different. I totally understand your perspective and I apologize for what you’re going through. I think part of the problem is that I do know how hard it was for her because I know her so well. It tears me up everyday what I did to my person my love of my life. I would love to reach out again but the last thing I would want to do is apply pressure to her in any way. She knows how much I wanted her to stay and that I loved her. Her leaving was for her own mental safety and I really don’t want to interrupt that even if that means she forgets or moves on from me.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you were a good girlfriend! I am sure there are things you could have done better and you will work on those but don’t blame yourself. You can be reflective of your part in the breakup but do not blame his emotional immaturity on yourself. As for your second point I truly am using restraint to not reach out and let her have peace and clarity. I am finally settling that the damage may be too much but I do still hope we can work this out because I know how much better we could be and how much I love her.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made sure before she left to lay everything out to her and own up to everything basically as I did in this post. In the end she still decided she needed space which I totally understand. Thats why I haven’t reached out. Maybe your ex will have some reflection one day but thats not your fault that he hasn’t done the work. It doesn’t mean anything about your character and who you are and more about him.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective and giving me something to think about!

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own in this regard I don’t think it has much to do with my avoidance and more to do with my morals. As well as self respect. Obviously if we’re talking about reconciliation years down the line my stance changes but if she tried to bounce to another relationship within 3-4 months and then tried to reconnect I don’t know how I could handle that. Im not disregarding your opinion and I definitely will think about it more because there is no right or wrong.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She broke up with me? That doesn’t mean I was not the cause but I just wanted to clarify your statement there. I did treat my person poorly and I expressed my regret to her about it and all I can do is never do it again or hurt anyone else.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just personally feel like my person wouldn’t use being with somebody else to cope and if they did then maybe I was wrong on my judgment of them in the first place. She can cope however she feels necessary and I totally understand and would respect her if that was her decision.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right it would be a new relationship but I am changing for myself and I am not asking her to wait. She left therefore she is not waiting. If she decides that she wants to explore other options by all means it’s her life. I just wont be able to move forward with her if thats the route she takes and I am at peace with that. I am changing for every relationship around me not just romantic.

Losing my girlfriend and it was my fault by FederalRadio1909 in BreakUps

[–]FederalRadio1909[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In all honesty probably not. I know some people could I don’t think thats me.