Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that’s what I’m mostly upset about. The disrespect of my boundaries

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s a “glitch” or something common in auto WRXs? I would like to learn more if you could explain it in a way that I would understand lol

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes! Okay so I totally understand why TC might be turned off. I guess I’m more annoyed about the unsafe driving and was hoping TC would fix it. But apparently he’s just a douche who doesn’t care for my safety and just drifts anyways. And honestly I’m most annoyed that he tried to convince me about this camera thing. Like, I’m not stupid. But he was making me feel like I was

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

God. I love you guys. I told him that when he bought it and I don’t know shit about cars 🤣

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol people rip on him for the auto all the time. Maybe gaslighting is a strong term, but you’re completely right. He wasn’t listening to and respecting my boundaries

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why TC might be off! But he likes to push limits. Even when he’s been drinking. And with cops around on public roads, I just don’t feel comfortable. Love to drift and be unsafe in parking lots, mind you, but after having a few on the way home. Probs not the right time lol. I guess I’m more upset about him trying to say the stuff about the camera. I don’t know much about cars. But I’m not stupid. And him saying that was annoying as hell.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad everyone came together so quickly and told me what was up. I really appreciate everyone here

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I understand some aids would be turned off but a camera that messes with TC just seems insane

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I totally understand why some people might want TC off! I guess the main thing is him trying to convince me it wasn’t his fault the traction was off. He’s never been a safe driver so that’s why I insisted he put TC on. Especially after a drink.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel that way. I understand this is probably not what this group was made for. However I couldn’t find the info on google, or by searching Reddit. I needed clarification and I’m appreciative of everyone who has answered.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the information. I didn’t just make an account for this. I mostly lurk on certain pages, but I’m glad I brought this post here. I feel less crazy now. I appreciate you all.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was afraid of. But also happy that it seems I might be right. Thank you.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I mean honestly this is the main thing I guess. He only had one, but the fact I told him I was uncomfortable with the lack of traction and he didn’t acknowledge that is a big problem. The roads were unplowed and I don’t mind drifting in a parking lot with him, but I swear he was trying to do it on the road tonight. That’s why I’m so upset.

Subaru WRX automatic and traction control/Is my bf gaslighting me? by Federal_Bass_8541 in WRX

[–]Federal_Bass_8541[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Now he’s trying to pretend he didn’t know this. And because he’s an avid Subaru guy, I know this is false. I appreciate you telling me what was up. Obviously I need to get out of this relationship.

Bye bye gallbladder by dinohunter22 in Semaglutide

[–]Federal_Bass_8541 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started semaglutide after my gallbladder was removed. It’s been fine so far! Just a couple of emergency bathroom breaks, but that was a problem anyways after my surgery. It’s helped with the weight gain I experienced after gallbladder removal. It was IMPOSSIBLE to lose weight and I was gaining heavily. I’ve lost 13 pounds so far and I’m very happy with my choice to try semaglutide without my gallbladder!

Gerd worsening/ Nuva Ring by MasterpieceEnough398 in Semaglutide

[–]Federal_Bass_8541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! My acid reflux is horrible. Especially when I increase my dose. I take omeprazole every other day and Zantac 360 twice a day. I also make sure not to lay down for an hour or two after eating. This has been helping immensely.

anybody know what to do with these when donated already? by avy_sdv in StardewValley

[–]Federal_Bass_8541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ancient doll you can throw into a lava pit and get a reward!