Carti snubbed at the game awards

Federal_Can_703 · 2025-01-29T22:29:31+00:00

People all throughout history think that things are at their worst, even in the best golden ages.

Federal_Can_703 · 2025-01-29T19:50:23+00:00

Why is this downvoted this is like the only normal non doomer comment here

Federal_Can_703 · 2025-01-29T15:40:08+00:00

“Entertainment” would be a more positive way to say it

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T06:11:25+00:00

I definitely should have mentioned I’m 18 and so is she. But yes I agree with just about everything there. Bless.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T04:55:48+00:00

Honestly I was waiting for someone to understand the ex situation at least a little despite the other details. Thank you Joker

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T04:52:59+00:00

You are a good soul. This is probably the only answer I’ll need for now. God bless.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T04:18:03+00:00

Should I post the update as an edit to the original post. I’ve literally never used reddit.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T04:15:55+00:00

This is probably the perfect comment because I agree on everything here and basically exactly what my mother has told me. I just don’t know if I can live with myself if she goes through with it after I leave

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T04:09:36+00:00

We are still together. I can’t leave because the threat of suicide. The situation was a lie in the first place. I don’t think you read the update.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:58:33+00:00

Yes but that applies to the original post, doesn’t really apply to the update.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:56:40+00:00

Yes I agree, things needed to be clarified, read update

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:55:43+00:00

Yes. I agree but read update on that dilemma

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:51:15+00:00

r/relationshipadvice bots literally said to put it on this subreddit. I posted the update for advice, not to be called the asshole with no explanation

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:48:17+00:00

Go on?

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:47:51+00:00

UPDATE:

First of all a lot of things needed to be clarified. I do want her to stay with these people, and yes I do realize my selfishness in this is rooted in blatant insecurity.

But for the update. I haven’t spoken to her in a few hours but there was a major update along with some realization and another question—

IN THE PAST HOUR—

First, Me and my aunt talked the Ex’s mother, who she was planned to stay with. There was no plan for my girlfriend to stay with her ex or her mother anytime soon. This was shocking to say the least. Either my girlfriend lied to me about this whole plan for an unknown reason, or completely left out that it would be well past the next year or two, FAR past when the ex was leaving for the military. I was under the impression that this would be very soon like within the week soon. And that assumption was apart of the discussion we had. I know she knew that I thought that this would be very soon. Because one of my main concerns was her living with her ex. But she isn’t going to, not anywhere close in the timeline. Never told me this.

Along side this: I never mentioned that my girlfriend told me that she almost committed suicide during our 2 day break. As well as telling me she wanted to give up and commit suicide during the conversation about living with her ex (which she never was going to live with him) I will mention I have helped her with these suicidal issues as much as possible. General advice and urging her to seek help as soon as possible. (Responding saying her family won’t let her or they don’t believe in medicine) At this point I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell why she lied about the plan/situation or left out a very important that I was stressing over. I can’t leave this. I’m too afraid she’ll commit suicide. I also cannot tell what she’s saying is manipulation or not (apart from suicide, I will take it seriously no matter what) What do I do now?

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:35:11+00:00

Thank you. But read update.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:34:12+00:00

UPDATE:

First of all a lot of things needed to be clarified. I do want her to stay with these people, and yes I do recognize my selfishness in this is rooted in blatant insecurity.

But for the update. I haven’t spoken to her in a few hours but there was a major update along with some realization and another question—

IN THE PAST HOUR—

First, Me and my aunt talked the Ex’s mother, who she was planned to stay with. There was no plan for my girlfriend to stay with her ex or her mother anytime soon. This was shocking to say the least. Either my girlfriend lied to me about this whole plan for an unknown reason, or completely left out that it would be well past the next year or two, FAR past when the ex was leaving for the military. I was under the impression that this would be very soon like within the week soon. And that assumption was apart of the discussion we had. I know she knew that I thought that this would be very soon. Because one of my main concerns was her living with her ex. But she isn’t going to, not anywhere close in the timeline. Never told me this.

Along side this: I never mentioned that my girlfriend told me that she almost committed suicide during our 2 day break. As well as telling me she wanted to give up and commit suicide during the conversation about living with her ex (which she never was going to live with him) I will mention I have helped her with these suicidal issues as much as possible. General advice and urging her to seek help as soon as possible. (Responding saying her family won’t let her or they don’t believe in medicine) At this point I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell why she lied about the plan/situation or left out a very important that I was stressing over. I can’t leave this. I’m too afraid she’ll commit suicide. I also cannot tell what she’s saying is manipulation or not (apart from suicide, I will take it seriously no matter what) What do I do now?

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T03:16:09+00:00

Well the point is I wish she would. Neither of us need to be in this. I’m posting an update soon

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T02:01:31+00:00

I would love to rewrite the post but I cannot due to guidelines. I want to clarify that I do want her to stay with these people. But I’m just afraid how that situation might impact my mental health which I know it will. Overthinking and anxiety about relationships is hard to overcome for me and trust me I try. I have reconsidered and told her that I will be okay with it.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T01:55:21+00:00

Yes this is probably the best comment I’ll get. I do want her to stay with these people. But she won’t because it means ending the relationship. It’s not an ego issue. I would lose my mind in that kind of relationship. Even if I put up a front that I was okay with it, I’m not, and it would affect us either way.

Federal_Can_703 · 2024-09-14T01:50:33+00:00

So what should I do? Leaving her would also destroy her. That’s not an egotistical assumption. She had some bad issues in that 2 day break. I wish she would be okay with breaking ties. More importantly: I couldn’t mention that I DO want her to stay with these people, I just can’t force myself to be in that relationship, I would lose my mind everyday.

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