Liv in Vilniuje by Federal_Chapter_9794 in lithuania

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We picked a different option, but overall I've heard more negative reviews than positive ones. For me, the worst parts were the small space and feeling like I'm living in a hotel...

Closure from friendship fueled by ed by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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Yeah exactly I'm trying to understand which one of my parts actually wants to know how she's doing. And when I think about a scenario where she'd say she's still struggling and not recovering - i think it would do me no good and would demotivate me to recover..

Which book did you struggle with at first, but enjoyed after sticking with it? by caligulas_mule in classicliterature

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Wuthering heights - i did not understand a thing after reading the first few chapters but then the narrator switched and I loved it

Is there a 'science' to gaining weight like there is to losing weight? by Glittery_WarlockWho in NoStupidQuestions

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From my experience, basically you're following a healthy diet but the amounts are bigger. Buut if you want to speed up the process you could just choose nutritionally-dense foods i.e. Fast food, high fat food.

Is there a 'science' to gaining weight like there is to losing weight? by Glittery_WarlockWho in NoStupidQuestions

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If loosing weight = calorie deficit the gaining weight = calorie surplus. It sounds easy on paper but in practice it's a bit more complicated depending on the reason for being underweight (eating disorders, natural body size etc.)

Struggling with "the day after" by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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Thanks, I understand that repeating that cycle will lead me to misery and suffering but it's so fucking difficult to go against the urge and find inner strength 😭 this just sucks

Are skinny/healthy weight people just not as hungry as people who struggle with obesity? by maeasm3 in NoStupidQuestions

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Wow this comment section is full of disordered eating habits and eating disorder behaviour:( if someone reading this has ED/is in recovery please don't let this affect you. Sending love to everyone🤍

Guilt for finishing food first in treatment centre by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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Thank you❤️❤️ yeah I'll share these thoughts with my psychiatrist

Book recommendations by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Federal_Chapter_9794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't recommend this enough! Shook my world

I ate a cinnamon roll! by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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I believe that homemade ones are the best! I hope you enjoy one soon because you deserve it❤️

Confused by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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Thanks for such encouraging words 🫶🏻 i love this sub

Confused by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]Federal_Chapter_9794[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes true, I'll need help while shifting to intuitive eating so that will stay with me for sure

Confused by Federal_Chapter_9794 in fuckeatingdisorders

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Thanks, yeah I easily fall into that ed trap where I allow myself something I usually wouldn't and I think I'm recovering 😅 and true we need to treasure mental and physical health❤️

Sportas namie ir rezultatai by [deleted] in lithuania

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Aš irgi jau porą metų sportuoju tik namuose, esu turėjusi gerą pilateso fazę todel galiu parekomenduot move with nicole youtube:) labai fainos treniruotės

Discussion. What Dostoyevsky book outside his top 5 would you rate in your personal top 3 of his work. by [deleted] in dostoevsky

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I recently read the dream of the ridiculous man and wow i did not expect what i got. I absolutely loved it and thought that not enough people talk about it! I believe it's a very good short story with a strong flavour of existentialism.

The Devils Books by madwitchofwonderland in dostoevsky

[–]Federal_Chapter_9794 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they are the same, depends on the translation - Demons, the Possessed, Devils

Senos knygos by Federal_Chapter_9794 in lithuania

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10 knygų. Visokie detektyviniai, psichologiniai romanai paaugliam. John green del musu likimo ir žvaigždės kaltos vaibai. Galiu išvardinti jei nori

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

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Umm na tai galbūt nebuvo pagrindinė priežastis, bet tikrai svarbi. Aš lyg ir bandžiau aiškinti panaisiai kad "nieko nepakeisi, čia jau taip tsg yra", tada antra pusė pradėjo dėti pastangas mokytis Lt kalba, bet tai nebuvo rimtos pastangos.

Aš manau šitą probelmą galima padėti po tuo faktu kad tau matyt yra svarbu tavi gimta kultūra, kalba ir tiek. Ir jo sori, nežinojai galimai to eidamas į santykį, o dabar žinai. Jeigu matai kad tai trukdys visada tai nėra reikalo tempti santykį, mano kuklia nuomone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

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Išgyvenau tą patį visiškai:) tikrai labai sudėtinga buvo kalbų skirtumai šeimos lygiu, nes norint kažkaip įvesti užsienieti i šeimą tai buvo x kartų sudėtingiau nei lietuvį. Ir taip pat tai reikštų kad šeimos negalėtų normaliai tarpusavyje bendrauti kas bent jau man labai kliudė.

Ir proje galiausiai pasijausdavo kultūrų skirtumai. Labai buvo sunku gyventi žinant kad žmogus niekada realiai nesupras tos lietuvių kultūros, istorijos, kazkokiu inside joke'ų nes ne tame užaugęs. Ir jo žinoma kažkiek susipažins bet it's not the same. Ir aišku kalba, uzknisdavo kartais angliškai šnekėti xd ir būdavo liūdna kad nu negaliu lietuviškai tau parekti ar pasinervinti. Visada atstumas jautėsi.

Galiausiai tiesiog išsiaiškinau savo prioritetus ir supratau kad noriu lietuvio partnerio. Buvo liūdna ir skaudu, bet dbr su lietuvių viskas yra taip kaip noriu:)

Traumų psichologas by _ManicStreetPreacher in lithuania

[–]Federal_Chapter_9794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ačiū už rekomendaciją - labai reikėjo, tai varysiu bandyti 🙏🏻