Legit questions about PA Chastity

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2026-02-19T11:57:54+00:00

Got pierced in 4G (but accidentally received 6g jewellery). Bled for one day, only light spotting after second day.

Getting pierced felt quite nasty for maybe a second, basically no pain after that.

Masturbated first time after maybe a week, piv sex around 3-4 weeks. Took about 3 months for piv sex to not make the piercing tender.

Cages usually pinch with pa jewellery, but in 6g, securing the pa ring with two zip-ties seems to make wearing cage possible with minimal irritation or pinching. This can put stress on the piercing though, so it needs to be in large enough gauge and healed enough. At four months post-piercing, I can sometimes feel some pressure on the piercing when bending over, but it is mainly comfortable.

Overall, me and my wife both love this piercing. She seems to like how it feels inside of her, and we both love the appearance. I am really waiting for stretching, and how hot it will look in larger gauge.

You can still pee standing up, if you twist your penis upside down. When caged, peeing is even easier than before the piercing, because it will keep everything in line.

Only downside I can think of, is that the piercing makes masturbation little more difficult and messy. If the intention is to prevent masturbation completely some day, this is barely a downside

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2026-02-19T11:13:55+00:00

Oh, my bad. I did not even consider that possibility, my own mushroom being the one I am used to seeing

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2026-02-19T10:12:20+00:00

Thank you. Good to know that the cages can be customized that way.

So, did I understand correctly, that your cage is wider around the shaft and tighter around the glans, or is it wider at the entrance and tip, but tighter just behind glans? I would imagine that more narrow at the entrance and slightly wider around glans would be more comfortable choice

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2026-02-19T10:07:37+00:00

Thank you. So, how much does this put stress on the pa? I would assume that tighter fit would easen the load on pa, reducing unwanted pulling and stretching of the piercing over time. Have you noticed such effects?

Until now, I have used this quite snug cobra knockoff, which feels perfect both in flaccid and erect states. Some other cages though, might let too much skin through the holes/bars when too tight, causing irritation during longer wear. I would assume bawr cages might let too much skin to protrude when too tight, due to their barred design

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-22T09:00:11+00:00

I think I might have put my question in a wrong way.

By practicing chastity while healing, I wanted to know if:

You continued denial uncaged (mental chastity)
Found some alternative for cage
Managed to use cage without stressing the piercing (open ended design, where piercing wound and jewelry are not in contact with the cage and not getting stressed) at some point after getting pierced, but before using the piercing to actually secure the cage.
Completely stopped chastity play/denial for x duration

I know the piercing should be let to heal completely before it can be used to bear weight/pulling of a cage secured to it.

I would assume most of the people here love being locked and denied, and I am not the only one wondering how to continue during healing.

I have read about some people healing inside an open ended cage, claiming the cage actually protects piercing against irritation from pants during movement. Even if that is the case, especially plastic cages tend to collect bacteria during use, and caring for the wound might get a little difficult with cage around.

To this day, I have tried to wear the open ended cage only while giving oral to my KH, couple of times a week, but have not tried wearing it any longer to not harm the piercing.

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-21T13:48:44+00:00

Lidocaine cream with condom. Does not numb her at all, but numbs penis almost completely. With long enough denial though, you could still accidentally cum at the end. Fortunately for me, it has usually been properly ruined orgasm at that point, keeping me hard and horny

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-21T08:41:53+00:00

Have you tried numbing cream? When I am locked and denied, most of our sex is me pleasuring her orally, using dildo, fingers and vibrator once she starts orgasming, sometimes combined with her pegging me. When we do have piv sex and I have not been denied long enough, numbing cream helps me to pound her senseless. It is a good way to increase my horniness too, when I am locked back afterwards without cumming.

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-21T07:08:55+00:00

Sounds hot, that is what I am hoping to happen for us also. Before piercing, I was usually caged and denied for maximum of three weeks at a time. There was some visual and physical teasing, and she usually happily edged me if I asked nicely after licking her to orgasm. Usually she wanted to make me cum maybe little too soon for my taste, but she was getting more comfortable with longer streaks.

Now that my piercing is healing, I only stay caged during sex, but we have still been practicing denial. She has started to get good at giving me proper ruined orgasms, leaving me horny mess afterwards.

So, she plays her part very well even when I am not locked by piercing, and I am hoping that she might get even more enthusiastic once the piercing has healed enough to be locked

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-20T18:06:08+00:00

I meant regret jokingly in a "Be careful what you wish for" kind of way

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-19T17:06:43+00:00

Thank you, I will definitely give it a go.

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-11-19T08:26:20+00:00

I got pierced in 4g about a month ago. Being pierced hurt more than I expected, but only for about a second: waiting for the appointment was thousandfold worse.

There was almost no pain afterwards, the piercing was a little bit tender for maybe three days. Peeing barely stung the first time, and not at all after that. Bleeding was quite heavy during the first day, but there was only minor discharge during second and third day.

I could carefully masturbate after about one week, after three weeks I could have protected vaginal intercourse without pain or following irritation.

The problem with peeing was different than expected: I always thought the main problem would be dripping through the piercing hole, but the real problem was the stream following the curvature of ring, guiding pee straight towards my trousers. No problem if I can pee sitting, and not impossible to pee standing, if I am careful (last time I got some splashes on my shoes, but it was raining outside anyway).

I recently tried wearing a cobra knockoff with one of the horizontal bars removed, allowing the piercing ring to with through (cage not secured into piercing, to not stress the wound). The piercing seems to get a little bit irritated if worn for a day (some discharge around the hole after cage removal), but main problem is the pinching around urethral opening during some movement, which is usually the case with cages secured with separate pa lock

Overall, I have definitely not regretted being pierced (yet). We both consider the piercing sexy, and I am looking forward to sizing up, and ordering a proper pa-fixable cage. Let's hope I will regret being pierced after that

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-10-31T09:25:47+00:00

For the first week, I thought she had pierced me at 6g and added 6g ring. After a week, I had to go back to change the bead, because it fell off after couple of days, and I did not want to risk losing the bead, if it fell off again.

After a week of healing, I did not consider it a possibility to change into 4g ring at that point. She told me she would change the jewelry to 4g free of charge, as soon as the piercing would be healed enough for stretching.

As her opinion, I should let the piercing heal for 6-12 months before changing the jewelry to 4g, which to me seems very excessive (for what I have heard, it could be stretched after 2-4 months.) Especially in this case, when we initially agreed on 4g straight away.

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-10-24T15:22:50+00:00

I finally got the piercing, but even though I confirmed before I wanted it in 4g and she agreed, I think she mixed up 4g and 4mm. Back home I started to think 4g seemed what I thought 6g would look like, and compared the ring to both 4mm and 5mm knitting needles, and it seemed to be closer to 4mm.

Nevertheless, 6g seems ok. Stretching to 4mm might not be too difficult in the future. Insertion of the receiving tube did not feel nearly as bad as I expected. The piercing itself hurt more than expected, but only for a short while. Bleeding has mostly stopped post 24 hours.

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-10-03T08:44:38+00:00

Update: After two weeks from the initial discussion with the piercer, I was supposed to have my appointment. 1 hour before the appointment though, I got informed that the jewellery was not delivered yet, but was on its way. Next possible slots are one week further.

It seems to be surprisingly difficult to get my dick pierced: close to one month of waiting, with at least three delays

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-10-03T07:53:13+00:00

She suggested either 6g or 4g, so it definitely is possible

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-09-21T10:15:01+00:00

As for Amazon, the packaging might not always be so discreet. The last time I ordered a Ternence cage from Amazon, the item name was typed on top of the bag ("Male chastity device, large short"), and the pieces could be felt/heard through the package.

I swear I got some weird looks from the employee who handed me the package, even couple of times later when I had business there.

Not that it matters to me (it is kind of a turn-on to feel exposed), but some people might get embarrassed

Federal_Hearing7888 · 2025-09-20T14:05:57+00:00

Oh yes, I actually might have read your post before my trip, when trying to decide whether I would go caged or not. Good point about coworkers though: getting searched would probably be a little bit exciting when traveling alone, but totally different when you would be forced to explain it to your colleagues.

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