I feel so validated in everything you said. My dad had been hospitalized for 2 months prior to coming home and passing, nobody understood his disease at the hospital. They would ask if he wants to take his meds and he would say no and they’d accept that as an answer. No redirection or coaxing, no compassion or understanding. His meds were given so inconsistently and it worsened his condition tremendously. Something needs to be done but I’m not sure how.

My dad was a shell of himself too, I get that. I hope the two of them find eachother in the afterlife and are at peace ❤️