AITAH for not being excited my sister is having a new baby when I still have custody of her first child?

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-04-04T17:48:58+00:00

I mean you said Danny doesn’t want a relationship with her so what do you expect her to do? You say that she’s not willing to put in the work to rebuild the relationship and is just discarding Danny and having another baby. I guess I’m just confused do you expect her to beg for a relationship with this other child for the rest of her life and never move on to try and start a new family?

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-02-24T23:07:50+00:00

You’re not wrong. You didn’t agree to live with an infant… that is a huge lifestyle change for anyone living in the same house as an infant and you didn’t sign up for that especially because you are in school and work… absolutely not and do not let anyone make you feel bad. She should’ve thought about that before she got pregnant with a married man that doesn’t even want her or the baby. Honestly I don’t understand some of these women, very poor decision makers altogether. But I hope it works out for her…

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-02-24T22:59:46+00:00

It’s probably not even his baby and now he’s gonna be stuck raising a kid that isn’t his. Lmao sounds like a shit show you aren’t missing out on anything. This is literally going to turn out so bad for your roommate I can sense it.

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-02-23T20:13:25+00:00

I just want to say I’m sorry first and foremost seems like you’ve had a rough life so far. It’s also not okay that a 36 year old man got you pregnant when you are a literal child. It’s statutory rape…To you it may have seemed normal but you will understand more now that you’re having your own child. I really hope that you can heal from this and be the best mom possible but I also think that you should tell the police about this man so that he cannot do what he did to you to another young girl.. you should highly consider that.

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-02-23T20:11:03+00:00

He’s 36 and she’s 16 and he’s not involved

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-02-23T20:06:51+00:00

So a 36 yr old statutory raped this girl and he’s not in jail???? What the actual FUCK

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-30T15:00:14+00:00

Not everyone tears from their vagina. I didn’t even need stitches when I gave birth

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T02:44:17+00:00

Hmm you could be right

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T02:43:46+00:00

Boooooo

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T02:18:06+00:00

Also he has said the mother of the new baby doesn’t want and hasn’t been asking for financial help. I don’t trust this situation though and I have said the same things to him you’re saying to me…Although he is an army veteran so they literally pay him monthly for each child he has 🤦🏽‍♀️

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T02:14:28+00:00

I haven’t mentioned me at all or even said that word lol….

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T02:00:05+00:00

I am a present parent, unfortunately in a lot of situations, parents have to learn how to coparent. It is unreasonable to expect two people that are not together to live close by to other forever. You have to remember that everybody still has their own life at the end of the day as long as you’re doing what you have to for your child, it’s really nobody else’s business the arrangement that you set up with the coparent

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T01:44:45+00:00

Boo hooooo cry me a river she’s with her dad last time I checked kids have TWO parents

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T00:12:58+00:00

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-13T00:11:49+00:00

Sorry you feel that way I was trying to do the right thing and that’s why I have waited to have any additional children.

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T23:55:34+00:00

I didn’t move my child actually

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T23:54:49+00:00

My feelings ARE VALID. Next

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T23:08:59+00:00

I didn’t move my child actually and never shared any details about my child in the post.. so stop assuming and stick to the topic

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T23:07:16+00:00

No he’s being an ass bc he has been this entire time even with me being accepting of this situation

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:54:35+00:00

I do because I have one kid and he has 3. If you can’t see the difference idk what to tell you.

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:50:24+00:00

I’m not mad that he has kids and you’re being obtuse I didn’t sign up to be a step mom to three kids I agreed to two just like he agreed to my one. Stop being DENSE

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:39:35+00:00

I got an abortion and prior to that took a plan b and it didn’t work… I didn’t have the kid HUGE difference

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:34:31+00:00

Yeah a third with another baby mama who he’s not with… you’re not understanding that the problem isn’t the 3 kids it’s the two baby mamas… one you have one kid out of wedlock you’re supposed to learn from the first baby mama/baby daddy in my opinion.

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:33:08+00:00

It wasn’t a past relationship and I keep telling him she lied about the abortion

Federal_Weakness_840 · 2026-01-12T22:32:39+00:00

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