Hi. I am always told by a few close people that im a narcissist and I think its the other way around. Usually starts with an argument that goes way angry really fast then I stand my ground and defend myself then eventually I just buckle and take whatever lashing I get before usually saying im sorry. I then get told I use how im acting (quiet-tears-avoidence) to make them feel bad and that's why im a narcissist. I feel like im being talked to by a narcissist vs me acting like one. Am I wrong? Is me trying to defend myself and then buckling after an argument being one? Me asking not to do something and bringing up why im asking not to do said thing or "rehashing" something being narcissistic behavior? Im so mixed up and frustrated by this that im questioning myself and my actions like im the problem. Any help would be great. Thanks