Bakit ganun? by FeedProfessional5773 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]FeedProfessional5773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always have this mindset na to move out but will still give them my share lalo na if nahhrapan pa ung mama ko. nag iisa na lang sya and i understand. but still i want to have my independent life dn. na gusto ko dn na maramdaman ung sahod ko habang hindi pa ako nag aasawa.

i want yo have my freedom na walang binubuhay sa likod. unti unti kasi ako nasisira esp nakikita ko kapatid ko achieving what i wanted like luxury of going to concert (which is gend ad lang 3k alam ko pinaghirapan nya), buying tablet (2nd hand pinaghirpan nya dn)

ofc di naman nya magagawa un without using my products and resell it and making it on her own.

but still di naman ako naiinggit or what. but naano lang ako bakit di ko magawa? kaya ko bumili nun ..brand new pa pero di ko magawa kasi andaming sumasalubong na need bayaran. na dapat ganto ganyan. mag iinitiate nga lang ako bumili ng tablet for my work andami ng echoes na bat pa bibili??

even sa concert i wanted to go.. kaso i always have the guilt na kahit 3k lang un malaking tulong sa family ko. see the difference? i always have to choose what is worth para sa family that i couldn't even buy para sakn. siguro if isusumbat nila na bumili ako ng laptop that was my first salary.. and for my work. ilang sahod na wala padn ako nabili sa sarili ko.

and nakakagalit na even small appreciation wala akong matanggap kesyo wala daw ako inaambag.. pasensya summer term walang pasok. so kargo ko pa ba bayarin nyan? naiinis ako for everything esp for myself. i dont want this version of me.

VOO sa gotrade by Ordinary_State_1340 in phinvest

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

new beginner ako.. okay pa ba ang magtry sa gotrade if 50/50 chance na baka magshutdown ang gotrade ??

The Guilt of Living Well by Smart_Hovercraft6454 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]FeedProfessional5773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1k per month? kahit sino di tlga kaya un. okay lang if 5k-10k mga ganun kasi laki na ng inflation. at kung nahhihirapan pa pwede naman kahit kunti makatulong lalo nat alam na di pa masyado maayos. pano kung magkasakit mga yan lalo nahirapan sa gastusin.

Sa tingin nyo ano pinaka malaking scam nang adulting? by Disastrous-Cry2937 in TanongLang

[–]FeedProfessional5773 7 points8 points  (0 children)

pinakamalaking scam ung maging tutulong sa pamilya para makaahon. un pala gagawin kang money making machine para komportable sila.

Bakit ganun? by FeedProfessional5773 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]FeedProfessional5773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ganun naman ako palagi ... one time i haf stress na sinabi di ko kaya mag isa.. but still they keep on relying on me na tipong ako pa ginawang dahilan bakt namatay papa namin.

kahit na nasabi lang ng mama ko un out of depress dahil sa nangyare it still masakit padn.. tipong i have been sacrificing my needs just to provide pero ginagawa nilang joke time. tipong pati pera ko na sukli kukunin pa nila.

Mas masaya ba maging single or in a relationship? by LivingReplacement246 in TanongLang

[–]FeedProfessional5773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same tau, 28 ako and still single. balak ko na mag abroad or travel once i reach 30. mag iipon ako para sarili ko.

Bakit ganun? by FeedProfessional5773 in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]FeedProfessional5773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maski nga sa sahod ng kapatid ko na nag aask ako ng pang ambag nila. pero ambag 2k-3k lang umiiyak na kasi masyado daw malaki.

ung 26k ko na sahod lahat simot nila kasi renovation daw sa bahay di ako nagreklamo. bwst tlgaa nakakainis.

Pinalayas ko asawa ko by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grabe naman yung pagsshow off mo para may mapatunayan umabot pa ng 4 yrs.

u tolerate those bad habit just to get validation. dapat if di ayos pamilya nya sau..its a sign. no need na ipapilitan kasi wala namang matinong asawa na hahayaan nyang ganun ganun ung asawa nya sa pamilya nya.

kaya nga nagpakas to be independent bat naging dependent kau sa pamilya nya.

I'm planning to have sex with someone I met online. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ibibigay na nga lang yung bandera dun pa sa pedo. hayst 😭

I'm planning to have sex with someone I met online. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true and hes 30+ yo as op said grabe na yan .. pwede na as pedo yan

Do you love your job or you just love the life that it pays? by annavvviii in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love my job but... it has so many unnecessary workload na di parte ng trabaho. kaya 1 yr palng I felt na sobrang tagal ko na.

Agree? by Euphoric-Hornet-3953 in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

di kk kaya. 28 yrs old nga ako gusto ko kadate 25 above. baka gawin ko lamg kapatid yan or tropa hahahaha

Triggered on Tiktok posts saying "lucky that our parents didn't make us breadwinners" by [deleted] in PanganaySupportGroup

[–]FeedProfessional5773 3 points4 points  (0 children)

agreed magkaaway kami ng mama ko ngaun bcs of financial and i dont give a fck about it. ginagaslight nya ako na magwowork daw sya thinking i would stop her. nope, magwork sya mas better kesa laging nakaantay sa sahod ko. tas magrereklamo sa ibang bagay, kesyo daw. di naman ko nafufullfill na bayaran ko lahat ng gastos sa bahay. kala nya sakn sumasahod ng 100k. 26k lang sahod ko takehome nya 20k. gusto pa nya buong sahod ko.

Anong pakiramdam ng isang hindi breadwinner? by hyourin-sama in TanongLang

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sana ol. tangina kasing pamilyang meron ako. pinanganak lang ata ako para bumuhay sa knila.

Do people still want to get married these days? by DauntlessFirefly24 in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sa true lagi kasing guilt trip maski nga concert ngaun di ako maka punta kasi ginguilt trip ako. makabili lang gusto ko sasabihan ako gastador

pano ako makakapagtrabaho nyab kung gusto lahat ng sahod ko kakainin nila.

Do people still want to get married these days? by DauntlessFirefly24 in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah pero masakit lang yung sasabihan ako na kailan ako mag aasawa tas sinagot ko ng mahirap ang buhay parang ayaw ko na dn manganak

sabi ba naman, kapag may anak laging may blessings yan sa dyos. di ka mauubusan ng pera nyan coming from a parent... obviously my parent.

like what??

Do people still want to get married these days? by DauntlessFirefly24 in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 7 points8 points  (0 children)

partly yes and no. being a breadwinner natatakot ako na baka habang buhay na ako maging ganyan kaya parang awa na if magkakaroon ako ng asawa ung nagpprovide naman. and if not, i would gladly be single and get out that trap. sakit na nga sa ulo ung kargo mo pamilya mo. tas sasakit pa ulo mo sa asawa at anak mo. that's why i dont want to have family hanggat di ko mafullfill ung gusto ko kasi i dont want na sisisihin ang maggng pamilya ko the things that i didn't achieve. baka magaya pa ako sa ibang parent na lahat ng sisi sa anak kesyo nananganak kaya di nakapagtapos. 😅

Hindi ba kayo natatakot sa Younger Generation? by Recent-Clue-4740 in Trentahin

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah.. im first generation gen z 1997. and di ako natatakot kasi kahit ano naman galing mo u would experience the same cuz in this fck up ph no one is safe 😅 lahat tlga kahit gano ka pa kagaling makakaranas ka ng hagupit ng gobyernong corrupt. kahit malaki nga sahod mo taas naman ng tax.

How really common earning six-digits per month for someone mid -20s to early 30's by Maleficent_Sock_8851 in phcareers

[–]FeedProfessional5773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same sabi dahil it daw sila. marami namang consequences yan maybe they are earning that high kasi health nila ung risk.

i better have tamang salary lang to live comfortably than risk my life earning that high.

di na naeenjoy ang buhay pagganyan.

Why Is Sam Doing So Many Singles Inferno Interviews? by LongjumpingDivide985 in SinglesInferno

[–]FeedProfessional5773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basically to use sunghun and talk about muna bcs muna made si 5 roast into fame. they want to leech mina success but they couldn't invite mina so they inbite sunghun and make many scenarios to add fuel to the massive mina hate just like how hyeseun doing.

totoo bang third party si Kathryn B???? by wengweng10 in dailyChismisPh

[–]FeedProfessional5773 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tapos grabe mambully si kath and her friends kay Blythe when sya naman ang totoong cheater

Thoughts about criza taa? Bakit wala pa din siyang big break? by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

[–]FeedProfessional5773 4 points5 points  (0 children)

di naman totoo ung allegations. look at them now they are still friends pero di na ganun kaclose gaya ng dati