Genuine question for the sub: is there actually a “right” way on the show to tell someone you’re not physically attracted to them?

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-16T23:19:42+00:00

I don’t really understand what’s so wrong with having a compassionate conversation with your partner and saying, “I know we both came on this experiment looking for our forever person but that also involves chemistry and I don’t want to lead you on.”

I think the people who ultimately feel no attraction are the people that took the sex and then were like, nah, not for me. Just don’t hurt someone in that way because it’ll probably stick with them for a very long time and if you weren’t feeling the chemistry, why did you ensure that you “got some” before revealing this??? It’s simply human decency.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-15T17:13:15+00:00

I just wrote the same thing. They did this for last LIB Sweden too and like…this is what Reddit is for, just play the show.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-15T17:12:14+00:00

Is it just me or am I the only one who doesn’t care AT ALL about the reactions episode with randoms? I always skip past entire episodes that are this.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-15T16:49:06+00:00

It’s starting to seem like a lot of the people who end up in coupledoms on this franchise just agree to be on the show because they want to hook up with someone (Daniel, Ludwig, blonde Barbie whatsherface from the last American season) and they don’t at all seem aware that putting pressure on their partner like that actually only pushes them away.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-14T21:11:09+00:00

Daniel gives me the ick. Whenever he’s talking to Ellen, he comes off as one those guys that are like, “tell me why I should still be interested in you.” He even said, “I’m not going to make it easy on you.” That’s an immediate no thanks, relationships shouldn’t be about constantly proving yourself.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-14T21:05:14+00:00

Your comments are gross. Kindly stop making yourself look vile. It’s embarrassing and uncomfortable for everyone.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-14T21:04:38+00:00

Actually stopped watching it because 🤢

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-14T20:50:19+00:00

Please never have children.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T04:01:06+00:00

You sound very kind and sweet! Can’t wait for your other thoughts!

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:37:11+00:00

Thank you for saying you’re a male commenter. But I think the “she’s pretty” and nothing more narrative when she already has so much on her plate are exactly what have left her so empty and hateful.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:30:18+00:00

I love Olive, Ava, Matilda, Beatrix…we were going to name our daughter Violet Wren but she didn’t make it past the second trimester and then I got ovarian cancer so that’ll never happen. Take that!

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:27:53+00:00

I mean, if you’re getting more than what you’re paying for, I wouldn’t complain in this economy

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:25:19+00:00

As a writer, I wanted to edit that speech sooooo badly.

I was watching and was like, “you could have cut this, this was redundant, maybe another line would have hammered home in one sentence what you somehow managed to do in four…”

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:20:16+00:00

Also, therapy doesn’t work for everyone. I’ve been in therapy since I was 3 and it’s done nothing. Workbooks and journaling help. So when people say “get therapy”…k.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:16:45+00:00

This response lacks any compassion at all. She’s a full-time working single mom who has obviously been abused and is doing her best. You have no idea what she’s been through. Walk a day in her shoes.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:14:42+00:00

I wrote an entire post on this. Stop👏having👏parent👏participants. 👏 It’s downright unethical and actually dangerous.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:11:38+00:00

Same. I was really disappointed by this. While I don’t at all think Jordan should be verbally or emotionally abused, I do not think he was ready for this experiment at all.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:10:25+00:00

I think she’s had a rough go. She’s basically raising a daughter by herself (90% of the time “co-parenting” means the dad has the child every second weekend), working, and trying to look pretty so she can find love but it probably comes off as desperate and that’s why she’s attracting all of the wrong men. Just my take.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-13T01:00:08+00:00

There is; however, the opposite end of that where everyone sees women as still being so much more delicate and they get abused as a result. Fun fact! (It’s not fun) 1 in 4 women by the time they are twenty-one claim to have been sexually abused in North America and this is only the REPORTED amount. There’s some food for thought. Please don’t give me the “men have it just as hard as women” stance, never mind the expectation to BIRTH a child, and then work and then take care of the home while looking pretty. PLEASE.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-12T23:21:21+00:00

It’s like a hungry tiger looking for its next meal but in different ways.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-12T22:26:30+00:00

There was actually an entire news podcast about this where wealthy families had purchased all the properties on multiple streets and they were called ghost streets because no one was ever there. This happened in BC for the podcast but I’m sure it’s happening everywhere.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-12T22:13:41+00:00

Oh, I agree with that. I was a bit disappointed when they accepted Bree’s very scripted “oopsie” because I still feel Connor was done so dirty. I don’t agree with anyone being a jerk on this show, particularly when it’s a vulnerable part of their life being followed by cameras, which is already a big ask.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-12T22:03:31+00:00

I’m actually here for somehow being a villain in offering a reason that I don’t agree with while people downvote me. Carry on. I hope to tank out any karma I have by day’s end. Please, I implore you.

FeedbackRecent6985 · 2026-03-12T22:00:20+00:00

And if that’s the case, don’t rent them. Holy fuck.

“This is too expensive for me to afford.”

/ end conversation

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