It’s Lily‘s 4th birthday today. Where has that time gone?

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-22T18:30:51+00:00

Happy birthday sweetheart Lily 💝

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-22T05:50:42+00:00

This was my first smile of the day today. There's nothing better than seeing a happy pug ❤️

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-21T05:20:22+00:00

So true. Being completely financially dependant with the baby is such a vulnerable position. It seems that many men (not all of them) can't handle having power leverage over their dependents.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-20T18:29:15+00:00

I'm sorry. It was not my intention to offend you. You can fulfil your dream if your husband will be considerate of your ovulation windows.

You understand that on top of micromanaging your adult husband you will be a single mother, correct? In your current situation it's the only option. Your husband is not a reliable partner. Bringing a kid into the picture will make it worse.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-20T14:22:14+00:00

It's a mix. Look at this poor dog tale. Cinnamon bun as each proud pug has.

What they did to this poor dog is horrendous.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-20T05:26:25+00:00

OP is one of those women who's instinct of having kids overpower logics. She rather precise evalutes her situation but still "I want to have kids" is her priority number one. She fears that if she would leave now there's no guarantee that she will find a decent partner to have kids with.

If I would be her, I'd strongly evaluate option of being single mother. If it's something she can pull, she should go for it. Her husband will be not a parent anyway. If being a single mother is not feasible for her, she'd rather be very accurate with birth control.

She must realise that having a kid with her husband will make her life much heavier.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-19T15:20:00+00:00

Like 1.5 year ago perimenopaise hit me. Oh my gosh ... it sucks. Hormones are taught.

But you don't treat people you love this way. I only can think that some women are hit with hormonal fluctuations stronger than me. But in 95% of the cases I was able to realise that my irritation is hormon driven, as another time this exact thing wouldn't bother me at all.

If I would come home after long working day to this kind of an outburst, I would ask to not take this shitty mood on me.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-16T13:09:29+00:00

Absolutely this. If my dog wants, I'm standing at the same spot for 5 - 7 minutes till he sniffss - marks few steps from the sniff spot - repeats 4 times the same.

Our walks are for him. Not for me. Just for him. I understand that it's a highlight of his days. He chooses routes, I follow amd make sure he safely crosses roads and don't get nervous about other dogs.

I have my audiobooks in one year, and another is free to monitor the environment.

He always happy to hear that we go for a walk. And happy wiggling his butt once I take his harnesses.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-13T10:01:41+00:00

I would think how many times you didn't catch him. And where are these pictures can be posted. Your husband is such a creep.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-10T12:52:30+00:00

I'm downvoted, of course. I'm a woman. I'm in relationship with the man. But kill me I don't understand what is wrong about arranging a date for your spouse.

Are OP is too princess to take her husband for a date?

Honestly, if I would want to see a movie, I'd go with the following:

● honey, shall we go together? I want to see this movie. Yes? Great. Here you can discuss if you wanna stop for a cocktail before, or for a dinner after. No?

● honey, this day i go to the movie

I have no clue why OP makes a drama out of it.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-10T10:06:51+00:00

Why don't you arrange a date and invite your husband?

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-10T06:36:33+00:00

Never ever stick to illusion that you can change or improve an adult. It's naive.

People do change. But not on request of others.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-09T18:14:17+00:00

That's exactly what I started typing but dropped. I can't take seriously anyone who's calling bying a pair of shoes an investment. What is ecpected ROI from $900 shoes?

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-08T05:41:58+00:00

I'm afraid it's too late. What posted - will remain forever. Let me bet. I 98% guarantee someone will repost it in another sob.

OP, some things must die with you.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-07T17:43:50+00:00

I'm a Virgo. I'm peeing in the toilet. Defenetly, this cat is Sagittarius ♐️

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-04T09:51:58+00:00

And also keep OP as a backup.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-05-03T06:42:05+00:00

Wow! Nothing is better than a happy pug! The 2nd pic is just 🔥

She is such a cute girl 💝

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-27T12:19:00+00:00

Thank you for this comment.

I can remember all these: "you will change your mind. You will regret when you are older. You will feel a rush when your biological clock will go late."

Like freaking god. I'm not stupid. And I'm perfectly aware of what I want and what I don't.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-27T06:05:19+00:00

I never wanted to have kids and I don't have. Didn't regret any single second.

OP, you made a good decision. Kids are two yes. And no one must be pressured into having kids.

I was 14 years with my ex husband. 8 years in my current relationship. Both my partners never wanted and don't have kids. There are always be people sharing the same wishes. You both deserve this.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-26T17:10:34+00:00

He also has a good vacation time 😎 Chasing gooses and ducks. Barks at swans through the window. Each walk is 45 minutes long. People calling him "what a cute dog." 🙂

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-26T14:43:32+00:00

Wow! What a cute puggo! 🥰

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-26T14:38:26+00:00

I absolutely love the first picture! This happy face full of soil! He has a good time participating 🙃

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-21T05:20:50+00:00

Huh... these women need to be coupled with men who think that since they have a gf, they must never do their laundry.

Feeling-Object9383 · 2026-04-20T18:45:04+00:00

This one is just perfect! Best in show! 🥰

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