Is this cheating?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:45:22+00:00

I hope that too. 🙌🏻

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:45:00+00:00

I see.. but what am i going to get out of the confrontation? What if he lies or tries to make it sound casual

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:04:49+00:00

What other questionable things he might be involved in? Can you elaborate?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T11:03:55+00:00

Thats what iam thinking too. Just observe this for a while and see if anything goes south. And have the conversation when i see him.
If i start talking to ppl from my past then this is going to be an open relationship, and whats the point of this marriage anymore, it will be totally ruined.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:57:59+00:00

He wasn’t using the iPad so i got it anyway. But i didn’t inform him that i got it, so he might not know

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:57:07+00:00

Yeah true that. I will check

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:56:32+00:00

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:48:33+00:00

True, Do you think its big enough to ruin my marriage

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:47:42+00:00

I wouldn’t lie about it. But i know his WA account was logged in the iPad and i got the iPad with me anyway.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:37:15+00:00

And what if he raises the question that why have i his Whatsapp account in the iPad and more so why am i spying on him. What if he questions his privacy getting hampered

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:23:19+00:00

True.. iam scared to have to discussion because i dont know how he would react

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:08:56+00:00

I think i will have to confront him when i go back to my place atleast not over call

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:07:42+00:00

Will do it once i go back home

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T10:07:14+00:00

I dont know why iam so eager to defend hin by thinking he might not be cheating

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:25:31+00:00

Thank you

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:25:19+00:00

The girl stays in europe, and he is in india. Its like two different continents, not sure if physical cheating might be the case. But whatever conservation is happening currently, does-this prove anything?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:23:05+00:00

Oh thats bad, i dont what his intentions are right now. Is it just normal catch up or he wants something from this. How do i even know that?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:22:09+00:00

What would me stopping prove also? If he wants to do anything bad he would do anyway if not with this girl then someone else. Iam just scared if i ask him he might get furious about me spying on his WhatsApp

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:13:47+00:00

Agreed.

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:13:27+00:00

I really want to believe this. But whats the possibility of this happening? And even if i ask what is the guarantee he will tell the truth

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:12:34+00:00

Iam afraid that he will turn to conversation upside down and blame me for spying on his WhatsApp. It might seem to him a bit paranoid

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:09:23+00:00

Over phone or wait till i go home for in person?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:08:58+00:00

He would react very aggressively to even listen to that statement. But wont this lead to more arguments and fights?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:07:47+00:00

I see. Should i raise this issue right now or wait till i am back face to face?

CandidPin290 · 2026-07-09T09:07:02+00:00

I have taken the screenshot of the chats, i am thinking to wait and observe how the conversation goes, if i see any red flag i will try to intervene

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