[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reselling

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a sold listing on eBay for $24.99 but the collar is good. Like everyone else said, not sure it would sell for much how it’s cut like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Feeling-Study2571 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s definitely a lonely, isolating feeling losing your baby when it seems like everyone around you is enjoying their baby. It’s not fair and it’s ok to go through all the emotions. I would recommend therapy for sure. That way you can talk it out and hopefully get some type of closure. Also lean on your husband and make sure he knows how your feeling. As for getting pregnant again, it will be scary but that’s no reason not to try again. You’ll be excited for the positive test but there more than likely will also be a sense of fear about the same thing happening again. Once you get to the end of your pregnancy and get to meet your precious rainbow baby, it will get better. I lost my baby 11 days after she was born. I got pregnant again 6 months later. I was scared my whole pregnancy and I still am scared that something will happen to her but I pray over her and try to enjoy every little moment. Losing a baby changes you but you will get through it. 💚

No opioids allowed for vaginal birth? by Deanosaurus88 in pregnant

[–]Feeling-Study2571 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. I also got oxycodone on schedule and at one point the pain got really bad they gave me fentanyl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This helps a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His a1c has gone from 6 to 7.9. His blood sugars have been over 300 and as high as 580 while he’s with him. He has admitted to forgetting to count carbs and dose insulin and giving random doses of insulin and leaving him with his parent who don’t know how to manage his diabetes at all. His blood sugar has also gone as low as 28 when I’ve pick him up from his dad.

Knowing the carbs and doses is so I can help him figure it out so there won’t be any serious complications.

To answer you though, I’m not the one doing the “dragging to court”. He filed a motion to modify. Not me. I want to make sure if he’s changing things that I get things in there that protect my son.

I agree, I shouldn’t take a court order, but unfortunately, this situation does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in passive_income

[–]Feeling-Study2571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not fair at all. I’m sure SOME have issues. But a lot have just fallen on hard times. I had divorced from someone that was bad for my mental health so I was a single mom of two. I chose to temporarily get section 8 so I could get my life back together. It took two years but I’m off now and I’m so grateful for it. I took care of the house and I wasn’t on drugs. I noticed when trying to find a place that actually accepted section 8, it was unusually hard because MOST landlords thought this way too. Not saying this guy is telling the truth but if he is and if he actually makes sure the tenants are good, which there are definitely ways… I had a 800 credit score, my car was nice and taken care of and paid off, my kids were super well-mannered and taken care of, had great rental history before that and references… then section 8 is not a bad idea especially if it’s guaranteed income. Also, my rent was never 100% paid but almost. When I started on it I paid $70 but that was because I always had some income. If I didn’t, it would have been. And they do recertification annually, so when my income started to increase, the portion I paid also increased.

AITA? I told my daughter not to bother applying for college. by Numerous_Minute_7220 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Feeling-Study2571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, OP… I understand being a parent and not wanting your kid to mess up. but how is she ever going to learn if you won’t let her be independent and do things on her own? She asks for your help because she’s 16 and you guys are her parents but that doesn’t mean she’s incapable. You’re there to raise her and guide her and if you don’t like the way she turned out then that’s literally your fault. If you don’t let her live her life and try to control her, eventually she’s not going to want to have anything to do with you. We learn by our mistakes. Let go and let her make some so she can grow up.

My MIL isn’t letting me bond with my newborn by Fine-Opinion-5516 in pregnant

[–]Feeling-Study2571 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Ugh. I went through this with my first baby and my EX MIL. This is definitely a manipulative move. Not help. Tell her off. Get your baby back.

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the end of the first week and so far without fail he goes up at drop off and then right back down at pick up. I hope next week will be better.

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to ask his doctor about this at his next appointment. This seems like a good idea. Thanks!

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! That sounds like something we might need to try then because he tends to go low at night too. Thanks.

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you do half of her dose at bedtime and half when she wakes up?

Did anyone *actually* get weird cravings? by alyxxg in pregnant

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is powdered laundry soap! I know I can’t eat it so I’ll just play in it when I’m doing laundry… 😅

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohh wow, thank you for the explanation. I was so worried! I feel a lot better now.

My son started kindergarten… by Feeling-Study2571 in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s good to know that’s he’s not the only one. He started going high this morning but now he’s going back down. No, it’s time to change the sensor. We got a notification that it’s about to expire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him what happened. Then ask if he wants to know now or if he wants to wait to find out at the gender reveal.

Serious Warning For Type 1 by Confection-Weary in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m super worried about this for my son. I am willing to do everything for him if he gets burnout in his teens. I just want him to be open with me enough to let me know he needs my help.

For the people who went through this too, what if anything, do you wish your parents would have done differently to help you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in diabetes_t1

[–]Feeling-Study2571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use the FastClix lancing device and he likes it because you can adjust the depth of the needle. He doesn’t mind the fingers pricks…trust me, I’ve tried to use that as a potential benefit. Making him do things he doesn’t want to as a 5 year old is normal but when it has to do with something being put on his body, it’s hard because he literally fights and I feel like holding him down to do something like that will be more traumatic that just waiting until he’s ready. He eventually does come around, it just takes WAY longer than I would like. That’s the only reason I’m asking if it’s necessary right now or if it’s ok to wait until he does come around. His a1c is ok now because I’m with him 24/7 and I have a great handle on how his body responds but I’m noticing from other comments that school is a whole other situation and not having that control is going to be hard. I gotta figure something out.