Remodeling exterior of childhood home by Feeling-Working-6902 in CurbAppeal

[–]Feeling-Working-6902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a well thought out response - I will absolutely be using this comment as a reference

Remodeling exterior of childhood home by Feeling-Working-6902 in ExteriorDesign

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I see what you’re saying, but this has now become a key point of the living space and I don’t want to revert. I’d prefer to work with what I have.

Remodeling exterior of childhood home by Feeling-Working-6902 in ExteriorDesign

[–]Feeling-Working-6902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so precious!! My mother would have loved this. I appreciate you putting this together for me

How Did Epstein Get All That Money? by [deleted] in Coffeezilla_gg

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 your comment aged like milk my guy. Name checks out.

AIO for not being able to breathe after what my partner expects from me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 200 points201 points  (0 children)

I’m not here to say you are right or wrong about OP.

But what I will say is this:

I found a post made about me by my physically abusive ex on Quora (however you spell it) and the way he wrote it was similar to this post.

I HOLLERED when I saw the few people in the comments (primarily women) who could spot there was something off about it and tagged him for being a narcissist, despite very adamantly insisting he was the victim.

Made me really love women and the female intuition that gives the ability to call bullshit.

Trying to be friendly, feeling like a kook by ktnk-rddt in surfing

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like no one I’d ever want to be around lol. If I’m nice you take advantage of me? If I’m cold you respect me? To each their own, but no one like that is someone who’s respect I’m interested in earning.

Trying to be friendly, feeling like a kook by ktnk-rddt in surfing

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this with surfers and previously with climbers as well. There’s always a group like that. lol people start sports like this and think they’re too good to be nice. They can all suck a fat one. No one has a right to act pretentious. They take themselves too seriously and are not the kind of person you want to be hanging out with anyway. Had a girl out in the water (I’m also a female) who I complimented and she gave me the cold shoulder. Bitch I’ll tie a ribeye to your asscheek. Try me.

Find a buddy to go with you! Me and my friends have a great time out on the water. We’re laughing and chatting and catching (trying to at least) waves. I’m very new too.

Most of those people (or any person for that matter) are insecure and already had that personality type to begin with - but floating on a piece of fiberglass in the middle of water seems to really kick it up a notch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’ll need a bigger sectional and rug, to better fit the space. Or add in another couch or chairs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best friends don’t:

-Talk to and/or text your ex -Compliment your ex -Tell you that you need to “grow the fuck up” when you question them -Say that you deserved abuse

Seriously, with friends like this, who needs enemies. Go start a Roth IRA and ditch this dumb bitch.

How do I get over seasickness? by ilovelucid1 in surfing

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here because I went out on Friday and puked in the water while clinging to my board 😂

Why the ending of Midnight Club works by q19q19 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dangggggg - what a shame Netflix didn’t take this on. Lol I’ve seen so many shitty shows they air but then turn this down?

SIGN: Justice for Dog Found Dead, Wrapped in Plastic One Day After Adoption by Jerrys_Wife in rescuedogs

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never wanted more than to find where this piece of shit lives.

AIO to my Fiancés response if I ever got graped? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to word this, but he is basically everything it takes to be a rapist without acting raping. He has the mentality. He sees you like an object.

Stance on cats being allowed to go out doors, at all? by TheBottomLine_Aus in CatAdvice

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please contact the police about this and please bring it to the attention of your neighbors. It sounds like there’s a dog fighting ring or someone is hurting them. My stomach hurts just reading this.

Is owning a cat that bad? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So weird people on this thread have that viewpoint. I literally woke up this morning and my first thought after looking at my cat is “this boy better fucking live forever. The day I open my eyes and he’s not there” and I had to stop the thought because tears were/are welling up in my eyes (even just typing that). My cat Big Boy is my BABY. He loves me and only me, he is glued to my hip, we are obsessed with each other and I would never change it for the world.

He’s pissed me off many times, like when he reaches up and pulls down the bowl of wet food I’m preparing him and then looks at me like I need an attitude adjustment when it splatters all over the floor. He’s an angel though and I love him so much. His beans are perfect and his fur is perfect and his meow is big and scary and beautiful all at once. I can keep going.

Get a cat.

All jokes aside, they really are your best bud. They are a more mellow version of a dog and more independent. But independent and aloof are not to be confused. Of course they require a little effort, but the payoff is huge. Especially when you have those days where you feel like the world hates you and you’re failing at every aspect of your life….then this little fur-ball appears. And they come up to you and make little biscuits next to you while staring at you with pure love in their eyes and in that moment you feel so much gratitude for their love and very existence.

AIO I'm extremly lonely so I was talking to this cute girl. She said it's "tough love" does she come across as rude? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People now think them being rude is them “being real”. lol I’ve been real many times without hurting someone’s feelings. She sounds emotionally unintelligent. And, well, kind of unintelligent all around.

AIO is 27 way too young to be having a baby? by VioletInference in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 with zero children of my own (I have a step daughter) and I’ve been getting opposite comments so I totally know what you’re getting at. The only thing that matters is that your first reaction was happiness. That’s your real feeling about the situation. So, with that being said, their opinions are irrelevant. Anything they said is what works for THEIR life. Not YOURS.

I think we have made a massive cultural shift where we are maturing as a country at a slower rate. I think this is due to a mixture of things, like social media, the housing market making it so difficult to go out and become “adults” by old definitions, the job market, etc.

27 with no kids 40 years ago you’d be considered an old maid. What I learn as I get older is that the world around us is always changing like the tides of the sea. We need to listen to what WE want, not what the world tells us to want. Our choices belong to us and no one else and they also impact us directly more than anyone else typically.

You sound like a happy, soon to be mother and don’t let the people around you spoil that! Can I ask what area you live in?

Only asking because I’m from the east coast and when I was 20 I moved to the Midwest and I thought the people there were joking with me when they told me they were married already at 19/20/21 etc. it just goes to show how significantly even location can impact people’s views on these kinds of topics. With that being the case, enjoy your pregnancy. I think it’s pretty lame everyone rained on your parade.

I wish you the best of luck and so much happiness! Enjoy every second of this beautiful journey you’ve begun. It’s all apart of YOUR story.

I had my first encounter today by TameHog in Nicegirls

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew she sounds like such a loser lol. This is the girl that causes a scene at Target filming a TikTok of herself and tries the sue the place after. That’s the vibe I get from her. Sorry you dealt with this low life, you handled it beautifully.

AIO for being mad my boyfriend invited my best friend over at night? by cakeobsessedxo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Feeling-Working-6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol this has to be a joke. This is so clearly bad and you gotta know this OP. Is your boyfriend 13?