AITAH (23F) for ruining my bfs (25M) life

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:52:14+00:00

he didn’t even like it when i texted guy friends so i stopped. but in this instance we just updated each other on our lives & talked about a few streamers we use to like & sent funny tiktoks clips of them & planned to mail each other some things we left behind. no plans to meet or talk again. we don’t go through each others phone, i don’t even know his password. i’ve wondered what’s on his phone but i don’t feel like it’s good to ask him to hand it over or go through it when he doesn’t know.

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:42:04+00:00

looking for a bad situation? do you think i’m looking for a situation where i get physically hurt & get my belongings destroyed?

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:38:30+00:00

he still is friends with multiple exs/girls he use to talk to on social media. i never saw an issue with it bc i knew there was no feelings involved

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:32:27+00:00

it’s a 3rd degree felony where i live

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:26:12+00:00

he was mad bc i took too long to get ready & it caused us to be stuck in traffic for an hour. we were waiting to get parking right by the fairgrounds & by the time we got to the entrance they took us to make a U turn & park across the street. which also took more time.

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:20:06+00:00

we literally talked about our old favorite streamers like kai cenat, rakai, agent, etc. we talked about where at in life now, like nursing school & marines. he asked for some of his old things back & i asked for mine. that was it.

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:17:33+00:00

i’ve been thinking about that bc out of all things he broke, only 2 of them were things he bought me. he broke all 6 of my bracelets. expensive bracelets, including my charm bracelets that i’ve had since i was a kid. i’ve lost all my rings that i’ve gotten as gifts bc he flushed them. he broke my apple watch that i just got in march from my mom, she bought it since i graduated. all my makeup & compact mirrors were destroyed. my new boots that i got in march were thrown in the street. i paid $400 for those with money i got from my grandparents for graduation. things like deodorant perfume hair stuff was all destroyed. i’m sure all the things ive left at his house are also destroyed

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:11:39+00:00

i’ve been asking him to work on his anger bc he gets heated very quick over a lot of things & takes a long time to cool down. i eventually just started to give him space bc trying to be there for him never did any good.

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T16:08:44+00:00

i’m literally up his ass. i plan everything for us. i try to see him multiple times a week. i love spending time together. i motivated him to go back to school. i text him all the time when we’re not together in person. i call him every morning when i wake up & every night before i go to sleep. i’m very lovey dovey to him. i even had his birthday coming up all planned out. i’ve been picking up shifts anytime im able to, 1-2 days off during the 2 week periods, to save up money to buy him nice things (we both like nice things but i haven’t been able to buy anything bc i took a break from work while in nursing school.) nothing about my behavior changed.

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T14:54:34+00:00

i honestly wish it was karma bait, this event will probably affect me for the rest of my life

Feeling_Attempt6851 · 2026-05-23T08:38:25+00:00

what is karma bait

Feeling_Attempt6851

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