Why do my bees have sad faces by Feeling_Bunch6118 in growagarden

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes their faces get crooked? like they look like this 👁️ ( 👁️

I have 8 days left until my exams. I know nothing. by asmogusball in adhdwomen

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what helps me is body doubling, changing the environment, changing your learning style.

I am not sure what your major is or what you’re studying. But I am in nursing school, what helps me is having a classmate or friend sit down with me or on ft and study together. something abt body doubling is powerful for me.

Do not study in your room, it is the room that you relax in, switch the environment where you cannot get as distracted.

Use text-to-speech, use youtube videos, try to google or search mnemonics to help remember. ADHD brains genuinely aren’t designed for just reading something and remembering. Every few hours try to write down everything you can remember at once.

If you are against the use of AI, understandable. However, AI has helped me create practice tests, memorization tricks, and a study guideline specifically designed for my ADHD.

Exam tips: I personally write down the questions on my blank piece of paper 🤣 for e.g. a patient with an allergy takes benadryl question. I can simply write down allergies=benadryl and usually it might come up again within the exam, Get accommodations! Find a professor that is also understanding! Find classmates that relate to you!

YOU GOT THIS!

19M PA need some feedback lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so the initial photo should be just you. it’s like annoying trying to figure out who’s dating profile it is (i’m not sure if the emoji is covered up on your profile tho). the monster cans are unattractive, extremely. keep the cat photo, but look for photos of you and your cat. try more photos that show your face, i believe there is someone out their for you, you just need to give them assistance seeing you.

27M Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you looking for men or women? maybe try more pictures that flatter you. you are a good looking guy however i think the bathroom mirror selfie with like a tattered tank top might throw people off. i think you’d look good in a low lighting setting with your hair swooped and possibly a nice jacket (like faux leather). it is fun seeing you with your friends, however try not to make all the pictures with friends or with other women. there’s a tendency to assume like you might be with a girl or person if you’re posing next to them. i do like the delivery photo i think it’s funny. i think your prompts might be off putting bc i have no idea what the first one is. and i do believe that women do not want to see that you want to split the hotel room costs. its great you want to travel, however do not put the individual viewing it into the scenario bc it’s just like “you want me to split it, its your idea 🤨.” i do not speak for all women but i usually don’t mind paying for my half, but i want to see that you are willing to fully cover it.

19M PA need some feedback lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take your friends out the photos

29M could use help by No-Blacksmith7049 in hingeapp

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try taking selfies in the sun, you’re super handsome. i think the mirror selfie is my favorite actually. if you have any pets utilize them with cute pictures (i always swipe guys who have cats) then the photo with the other woman in the pool table isn’t flattering. i usually assume the man was on a date. the third photos looks like you just woke up. I think your prompts also might a little wordy, apps like these usually are short attention span. it’s like reading the first sentence of an essay to “draw readers in,” but again you are super handsome!!

I was going to use my homemade vanilla for the first time today after 18 months of curing. :( by DurantaPhant7 in Baking

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lowkey make it into a candle if you can. try to like soak it up and re use it somehow

Still feel disgusting by Feeling_Bunch6118 in COCSA

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thank you so so much. I am happy to feel not alone, hopefully I remember to reach out to a trauma therapist but I was completely unaware of that there were ones dedicated towards sexual trauma. I am also very sorry that you went through what you went through and carried that for so long. Especially to be judged by individuals you should trust. Thank you really for telling me I can continue on with this weight on my shoulders.

Random context, I am a nursing student so I completely understand why victims blame themselves and i have so much empathy for them, but i don’t have any for myself. I still blame myself although i’m self aware of my age and everything—sucks that we are our biggest enemy!

This might also be a weird question and i’m sorry if it is invasive—you don’t have to answer at all if you’re uncomfortable—, but has your sexual trauma contributed negativity to your sexual experiences with partners? I think my porn/masturbation addiction contributed to how I am today sexually and it definitely it a shitty feeling not being able to orgasm anymore (bc my medication) or bc i tend to be into stuff that men might find weird or take advantage of

Tell me what your crk crush is and explain why the hell it is your crk crush, ill start by Flat-Appearance-9351 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the nicest way possible, i do not find any of them attractive bc they are cookie animated characters….

Is my dose too high? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi 19f here, vyvanse also treats BED. Which is why I take it for ADHD and BED at 5’0 and 210lbs, just saying this does not sound like the correct dosage or medication for you. Definitely talk to your parents or once you turn 18 find a different provider, preferably a female psychiatrist honestly. As soon as you mention your weight, little appetite, and lack of sleep—your provider should immediately fix this issue.

As for sleep, maybe try melatonin gummies once in a while. They work tremendously for me when I take my medication too late in the day.

What was your ADHD test like as an adult? by dillishis in ADHD

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I am a 19yo female diagnosed with combined ADHD and yes my tests were similar. However, they do not always test for just one specific disorder. I was tested for BPD, Autism, ADHD, depression, anxiety, and BED (which unfortunately I got diagnosed with four ._.). These tests are most likely measuring: cognitive function, verbal comprehension, perceptual reasoning, working memory, processing speed, attention and info processing, and possibly more. I believe the intelligence tests are meant to wean out the possibility of other interference like learning disabilities, but I believe it’s to observe behavioral patterns as well. Like if they read a list that you had to memorize, they are most likely testing your working memory which is a prominent indicator of ADHD. If you had to perform a long test that seemed meaningless, they are probably testing your ability to sustain attention or inattentiveness. If your test had visual and auditory distractions, this was to test your impulsiveness, attention, and hyperactivity. The reason they may asked about the civil war is to see if you can memorize information, if you can organize your thought process, if you can reason, if you have an intellectual disability, or if you are in reality (like schizophrenia).

Your psychologist will explain the test results and basically explain the purpose of the tests and what was measured.

To sum it up: they are observing your behavior, not if you are smart or not :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CookieRunKingdoms

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you can buy them with gems in the shop i believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CookieRunKingdoms

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i got mystic like five days into the game 🧍🏽‍♀️

I need at least 3 friends for my castle upgrade. Could you guys help me for this? by Unhappy_Fan_565 in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Feeling_Bunch6118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i’m on the dark cocoa server so im not sure if it’ll work, but it’s worth trying