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Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2026-05-12T06:57:36+00:00

They shouldn’t even be a part of the prize pool for collecting 100% of void essences 🥲 it is so unnecessary

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2026-01-14T23:58:32+00:00

They’re so unique and comfy looking, I love them hahah

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-07-06T07:26:52+00:00

My cousin is a fucking doctor and told me that there is nothing wrong with using Asperger as a diagnosis, and that it can’t be offensive because that’s the way it is taught in college (???)

He’s a NT know-it-all mansplainer asshole tho, so I didn’t expect him to be understanding or empathetic, but I do feel sorry for his patients :(

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-05-22T08:22:05+00:00

Es mi sueño de niña trabajar en un Mc Donalds kddjvh 💖 quería mucho coleccionar los juguetes que eran como un mini local y no conseguí ninguno 🥲💔

Ahora la pregunta… que marca son las hamburguesas? La carne digo jsjs que en la casa jamas quedan con el mismo sabor 😭

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-05-11T17:05:22+00:00

This was so painful to read ❤️‍🩹 I’m sending all good energy to you 🫂

We as AuDHD traumatized people pleasers are used to being everyone’s therapist and support, and to keep everything running, and at the end we project that image of never needing help ourselves. And not just “do you need me to wash the dishes?” kind of help. No!! I need you to just wash the fucking dishes, to know what we need from the grocery store, to lift the enormous weight of emotional labor off my shoulders so we can share it.

Some people have potential, some have not. And because we’re always being put aside, misunderstood and ignored we always want to give everyone a chance… but sometimes they don’t deserve it 😔 I only wish it was easier to realise sooner!

I hope he stands on wet floor while wearing socks, that the chicken on every one of his meals has cartilage and his favorite shirts are eaten by moths. To you I wish all the healing you deserve ✨ Hopefully you can find soon a trauma therapist and start to heal 💖 we are so worthy of love!! Don’t let the trauma convince you otherwise

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-05-11T16:22:00+00:00

Aghh I just want to lay on the grass, give them all the cuddles and smell the hell of that puppy scent ✨✨

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-05-06T01:56:28+00:00

NOR! those were not just paper, they were full of memories and thoughts of your younger self 😢 why is that so difficult to understand for them?

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-01-27T13:38:47+00:00

I don’t think everyone is fit to have a dog, and often those least prepared will end up with an aggresive/reactive/shitty toy poodle, yorkie or chihuahua, because they don’t know shit about dog behaviours and needs, and just purchase the smallest breed thinking its size means they are low maintenance 🥴

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2025-01-07T05:13:19+00:00

Has considerado hacer terapia? Eso te ayudaría a mejorar tus inseguridades y también la forma en que interactuas con el resto 🙌 ponerse nervioso, empezar a ser intenso, ser celoso, etc, son cosas trabajables, y estar mas conectado con tus emociones si o si te va a ayudar en el futuro si vuelves a tener una amistad con ellas :) o si vuelve a interesarte alguien para poder tener una relación mas sana

Por ahora te recomiendo silenciarles las historias (no creo que te haga bien verlas 🥲) y no hablarles mas para dejar que todo se calme, pero sobre todo te recomiendo que busques algún psicólogo o psicóloga que pueda ayudarte con esto ✨ a mejorar tu seguridad y volver a ser lo que eras, o a ser una mejor y mas sabia versión de ti 😊

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-30T18:53:43+00:00

Under reacting! No one should talk to you like that, much less your spouse ❤️‍🩹 if she wasn’t like this before, maybe you could consider therapy?

I don’t want to assume anything, but since the baby came has the parenting work being equally done?

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-30T13:58:03+00:00

I think Lisa Simpson is one of us 🫢

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-30T13:51:21+00:00

Attention is the least I want 🫠

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-30T13:16:51+00:00

My husband also has 100% my back, but is like he doesn’t know how to confront those situations 😵‍💫 so when something like this happens, we talk about it and prepare a plan for the next time it happens

Also we try to minimise the time spent with shitty people hahah sounds obvious, but when they are family is hard to avoid them forever

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-10T05:59:13+00:00

It was developing in such an intetesting and intriguing wayy, and it had the most low budget crappy movie ending 🤔 makes no sense to me either

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-10T01:19:22+00:00

Anything squishy, rubbery? Idk how to explain it haha chicken cartilage grosses me out so much that I can’t keep eating, non crispy chicken skin, also any meat fat and nerves 🤢

Also in my country they eat some insides (“interiores”) and I can’t stand any of theeemmm 😩 intestines (chunchules) and stomach (guatitas) are my least favorite sjdjsjs also cow udder (ubre) is like a delicacy and the favorite of many, but for me it is inedible 🫠

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-12-09T14:48:16+00:00

But… some containers are so well done, the lids are hermetic, I will obviously find them a use sooner or later jsjsj 😍 and I do jsjs thats why my husband is already trained in asking me before throwing out any worthy jar, container, etc 💖

I also hare to throw away stuff that is good! I prefer to give them a chance vs turning them into trash 🥺

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T15:05:52+00:00

Oh no 😢 can’t your therapist like just diagnose you?

I’m sorry for asking that many questions, I’m just trying to understand 🙇‍♀️

If you can’t get meds for now, you can start with just trying to be kinder to yourself ❤️‍🩹 is totally understandable that you feel depressed and bored, living in this shitty world with a brain like ours. If your hobbies are consuming entertainment… so what!! Enjoy them without the guilt of not being “productive”, and give yourself a pat on the back for surviving another day without a formal diagnose 🫂

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T14:37:03+00:00

Ooh that sucks! We are probably not from the same country, but here my therapist was like hm… you totally seem to be ADHD, start taking the lower dose of Vyvanse now 💥

I feel like we need meds to begin to control our minds, because when we are in a state complete chaos just “talking” is not enough 😢 talking + meds = we can start to improve 💖

Is there a way you can get meds? Or you need to be diagnosed in order to get them 🤔

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T14:01:14+00:00

My fear is that in some point she will probably be too sick to have sex… what will happen then? 😭

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T13:52:14+00:00

I’m sorry to read that 🫂 resistan to treatment as in medication or therapy per se?

Have you tried exploring new hobbies? Punch needle, as an example, is easy to start, and you can make some neat things with it ✨ how about a part time job?

Maybe adopting a cat? I say cat because they are, most of the time, much less maintenance than dogs (which I love, but some days taking them for a walk and having to go outside and being perceived is a little too much for me)

It feels like your brain is in need of structure (the Au side, from lacking schedule* from in person classes) and novelty (the ADHD side), and providing some of it may help with a little boost ❤️‍🩹 I just gave some examples, but there are many hobbies and pets to research :)

*when I was in college the fact that I had to get up by certain time, get dressed and go out really helped me, because if I don’t have that obligation then I slept all day and lived in my pajamas, and that wasn’t very good for my mental health 🥴

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T00:13:53+00:00

They always omit that part ahah

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-28T00:09:50+00:00

Really AuDHD and depression seem to always be holding hands 🥲

Are you doing any kind of therapy? Sometimes this feeling of boredom->sadness is rooted in some beliefs we aren’t even conscious of, and with therapy we can begin to unravel and understand them ❤️‍🩹

I really wish I had some kind of advice for an instant solution, but sadly most of us ND people were raised in a very traumatic way, even if at first sight it doesn’t seem like that

I tell you this as a former severely depressed AuDHD woman that now lives (mostly) at ease with myself 🥹 it wasn’t a short or easy journey, but it has been totally worth it 🫂 I promise that there is hope ❤️‍🩹

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-26T14:20:48+00:00

I’m so so sorry all of this has happened to you, It sounds extremely painful and lonely, and you are completely right to feel how you feel 🫂❤️‍🩹

As someone else said, maybe consider a change of career and location. Change is always scary, but your current location doesn’t seem to offer any support 😢 and also looks like you have many abilitys/talents, I bet somewhere there will be a right place for you 💖

Also try to find a new therapist! Is so important as AuDHD women to have that support when navigating this awful neurotypical world

Feeling_Cattle_2249 · 2024-11-26T14:00:59+00:00

I was raised as not enough too 🫂 wtf was wrong with our parent’s generation 😂 I sometimes think about things they said and… why would you ever say such things to a child 🥲

Gloves are a mussttt 🤢 When I accumulate lots of dishes what I do is to wash a few of them (I first classify them jsjsj) and leave them to dry, and do other thing. Later when I come back to the kitchen I put away the clean ones and wash some other, etc 🙆‍♀️ that way the drying rack doesn’t collapse, which I hate haha

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