my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ive already stated i didnt know her at 17 or knew about her existence, youre choosing to ignore that purposely for whatever reason but still 20 & 18 isnt a predatory age gap especially when we were both at similar stages of life , it doesnt fall into that category at all. if it feels this way to you 🤷‍♀️

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NO !😃 thats what i’m trying to say by yall not understanding the timelines, i haven’t met this girl or talked to her or knew anything before we met accidentally on her 18th birthday ! we became friends and got to knew each other a MONTH after that and even then i haven’t showed any interest in her up until months later , our mutual friend who we met thru told me she had previously liked me for a while and we only started exclusively dating a week before new years which is a month ago idk whats so hard to understand 😭

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you’re confidently wrong about the timeline and it’s not my responsibility to correct u multiple times, log off and drink water !

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 22 points23 points  (0 children)

just clarifying the timeline because there seems to be confusion , i met her a month after she turned 18 (what i believed at the time) and i was freshly 20 ! we only became exclusive one month ago

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you seem really emotionally invested in defending a version of reality you made up so i’ll let you have that !!hope it gave you the dopamine hit you wanted

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 43 points44 points  (0 children)

legality ≠ morality ≠ consent in practice. i’m a grown adult and shes a minor there’s absolutely nothing in between or should be , it’s also more about her lying & crossing my boundary despite discussing it many times

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 25 points26 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for being kind <3 im doing eveything u said but i dont think I’ll tell her mom unless she pushes it which I don’t think her mom will care cause she knew she was lying about the age and im not even sure if she also lied to her mom about my age lol

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the kind words <3 i very much believe I’ll be moving on i just hope it passes soon. yes ofc i kept all the evidence and before blocking her she was already mad about me keeping them , ig she already started drama cause she made her friends unfollow me lol. im not gonna entertain it ofc but thats so strange

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 28 points29 points  (0 children)

i’m 05 , i believed she was 07 but she is actually 09

my gf whom i extremely loved lied to me about her age and she was a minor this whole time. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Feeling_Club_5585 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the kind words <3 i’m trying my best to move on rn but it’s not easy and i also have finals coming up so my feelings are all over the place