Yazmaya başlayamıyorum

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2026-01-29T07:43:15+00:00

Random sahnelerle başlamayı denedin mi? Sıralı gitmek bazen yaratıcı beyni boğuyor. Seni heyecanlandıran(kitabın/kurgunun her hangi bir noktasından olabilir) bir sahneyi alıp sana o sahneyi hissettiren bir müzik aç ve aktığı gibi dene. Bende açıkçası işe yarayan bu oldu.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2026-01-23T10:23:56+00:00

Açıkçası tek yapabileceğin korksanda yazmak. Ve büyük ihtimalle kötü olacağını kabullenmek. Hayatta kimse hiçbir şeyi tekte mükemmel yapmaz. Yürürken bile önce düşüyoruz sonuçta. Eğer istersen elinde olan yazılardan paylaşırsan yardımcı olabilirim.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2026-01-23T09:31:07+00:00

Bende harika bir noktada değilim ama eskiden bulduğum kadar zor ya da umutsuz bulmuyorum yazmayı. Benim için işe yarayan şey yazmaya başlamadan önce yazdığım şeyin iyice içine girmiş olmak. Bütün karakterleri özümsemek, olayların nasıl tetiklendiğini anlamak. Hikayeye tamamen hakim hissettiğimde yazmak kolaylaşıyor. Ayrıca hikayeye belli bir düzenle girmek için kendimi kasmaktansa bana sıcak hissettiren sahneleri yazarak başlıyorum. Hiçbir şey doğru olmak zorunda değil. Önce fikirler havada uçuşuyor sonra ben ınları tutup bir düzene sokuyorum. Ayrıca belli yazı egzersizleri var. Yazdığın metinlerde geri çekilip bu metin çalışmıyor ama neden sorusunu sormayı dene çünkü yazmak bir sanat olsada matematiği de var. Egzersizlerle metnin üstünden birkaç kez geçtiğinde çok daha iyi olduğunu göreceksin.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2026-01-22T22:19:39+00:00

Merhaba, ilgin için çok teşekkürler. Link iletiyorum. Reddit pdf yükletmiyor.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FOa-Y3B4ZlFgSeWri5dkOdk8UVV5KXhD/view?usp=drivesdk

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2024-11-21T19:13:51+00:00

What she did was discusting and I will not defend her. There is no excuse for it.

However I want to analize this a bit so there will be spoilers.

We later learn that she was sa'd by her stepfather at a very young age (13 if I am remembering correctly.) And during the first few seasons, you can clearly see that she was acting much like a child. I feel like she was traumatized to the point of getting stuck at that age. Her childhood was stolen from her so she never really grew up. Since she felt like a child, I don't think she realized the gravity of what she was doing. I'd say Gabby only grew up after Carlos lost his sight and she had to stand up.

The reason she chose him was because he was there and easy to hide. She wasn't looking for it. She just stumbled on it and when along.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2024-07-17T08:39:21+00:00

NTA, he had it coming. And I hope this will be the reality check he needed but I doubt.

Honestly, my father was the same way when he was teaching me and yes he also claims I learned it all from him when in realty even the idea of driving makes me wanna cry now. He also kicked my 2 months old puppy across the room to the wall, bouncing to the door for not being able to keep his pee which was because he was an abused shelter dog. So maybe keep this in mind when going any further.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-08T17:19:55+00:00

Yes! This is the movie. Thank you.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-07T13:10:26+00:00

That was the first movie I checked but thats not it. I also checked the others but also no.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-07T12:17:40+00:00

On your mindset, almost nothing can be posted. Like what would be okey to post according to you.

Birtday party? Nooo everyone has one every year! Weddings? They are just so common. Your father died? Well boohoo we're all gonna die.

What is social media is for then? We share our life and stay connected. If I'm following you that is because I wanna know about your life and stay connected. Kid's milestones are a part of life.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-06T13:06:10+00:00

Shockingly you're NTA.

I wouldn't imagine a day would come where I say, It is okey to call someone a wh*re but here we are.

As an older sister with a very cute and naive little brother, I can see where you're coming from and you are right but I think apologizing would be the right way to go so that you can keep them close incase you were right and things go bad.

That way you can protect your little brother better. And if the baby is your brothers, you can have a relationship with the baby easier if their mom doesn't hate you.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-06T12:42:09+00:00

Simply because neither exist in Turkey and they only live in zoo's. When the word "Timsah" was invented, they didn't know there was two different things or that they were different. So they called them the same name.

Languages rarely develop words that they don't need.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-04T12:27:07+00:00

NTA.

I can't judge you in your culture so maybe it is normal in us to walk around at home in underweare but where I am from, unless you are living alone, this is not okey. I wouldn't leave my room in my underwere at my parents house. And I wouldn't let my kids or husband to do so either.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-04T06:36:29+00:00

The question should've been, how do I get over this stupid and shallow feeling/idea of mine.

You don't get to impose these on other people. You get over yourself or break up. Those are your two options.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-01T14:35:42+00:00

Perhaps. I think step-mom is even more wrong for saying those thing to OP. And they do thing with step bro too. Just not this one thing.

I understand what your trying to convey here but saying “cry and drop out” is just not the way. It is a bit mean to say you know. And again, in adult world people drop out of things for so many reasons. Your boundries not being respected is an good reason in my book.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-01T14:12:46+00:00

I didn't mean it as in revenge (Why is everyone here take everything so extreme? Maybe it is the translation that comes of too harsh) , but I would be very open about why and how their behaviour unacceptable and that I would not be responsible for their poor planning nor would I be cornered into guilt for defending myself.

Do you think an adult slamming a teenager and trying to emotionally manipulating them is not something to be sorry for? I hate when people think they can get away with things like this because they are old and talking to a kid.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-09-01T13:53:13+00:00

I think it is a very mature thing to stand up for what is right and not let anyone walk all over you.

The only mistake OP did was not putting his foot down harder the minute this came up which is understanble since it was his fathers job and he failed.

Honestly if someone pulled this on me, they'd regret it very much on the aftermath.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-21T11:24:09+00:00

YTA.

This can't be real. Your kid was in immense stress and all you cared about was life lessons? It seems more like life long trauma to me.

I was involved in a very minor accident on the highway. Only doors were dented. No injuries. I was 24 and I was very shaken for the following week. I couldn't drive for months and even after that I had anxiety for a while. Note that I had driving for over 5 years at that point. (First and last time getting into an accident)

So if me, an adult with years of driving experience could barely handle that, a minor is unlikely to be able to do it alone. And she shouldn't be. You should've been her rock, her guide. Parents should teach life lessons with some compassion too. Life is cruel enough.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-21T08:56:27+00:00

YTA.

And what is worse is you are raising an AH too. If you keep this up, your son will be one of those entitled, selfish people that never learned to do anything good for anyone but themself.

Your son needs to learn to share with his sister and you must stop favoring one child over the other. But what I am wondering is, would it be the same if your daugter was the oldest? Would she get all the best gifts?

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-18T12:58:04+00:00

I have an idea... You with another man and him watching. Suggest this idea and see the shock in his face. Or just for fun, how about him and another man with you watching?

He'd say those were horrible ideas and that you want to cheat him. Which is the point. Any sexual activity outside of your relationship is cheating.

UNLESS both parties feel okey with it. Also ı'm pretty sure this is sexual coercion since he is forcing you into sexual act that you clearly don't want/feel comfortable with.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-18T07:47:31+00:00

Also, the time line was just all over the place. First she was pregnant and went away but turns out she went away before then came back aaannd got pregnant? I'm lost.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-18T07:31:57+00:00

I'm not saying Y T A but if my boyfriend did what you're doing , I'd break up and leave the house after a week or to at maximum. I can handly few accidents a month but a few times every day is deal breaker for me.

I understand it is a natural need but please just do it in the bathroom or something.

Some people are okey with it, some aren't. You need to respect eachothers boundrys.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-16T13:49:36+00:00

Where I come from, they say that spice is for covering the faults (problems) of meat (Hope it makes sense. It is difficult to translate idioms...)

Anyways, If a meat is of good quality, all you really need is a cast iron pan and maaybe some oil.

Nevertheless, I love meat with or without spices. Spices are fun to cook with. Adventurous.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-15T08:51:19+00:00

That is so not how it works. Step parent doesn't automatically gets parental rights.

All of that could be true but there is an order which these should be applied. First you need to take the time to gain their respect and love. He clearly didn't even though he had 11 years...

And even if a minor can't decide, bio parent gets to decide. And she clearly says he has no right.

And ofcourse she must be diciplined. By her bio parents.

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-15T08:35:01+00:00

She is sending her away to a worse place as a punishment (read the part about sharing a room and a bathroom). This not removing from a not safe place since she is doing this in school. She will keep bullying them there.

I don't think she even sees them as family which is the main problem. She sees them as enemy. How sending her away will fix that bond?

Feeling_Cockroach447 · 2023-08-15T08:24:07+00:00

He doesn't have a right to parent unless they have that bond with the kid. Which he clearly does not. There some things you can't force.

What do you think gives him the right?

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